A recent survey found that 78% of American women own a dildo for personal use. It’s not the ‘50s anymore! The days of being frigid and demure are long gone – modern women are frequenting sex shops and looking for well-shaped pieces of silicone to help get them off. Who can blame them?
Here I’ve compiled 27 of the best sex toys for her that I could find, covering all sorts of categories from real feel dildos to rabbit vibrator toys to the vibrating massage wand that started a feminist revolution. If you’re looking to explore your sexuality with intense masturbation and crazy orgasms, look no further.
27 Great Sex Toys For Women
Lovense Lush 2
Best For: Remote control and long-distance fun!
Lovense are well known for creating couples sex toys that can be controlled on your smartphone via their Lovense Remote app. If you’re both connected to Wi-Fi, this means that you and your partner can control one another’s sex toys from the other side of the world if necessary! The Lush 2 is a remote-controlled vibrating love egg featuring a large motor with several vibration modes which can deliver powerful pulses to your pussy for up to 3 hours. Hold on tight!
Njoy Pure Wand
Best For: G-spot stimulation without vibrations
The Njoy Pure Wand is quite possibly the most amazing sex toy ever created – and this is coming from someone who owns A LOT of sex toys. This simple curved dildo is made from 100% medical-grade stainless steel, featuring bulbous heads at each end which are designed to massage your internal G-spot. In a rare occurrence, this wand is also one of the top sex toys for men who want to massage their prostate (or P-spot) inside their bottom. It’s rare to find a unisex adult toy, let alone one that’s so good!
Sweet Vibrations “Perfect Match” Rabbit Vibrator
Best For: Intense orgasms on a budget
Sweet Vibrations are a really reputable female-owned sex toy manufacturer famous for their "forever warranty" policy. Basically, if you don’t like their toys for any reason, they’ll give you a full refund no questions asked! Their “Perfect Match” is without a doubt one of the best rabbit vibrators you’ll find online. What’s more, it only costs $39.99! Boasting a G spot vibrator and clitoral vibrator, this waterproof sex toy is a masturbator’s wet dream.
Purple Rain Silicone Dildo
Best For: Turning yourself into a symbol… of pleasure?
This platinum-cured silicone dildo comes with a suction cup base, so it’s easy to attach to a flat wall/floor/surface if you’re the kind of girl who prefers to ride a dildo than use it with her hands. With a curved shape and 6 inches of insertable length, this pretty purple sex aid is perfect for hitting your G spot. The silicone they’ve used is fairly flexible, so there’s quite a lot of “give” to it, lending itself to a comfortable ride. Prince would be proud.
Crave Vesper Necklace Vibrator
Best For: Matching your bullet vibrator to your outfit.
You’ve heard of bullet vibrators disguised as lipstick, but what about a vibrator you can wear? This 3.75-inch necklace pendant conveniently doubles as a small vibrator, hanging from a stainless-steel chain when not in use. It’s USB rechargeable and has 4 vibration modes – low, medium, high, and pulsing. Granted, it’s not got a ton of settings, but it has shitloads of subtlety! This unique sex toy for her comes in silver, gold, and rose gold options, so you can finally find a vibrator that matches your skin tone.
Glass Butt Plugs
Best For: Advanced anal plugging
Glass butt plugs are incredibly pretty sex toys, especially the selection from Crystal Delights. If you’re an experienced anal plugger who wants a stiffer butt plug to see them through the day, plugs such as the Pineapple Delight are perfect. Oh, did I mention that it’s made with gold-fumed glass and a Glacier Blue Rose Swarovski crystal? Talk about opulence.
Best For: Having fun in the bath!
I love this thing. It’s simple, it’s pink, and you can use it in a bubble bath… what’s not to love? Use the cute ribbon to tie this “water diverter” to your tap/faucet, angle the stream of water so that it massages your pussy, and voila! Obviously, make sure that the water is a safe temperature for such a sensitive part of your womanhood, and try not to drown while moaning in pleasure.
Best For: Heightening your sensitivity during play.
Scientists have found that nipple stimulation sends signals to the brain in the same way that clitoral stimulation does. This helps to explain why the nipples are such a powerful erogenous zone for men and women.
Best For: Rich people who enjoy things of beauty.
Okay, this one’s a little bit of a gimmick, but it’s fun so I thought I’d pop it in here. The Lelo Inez is a very expensive 24 karat gold-plated vibrator with multiple vibration modes to choose from. Despite being coated in gold, it’s 100% body-safe and suitable for insertion – just make sure you use a high-quality lube I guess! The Inez also comes in a cheaper stainless steel version, but it’s still ridiculously expensive and a thing of beauty.
If I just pay my bills, pay my rent, buy cheap food, and basically never leave the house, then I might be able to afford the gold-plated Lelo Inez in 18 months or so. Maybe.
Best For: Strapless strap-on fun!
The Tantus Feeldoe is the original “strapless strapon” which popularized this unique design. Popular as a lesbian strap on dildo due to its ability to pleasure 2 women at once, the dildo is held in place by a vibrating bulb which the “giving” partner inserts into their vagina and holds in place with her pelvic floor muscles. Tantus recommend wearing it around the house to get used to holding it in place. Maybe just shut the curtains if you’re gonna give that a go.
Best For: Your daily recommended Vitamin “D”.
The phone companies will never admit it, but we all know that the Eggplant emoji is meant to be a cock and the peach emoji an arse. Lush even made a cheeky Eggplant Emoji bath bomb which fizzed away "more vigorously" at the tip. Well now you can have a fun little eggplant vibrator to go with your bath bomb! This 4.84-inch soft silicone vibrating eggplant is a cute and discreet sex toy for her.
Ben Wa Balls
Best For: Improving orgasms and tightening the vagina.
Ben Wa Balls (or Benoit Balls) are small weighted balls which you hold in place with your Kegel muscles for extended periods of time throughout the day, similarly to how you’d hold a tampon in place. These nifty little balls can help to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles around your vagina, making your orgasms stronger, your vagina tighter, and reducing the risk of incontinence when you get older. Our Ben Wa Balls guide has plenty of products to try.
Best For: Using with suction cup dildos
We’ve all had the experience – you’re riding a suction cup dildo which you’ve stuck to the wall or the floor, only for it to un-suck itself or fall off. Even if you’re lucky enough to keep it in place, fucking your wall requires some flexibility that we’re not all blessed with. Luckily, the TOM suction dildo mount is a purpose-built mount which keeps those bad boys in a nice, comfortable position. If you wanna get more creative, the Love Arc self-propelled sex machine is a great option which is compatible with many, many sex toys.
Best For: Vibrating buttplug fans!
Like most Lovense products, the Hush can be controlled with an app on your phone. This vibrating butt plug is a great unisex adult toy which is ergonomically designed to stay in place all day long. It has 120 hours of standby time and a special spiraled neck design which traps lube inside your sphincter, keeping you comfortable. If you like to be teased remotely by your partner, this toy is perfect. I wrote a Lovense Hush review with some pictures and further detail.
Best For: Pegging, lesbian sex, men with ED, trans guys… take your pick
Strap-ons are actually really versatile toys that can be worn by all sorts of people. Whether you’re a lesbian, a man with erectile dysfunction, a woman who wants to peg her man, or anything else, a strap-on kit gives you loads of sexual positions to try. Our strap-on guide goes into more detail, but SheVibe have a ton of great strap-on kits, whether you’re a femdom or a trans man!
Best For: Sex machine fans on a budget
If you’ve ever looked into fuck machines (that is, machines which automatically “fuck” you with a dildo) then you’ve probably heard of the historic Sybian sex machines that have been around since the ‘80s. The Tremor is a cheaper alternative to the Sybian, featuring a cool Rock ‘n Roll theme, interchangeable attachments, and soft silicone pads which are dishwasher safe. The remote control features guitar amp-style nobs which control the “rock” and “roll” of this sex machine. It’s gimmicky, but it’s frequently lauded as one of the greatest sexual toys out there.
Pop! Ejaculating Dildo
Best For: Squirting “semen” inside you for a realistic experience
Some people just really like cum, and there’s nothing wrong with that!
If you enjoy using a dildo but you also like to feel a penis climaxing inside you, then this 6.5-inch ejaculating dildo by Semenette is just what you need for an intense masturbation session. Sometimes it’s easier to use with a partner who can squirt the pump for you at an opportune moment, but you do you.
Best For: Creating your own vibration patterns
The Squish is an unusual product because it doesn’t really look like a typical sex toy. I mean, it doesn’t really look like anything. It’s a squishy blob which you squish (funnily enough) in your hand to produce vibrations. The harder you squeeze, the more intensely it vibrates. You can also record your own custom vibration patterns to really personalize your clitoral stimulation experience. It’s not the easiest women’s sex toy to explain in words, so here’s a YouTube video which should help.
Hitachi Magic Wand
Best For: Powerful vibrations and crazy orgasms
This is the vibrating massage wand that started a feminist revolution. Originally designed as a back massager, feminist and sex educator Betty Dodson discovered in the ‘70s that the Magic Wand could be used for masturbation, and the rest is history. This vibrating massage wand produces deep, powerful vibrations which lead to crazy otherworldly orgasms. It can also be used as muscle massager too, so you could get away with using it discreetly.
Lelo Sona 2
Best For: Sonic clitoral stimulation
A lady’s clitoral complex is actually very large and a lot deeper than the small amount we can see. The Lelo Sona uses sonic waves to pulse through this tissue and reach your deeper clitoral tissue, supposedly stimulating 75% more of your clitoris than regular old vibrating cocks and massagers. It won a Cosmopolitan "Sexellence" Award in 2019, as well as many other prestigious design awards. It’s designed to feel like standing next to a bass subwoofer in a club, but without all the loud music and booze.
Best For: Hands-free masturbation fun!
The Stronic Surf is a thrusting dildo. Yep, there are dildos that thrust on their own. The Surf has a wavy design which helps to heighten stimulation, featuring an array of motors which propel the toy back and forth while you hold it in place with your pelvic floor muscles. It takes a while to get used to, but once you pop, you can’t stop! It’s got 5.6 inches of insertable length, 7 speeds, and 3 thrusting rhythms, so there’s enough to keep you entertained for hours.
Best For: Dual G spot and clitoral stimulation… with graphs!
This is one of the greatest rabbit vibrator toys you’ll ever come across, combining clitoral stimulation with a powerful G spot vibrator. It’s designed by 2 women – an artist and an engineer – who combined their skills to create an ergonomic rabbit vibrator which syncs to your smartphone via Bluetooth. The weird thing about this women’s sex toy is that it gives you insights, graphs, and statistics about your masturbation experience, helping to supposedly improve your performance over time!
Best For: The real feel dildo experience.
“Dirk” is such a weird name for a dildo, I can only assume that it’s named after Dirk Diggler from Boogie Nights. Nonetheless, this is basically the most realistic and lifelike dildo on the face on the earth. It’s not cheap, but it comes with “triple layering and Sil-Slide™ technology sliding outer skin as well as individual floating testicles”. Basically, it’s a very realistic cock. The Dirk model is the largest, coming in at 8.5 inches, while the other models are 6.5 inches long. There are even changeable skin tones to represent different ethnicities.
Lelo Mia 2
Best For: “Doing your lipstick”. Wink Wink.
Every woman needs a lipstick bullet vibrator – they’re small, they’re subtle, and they can fall out of your bag without looking obvious. The Lelo Mia 2 is a USB rechargeable lipstick bullet vibrator which comes in 4 different colors, though I would argue that the black option is the most inconspicuous. There are 6 vibration modes, all of which are fairly quiet, so you can get your rocks off in private with your cheeky little “lipstick”.
Clone a Pussy/ Clone a Willy
Best For: Hot and amusing couples presents.
If you’re after fun couples sex toys or erotic presents, you could try the Clone a Pussy or Clone a Willy kits from Empire Labs! It’s a little fiddly, but these at-home molding kits are designed to let you recreate your genitals into a sex toy for your partner to use when you’re not around. We did a Clone a Willy review which turned out pretty well, but I’ll warn you that it’s easier said than done.
Best For: Blended orgasms
The Lelo Soraya rabbit vibrator is great for producing intense blended orgasms – a combination of clitoral and internal G spot orgasms. It also has the benefit of looking really sleek and fancy, looking right at home in anyone’s sex drawer. It has an impressive 4-hour battery life, one of the longest I’ve stumbled across, and it comes with 8 whisper-quiet vibration modes to experiment with. It even comes with its own satin storage pouch – a nice detail that many sex toy manufacturers forget about.
Best For: Trying new positions with your partner.
You can get sex chairs in all sorts of shapes and sizes, from cute little sex stools to larger chaise longue-style sex sofas. I know that everyone’s living situation is different, which is why I’d recommend checking out our sex chairs guide for more information on sex chairs that would be suitable for your apartment or house. Some sex chairs are curved in such a way that dozens of sex positions are easily possible, while others are designed with things like queening in mind.
Conclusion - What's the Best Female Sex Toy For Women?
Well, I hope you enjoyed that round-up of brilliant sex toys for women! We explored a lot in this sex toys guide, from glass butt plugs to queening stools – hopefully you stumbled across something that took your fancy! Whatever you’re into, just make sure to stay safe, buy from reputable sex shops, and most importantly… have fun!