Allow me to introduce long distance sex toys!
Here, we're gonna take a look at the best long distance sex toys you can buy right now, as well as give you some tips and tricks. Let's go!
7 Best Long Distance Sex Toys
Many LDR sex toys designed for oppostite-sex couples come in pairs which can be synced together – one for the man and one for the woman. Kiiroo and Lovense also make same-sex versions too.
Kiiroo Onyx & Pearl
The world’s most advanced teledildonics toys
Dutch company Kiiroo actually got their start by making medical supplies and equipment
The Kiiroo Onyx 2 (men) and Kiiroo Pearl 2 (women) are two compatible
The pulsations from the male penis stroker are converted to vibrations in the female Wi-Fi vibrator.
Kiiroo Onyx 2
This toy does it all!
There are 10 contracting rings inside the chamber which send unique pulsations up and down the length of the penis – this is more than just a vibrating Fleshlight.
Kiiroo Pearl 2
Kiiroo Pearl 2 is a female
The Pearl 2 also comes with a modern touch-sensitive control panel which makes it feel really classy and sleek, allowing you to have sensual virtual sex with your partner easily!
As soon as I hear my Kiiroo Pearl 2 buzzing away, I imagine my boyfriend’s cock ejaculating deep inside me.
the Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 Connect
These sex toys for couples are able to effortlessly communicate over Wi-Fi and mimic real sex over 1,000s of miles.
PROS: Light, quiet, powerful (Onyx 2); strong vibrations, reasonable price (Pearl 2)
CONS: Pearl 2 can’t be used anally; Onyx 2 requires manual pumping to cum
Lovense Max & Nora
More vibrations patterns = more fun
Max and Nora
Max and Nora are a pair of remote control sex toys that are controlled via the Lovense Remote app which can be downloaded to most modern Android and iOS phones, tablets, and laptops.
The more the woman thrusts with her Nora vibrator, the more the Max penis stroker vibrates and contracts with air pressure.
Similarly, the more the man thrusts with the Max, the more the Nora vibrates and rotates, massaging the internal G-spot and clitoris simultaneously.
Lovense have recently released the Lovense Max 2, a new version of the Max automatic male masturbator.
The Max is designed with an internal Fleshlight-style sleeve. The toy itself vibrates and contracts to massage your cock, using air pressure to simulate mild suction on your cock.
Combined with the bumpy inner texture of the orifice, the
Many women use rabbit vibrators during sex with their partner, so why not during virtual sex?
Check out our Lovense Nora review for more detail.
The blended orgasm produced by rabbit vibrators is often the most intense orgasm that a woman will ever experience
How the Max and Nora Connect
The Max and Nora couples sex toy set connect and interact with each other via the Lovense Remote app which can be found on the Google Playstore and Apple Appstore.
PROS: Great vibrations, excellent design, high-end materials, perfect for long-distance partners, 1000s of downloadable patterns for solo play
CONS: Some interactivity and connectivity issues
Clone a Willy & Clone a Pussy
It doesn’t get more romantic than this
Next time you’re missing your partner on those quiet nights alone, what if you could pull out their genitals and get busy?
Well now you can! Kind of.
With the Clone a Willy and Clone a Pussy vagina and penis molding kits, you can create an exact replica sex toy of your lover’s nether regions.
The Clone a Willy and Clone a Pussy vagina and penis molding kits include everything you need to create the replica sex toy, such as silicone, molding powder, a stirring stick,
You’ll need to use your own measuring cup, mixing bowls, cardboard, water, stopwatch, scissors, and sharpie pen.
And you know... your cock
Follow the instructions, mixing everything into your mixing bowl. Once the mold is ready, place your genitals into the mold as directed.
The process can be quite difficult, especially for men, as they will need to maintain an erection throughout. Mix the silicone and then pour into the mold to create a replica of your private parts.
PROS: Accurate and realistic results, fun gift, unique couples sex toy idea
CONS: Hard to use, mistakes likely
& OhMiBod Fuse Couples Set
When 3 sex toy companies become 1
To make the mash-up even more confusing, both of these toys are actually powered by Kiiroo technology.
The Fleshlight Launch
Essentially, you can turn a Fleshlight toy into an automatic penis masturbator, giving men dozens of potential Fleshlight sensations to choose from instead of the usual one-size-fits-all situation.
The OhMiBod Fuse
The Fuse offers dual clitoris and G-spot stimulation thanks to 2 powerful internal motors.
This app-controlled vibrator comes in a sleek design and a sturdy silicone build
Personally, I think it looks like a high-tech kitchen gadget, but maybe you're into that.
How the Launch and Fuse Connect
Simply download the FeelConnect app from the Apple AppStore or Google PlayStore and sync the toys to control each other’s vibrations.
Thanks to its touch-sensitive capabilities, the Fuse responds to touches from your skin and internal vaginal walls, sending signals to the Launch as the pleasure becomes more intense.
You and your partner can sync strokes and vibrations, as well as videos and VR content. You can even sync your vibes to the beat of a Spotify track.
PROS: Touch-sensitive technology, VR content, able to use different Fleshlight sleeves
CONS: Pricey, not the most aesthetically pleasing
Lovense Lush & Hush (LDR Sex Toys)
The Lovense Lush is a Bluetooth-controlled
Both are quiet, 100% waterproof, app-controlled, and made from body-safe silicone.
The Lush G-Spot Vibrator
Check out our Lush 2 review for more detail on the latest Lush
The Hush Vibrating Butt Plug
In other words, your partner can switch it on and control it whenever they feel like it.
Check out our Lovense Hush review for more detail!
How the Lush and Hush Connect
The Lush and Hush connect via the Lovense Remote app. Once you’ve both downloaded the app and signed up as members, you can invite each other to become “friends” and have access over each other’s devices.
If you’re looking to tease one another in real-time, the app lets you control vibration intensity by sliding your fingers around the screen, so you can respond to their moans and groans with the gentle flick of a finger.
PROS: Comfortable, discreet, great for all-day public play
CONS: Don’t sync up, one partner will always be busy controlling things
Want to make her pussy quiver from afar? Then you need the We-Vibe Sync, a 100% waterproof long-distance vibrator which is flexible enough to bend to different vagina shapes, helping to make this a hands-free wearable vibrator.
It even won the 2018 Beauty Heaven Award for Best Feminine Pleasure Device.
In the box, you'll find a physical remote control, which has a limit of 3 meters, but for long-distance usage, you can use the We-Connect app. With the app, you can control the 10 vibration patterns and 8 speeds from wherever you are in the world.
PROS: Durable, high-powered, flexible, wearable vibrator, app control
Video calling has never been sexier
Vibease is a wearable clitoral vibrator that can be used for solo play or long-distance couples’ sex. Many women wear the Vibease in their panties throughout the day.
Invented in 2013, the Vibease was the world's first wearable smart vibrator that could be controlled through a smartphone app.
The beauty of this remote controlled vibrator is in its simplicity. It comes with two buttons – one button turns the device on/off while the other switches through the 5 vibration modes.
It’s a cool, quiet, and well-integrated toy, but it doesn’t come with a “male” sex toy equivalent, which is a shame.
PROS: Quiet, affordable, integrating video calling, longstanding reputation
CONS: No “male” equivalent, very simple design
What Are Long Distance Sex Toys?
Long distance sex toys, a.k.a teledildonics, let you have virtual sex with your partner, even if they're on the other side of the earth.
Next time you Skype and talk dirty, your partner could control your intimate sexual pleasure with a long-distance sex toy app on their phone, tablet, or laptop.
Thanks to couples sex toys manufacturers like Lovense and WeVibe, app-controlled sex toys are now a reality that is helping to spice up long distance relationships (or LDRs for short) all over the globe.
Haptic Feedback TechnologyThese LDR (long distance relationships) sex toys use technology like haptic feedback to record and send simulations to your partner’s toy.
Usually you have to be connected to Wi-Fi and/or Bluetooth via a digital device like your smartphone, but as long as you have a good connection, everything works like a charm.
For example, with the Onyx & Pearl LDR sex toys, the Pearl vibrator sends signals to the Onyx 2 stroker via Wi-Fi, causing them to move and pulse in sync with one another.
If you’re on webcam to your partner, you’ll feel like you’re having sex in the same “rhythm” as them, making your next video call very exciting and intimate.
There’s a bunch of fun sex toys for long distance couples, whether you’re into phone-controlled vibrators, remote control Fleshlight alternatives, or app-controlled butt plugs!
Bluetooth Sex Toys Work?
Usually, a Bluetooth sex toy will be paired to a nearby smartphone or tablet which is then connected to Wi-Fi. Through this Wi-Fi connection, a partner with access can control the wireless sex toy from the other side of the world.
Toys like remote-control vibrators and penis strokers use vibrations, rotations, and contractions to deliver sexual pleasure to the vagina or penis, depending on the design of the sex toy.
This makes it possible to have intense virtual sex with your partner while video chatting or calling each other.
Are LDR Sex Toys Worth the Money?
It can be hard for long-distance couples to keep their passion burning strong. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but too much absence can be dangerous in the long run.
Long distance relationships are never easy!
A Vibrator You Can Control From Your Phone
For the last 90 years, we've been able to phone someone on the other side of the planet. For the last 5 or so years, we’ve been able to have virtual sex from the other side of the planet too.
App-controlled sex toys help you to tide yourselves over until a time that you can be together in person again, whether your partner is traveling around the world for work or spending the semester at a distant college.
Keeping the Fire Alive
LDRs are rarely smooth sailing, but long-distance sex toys help couples in this type of relationship keep the fire alive. They give you and your partner something to look forward to.
We all need to get off!
Cum-clusion: Should You Buy A Long Distance Sex Toy?
Sure, a remote control sex toy is never going to replace your lover, and they cannot ever be as good as the real thing in person.
However, if those nights alone are hard to bear, long distance sex toys like the Lovense Max & Nora could be the perfect thing to bring you together from different sides of the globe from some steamy virtual cybersex.
Whichever you choose, remember to stay safe and have fun!