It can be hard to find a realistic dildo that looks and feels like an actual dick.
For starters, the most realistic dildos have multiple layers of silicone material to replicate the feel of skin, or are molded from actual dicks to get a lifelike shape. Some are even hand-painted by artists for the perfect flushed color of a fully erect cock.
To help introduce you to this more realistic side of the dildo world, I've put together this guide to 33 of the very best lifelike dildos.
Budget Realistic Dildos
O-ring, Suction cup
Pop Squirting Dildo
FleshJack Boys Collection
Posable Dildos By New York Toy Collective
All the dildos on this list are made of silicone, a body-safe material that is easy to sanitize. Be careful of made-in-china dildos on Amazon, which may contain toxic chemicals that cause burns and rashes (Sex toys are still unregulated in most countries, including the USA).
Most Realistic: RealCock Dildos
RealDoll's 'RealCock' dildos are as much works of art as they are dildos. They are handmade to order using a process that takes days, including 'hand-painting' the dildo with pigmented silicone.
While most realistic dildos have 1-2 layers of silicone, the RealCocks have three. There's a firmer inner layer, a soft outer layer, and finally a skin layer that moves like real skin.
Right now there are two types of RealCock: the RealCock 2 and the RealCock DTF.
Length: 8 in, Girth: 6.5 inches, Diameter: 2 inches
This is the bigger of the two RealCocks at 8 inches in length and 6.5 inches girth. I find this one more aesthetically pleasing than the RealCock DTF.
You can actually grab the skin and feel it gliding on the silicone shaft. The balls are also super realistic, made of floating silicone inside a silicone gel. When you squeeze them it feels just like real testicles, which is a unique detail over most other realistic cocks.
The big downside of this guy is the price. At $500 it's a bit too expensive for most of us and you can get a dildo that feels just as realistic at a fraction of the price.
Length: 6.5 in Girth: 5.5 in Diameter: 1.87 in
The big difference with the DTF is it is vac-u-lock harness compatible. Where as with the RealCock 2 you will need to use an O-ring harness.
As for size, it's a bit smaller than the RealCock 2 and closer to the average penis length, but still a larger than average girth. One improvement on the DTF is that the veins really pop, where as in the RealCock2 they were more under the skin.
Pop! Realistic Squirting Dildo
If ejaculation is something you love about the real thing, than the Pop squirting dildo might be for you.
At the flick of your fingers you can make this guy cum on command, shooting fake semen across a room. For the fake jizz, you can use water, which shoots the farthest; milky-colored lube, like the Sliquid Silk; and other specially made fake semen. For gathering the fluid it works like a turkey baster, you just dip the tip into the liquid and squeeze the bulb.
The small bulb it comes with holds 2 mL of liquid, which delivers a realistic amount of fake semen in my experience.
You can also buy a bigger 22 mL bulb for $35. The 22 mL delivers a massive load, making it even more fun, in my opinion. I'm also a fan of how it doubles as a watering dildo for my plants.
VixSkin Lifelike Dildos
Vixen Creations is a sex toy company created by Marilyn Bishara, a former Good Vibrations employee, who started making dildos in her kitchen in 1994. She set out with a mission to make only the best quality silicone dildos, with safe materials that wouldn't cause irritation or infections to people that used them (like some toxic chinese-made dildos can).
Her company continued to grow through the 90s and 2000s and it is now one of the biggest dildo manufacturers in the USA.
One of Vixen Creations creations is Vixskin, their own special silicone that is designed to feel extra realistic. It works by having a small amount of liquid silicone suspended between the molecules, creating an extra soft feel.
My local sex shop, Smitten Kitten, carries a lot of Vixskin dildos at their shop, so i've had the chance to touch most of them. It's definitely a 'different' feel of silicone, it almost feels like Cyberskin and other TPE dildos, but it's actually silicone and non-porous.
There are a lot of vixskin dildos, so i've put together a chart of some of the most popular ones so you can sort by price and size to find one that's best for you. Most of these dildos are available in lifelike colors like caramel, vanilla, chocolate, and black.
Gambler - Huge Realistic Dildo
Fleshjack Boys - Dildos Molded From Real Penises
Fleshjack is owned by the same people that created Fleshlight and focus on creating toys for gay men. They have a line called 'Boys' which contains dildos molded from the actual penises of male models and pornstars.
It's fun to read the bios of each of the 'Boys' and get to know who's member you will be feeling. For example, I learned that Boomer Banks is a Gemini, loves to read, has his own fashion line, and is a strong advocate for the LGBTQ community.
As for feel, these are made from 1 solid single layer of silicone, which still feels awesome, but you won't get that cutting-edge realistic feel that Vixskin and Tantus dual-density dildos have.
There are twenty one Fleshjack Boys in total, a perfect chance for another penis comparison table.
Where He's From
Montreal QC, Canada
Ostrava, Czech Republic
Pohnert Park CA, USA
Los Angeles CA, USA
New York NY, USA
New London CT, USA
Los Angeles CA, USA
Atlanta GA, USA
Houston TX, USA
Riverside CA, USA
Los Angeles CA, USA
Pennsauken NJ, USA
Posable Realistic Dildos By New York Toy Collective
These realistic dildos from New York Toy Collective have a rod inside them that lets you pose the dildo into different positions. The rod is pretty thin so you can't feel it through the soft dual-density silicone that is on top of it.
I think uppercaseCHASE1 explains how it it works better than anyone, here's one of his video reviews of NYTC:
NYTC has five dildos in their collection, four of them posable. Some of them, like Carter and Shilo, can come in many colorful colors and not just natural skin tones.
Ellis (Not Posable)
New York Toy Collective started in 2012, with a mission of creating high quality toys and spreading sex positivity. In addition to their unique posable dildos they have developed tech that lets people scan their penises and then make a dildo replica of themselves.
Realistic Dildos From Tantus
Tantus is an American sex toy company that helped make silicone dildos popular. Everything they sell is body-safe, easy to clean, and will last for years. Not to mention their owner, Metis Black, is super bad-ass.
Even though these don't look hyper-realistic like the RealCock 2 they still feel hyper-realistic. This is because they are all made from two layers of silicone, the inside, is made from firmer silicone, and the outside is made from softer silicone to simulate skin.
Length: 6.5 in / 16.5 cm Girth: 4.7 inches / 12 cm Diameter: 1.5 inches / 3.8 cm
Alan: Lifelike Vibrating Dildo
A lot of the realistic dildos at Tantus have a guy's name, like this one named Alan. This is perfect if a friend finds your dildo collection, you can just say "Oh hey, I see you met Alan! (and Gary, and Mark, and Adam)"
When it comes to being realistic, Alan is the blue-ribbon dildo in the Tantus line. It has wrinkles in the skin, the glans have realistic texture, and it has dual-density silicone for a hard inside and softer outside.
When it comes to coloring though it isn't the masterpiece that the RealCock 2 is. But to be fair that's not really Tantus's goal, they're more focused on making economical, long-lasting and pleasurable toys.
It also includes a bullet vibrator that you can insert through a hole in the bottom all the way to the center of the dildo. This makes the whole dildo vibrate all the way to the tip for some extra sensation.
Length: 6.25 in / 15.9 cm Girth: 5 inches / 12.8 cm Diameter: 1.6 inches / 4.1 cm
Mark O2: Realistic Feeling
Meet Mark, another down-to-earth dildo from the Tantus dual-density collection.
Unlike Alan, Mark has a curve that let's him connect better with g-spots and p-spots that he bumps into on pleasure lane.
The veins are more prominent than Alan, but still soft, for an extra spiraling sensation. And the glans of the penis are smooth, which feels great rubbing against your sweet spot.
If you are going for the best feeling realistic dildo for under $100, this would be a good pick.
Length: 7.5 in / 19 cm Girth: 5.5 inches / 14 cm Diameter: 1.75 inches / 4.4 cm
Uncut: Realistic Uncircumcised Dildo
If you prefer the feel and look of an uncircumcised penis than "Uncut" is a good dildo to take a look at.
It has similar coloring to the other dildos but the head feels like an uncircumcised penis.
The dual-density silicone with the soft outside means that it is easier to warm-up to using this toy anally.
Even though it's a higher price, the extra quality and dual-density feeling means that your other toys will probably end up collecting dust.
Please comment below if you have a favorite dildo from the list, or if there are any realistic dildos missing that you think should be added.
About The Author ~ Ian
In my free time I enjoy designing and crafting my own handmade silicone dildos and then posting them on Etsy. Sextoycollective.com is my other labor of love, a place where I post some DIY guides, sex toy tips, and interactive tools.