The Best Long-Distance Sex Toys for Couples: A Guide to Teledildonics

Long distance relationships take effort to maintain. You can spend hours and hours pondering ways to feel connected with your partner, who can be thousands of miles away.

Sex and intimacy are big factors, and thanks to technology, couples in long distance relationships have it a bit easier now. There’s an umbrella of long distance sex toys known as teledildonics that people in LDRs can use to spice up their love life.

Long distance sex toys, aka teledildonics let you have virtual sex with a partner, even if they're on the other side of the earth.

Long distance sex toys use haptic feedback to record and send simulations to your partner wherever they are.  So as a lady takes a vibrator within her, a guy's stroker will move in sync with it using wifi.  Combine this with a phone call and a webcam and you can simulate a feeling of closeness.

Long distance toys for couples can also be controlled via a smartphone app, like in the lovense models.  More on those in the next section.

Top 9 Long Distance Sex Toys

Just like us, most long distance sex toys come in couples.  One for the guy parts and one for the gal parts.  So for this section we're pairing up and reviewing the cutest long distance sex toys that work in sync.

Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 


One Liner: A sleek set long-distance sex toys to keep the fire burning.

Pros: Light, quiet, powerful (Onyx 2); strong vibrations, reasonable price (Pearl 2)

Cons: The Pearl 2 doesn’t have a flared base hence impractical for anal play.

Best for: Quality virtual sex. 

Despite starting as a medical equipment manufacturer, Kiiroo is quickly rising to become one of the biggest names in the sex toy industry. The Kiiroo Onyx 2 (men) and Pearl 2 (women) are two compatible sex toys that work in tandem to create real-time sexual escapades for couples in long distance relationships. The Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 is a set of sex toys that can help couples in long distance relationships relax and enjoy each other simultaneously.

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Kiiroo Onyx 2

Onyx 2 responds to touch and lets you have virtual sex with your partner through VR. There is a touch-sensitive strip on the front of the device that allows you to change between the three modes and control the speed. To give the device a more fantastic feel and enhance utility, the manufacturer has fitted ten contracting rings inside the device.

Info Snippet: The actual sensations from the contracting rings are pleasurable but not enough to cause orgasm. You’ll have to thrust to climax.

Kiiroo Pearl 2

Kiiroo Pearl 2 is a female vibrator with 9 different vibration settings ranging from slow pulsations to ultra-high vibrations. The Pearl 2 is modern and easy to use, thanks to the highly responsive touch interface. Just like the Onyx 2, Pearl 2 responds to touch and lets you have virtual sex with your partner through VR.

How Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 Connect

Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 sex toys connect via the FeelConnect app for Android and iOS to allow couples in LDRs have virtual sex. Vibrations produced in one of the toys is converted to equivalent pulsations and induced in the other device. This means that changes vibrations in her Pearl 2 will change the thrust in your Onyx 2 and vice versa. The Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 make the best use of wireless technology one can imagine.

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Lovense Max and Nora


One Liner: A feature-rich couple sex toy set for long distance sex.

Pros: Perfect for long distance sex, great vibrations, excellent design, high-end materials.

Cons: Interactivity could use some improvements.

Best for: Strong vibrations.

Max and Nora by Lovense is a pair of sex toys that can be controlled wirelessly via the internet. Both the Max (male toy) and Nora (female toy) are amazingly high-quality sex toys on their own. Both come in an ergonomic design and deliver pleasurable vibrations that can be controlled through a phone app. Max and Nora can be used together allowing couples in different parts of the world to have virtual sex.

Lovense Max 

The Max comes in a sleek silicone build and overall impressive design. The opening of the male sex toy features a vagina. With an opening, inner labia, and clitoris, the Max is designed pretty accurately to match the female anatomy for a more lifelike experience. Rather than hard or rubbery like in most male masturbators, the sleeve on the Max is soft, smooth, and quite lifelike.

Lovense Nora

The Nora comes in a gorgeous rabbit style design. The internal portion of the device features a clitoral mound and is curved to ensure intense g-spot stimulation. The shaft rotates as the clitoral mound vibrates. The Nora makes an excellent vibrator even on its own. If you are a beginner who prefers smaller girth, you’ll love the Nora with its slim shaft that’s extremely easy to insert.

How the Max and Nora Connect

The Max and Nora couples sex toy set connect and interact with each other via the BodyChat app when they are used together. The toys also control each other when used simultaneously using feedback. For instance, the more the woman thrusts with her Nora, the more the Max vibrates and contracts with air pressure. Similarly, the more the man thrusts with the Max, the more the Nora vibrates and rotates.

Clone a Willy and Clone a Pussy


One Liner: A penis or vagina moulding kit that allows you to create a replica of your partner’s privates.

Pros: Accurate and realistic results, unique.

Cons: The kit is not exactly easy to use.

Best for: Adventurous LDR couples.

When you are in a long-distance relationship with your partner, having a special part of them wherever you are might make things a little easier. With a Clone a Willy and Clone a Pussy vagina or penis moulding kit, you can create an exact replica sex toy of your lover’s plaything. That way, you can have your partner’s vagina or penis to play around with wherever you are.

The Process

The Clone a Willy and Clone a Pussy vagina or penis moulding kit includes everything you need to create the replica sex toy. This includes clear and skinned coloured silicone, moulding powder, stirring stick, thermometer, and a plastic vibrator (for Clone a Willy only). You’ll need measuring cup, mixing bowls, cardboard, water, stopwatch, scissors, and pen or sharpie.

Info Snippet: A replica vagina made with a Clone a Pussy vagina moulding kit is just an outline of the outer female genitalia and can’t be used as a toy.

Mix everything according to the instructions and when you’re done, stick your genitals into the mixing bowl. This part of the process can be quite uncomfortable. It takes a couple of minutes for the mixture to mould into the shape of your genitals. Mix the silicone which you’ll then pour into the mould to create a replica of your private parts.

Launch and Fuse Couples Set


One Liner: A lightweight and portable set of couples’ sex toys.

Pros: Feature full, VR content.

Cons: Pricey.

Best for: Haptic vibrations.

Fleshlight is a name that’s quickly becoming synonymous with handheld masturbators. Their recent innovation, the Fleshlight Launch has taken the industry by storm. This new toy links up pretty well with the OhMiBod Fuse to create one of the best couples’ sex toys set in the market. The Fuse is simply a dual-stim Bluetooth-enabled rabbit vibrator, but better than your average vibrator in a lot of ways.

The Launch

Fleshlight Launch is an interactive sex toy that simulates sex with stroking sensations focused on the penis. This app-controlled sex toy for men was developed by Kiiroo and is compatible with numerous devices out there, which makes it the perfect long-distance sex toy out there.

The Fuse  

OhMiBod Fuse is the haptic companion of the Fleshlight Launch. This touch sensitive female vibrator offers dual stimulation, thanks to two powerful interior motors. The Fuse comes in a sleek design and a sturdy silicone build. The Fuse is a quite advanced sex toy but it gets the basics right too.

How the Launch and Fuse Connect

When used together, Fleshlight Launch and OhMiBod Fuse create one of the best couple’s sex toys in the market. Simply download the FeelConnect app and sync the toys via Bluetooth to control each other’s vibrations. The Fuse responds to skin and internal contact, thanks to its touch-sensitive capability. This long-distance sex toy set offers a lot of features. You and your partner can sync strokes and vibrations videos, VR content, and Spotify music.

Small_Quote: “Simply download the FeelConnect app and sync the toys via Bluetooth to control each other’s vibrations.”

Lush & Hush


One Liner: A powerful set of Bluetooth controlled vibrating egg and vibrating butt plug.

Pros: Comfortable, discreet, and quiet in both cases.

Con: Connectivity problems.

Best for: Beginners trying LDR sex toys.

The Lovense Lush is a Bluetooth controlled vibrating egg while the Hush is a butt plug. This set of sex toys can be used by couples over long distances. While Lush and Hush can be controlled via an app, they don’t sync with each other or other devices. One partner must control the toy the other is using when using Lush and Hush over long distances.

The Lush

The Lush is a silent, waterproof bullet/egg vibrator made from pure silicone. With the exception of the antennae, the entire toy goes inside your vagina when you are wearing it. Designed to stimulate the g-spot, Lush can be controlled remotely via a smartphone app.

The Hush

When it comes to features, the Hush and the Lush are quite similar. Just like its counterpart, the Hush is silent, completely waterproof, and is made from soft, body-safe silicone. Due to its ergonomic design, the Hush can be worn comfortably throughout your daily activities.

How the Lush and Hush Connect

Both Lush and Hush come with a Bluetooth chip inside, which makes it possible to pair the devices with the Wearables app. The app offers an interactive touchpad allowing users to control vibrations just by sliding a finger over the screen. It’s pretty easy to set up and connect with your partner even if you are not a techy person. Remember that you and your partner need to have Android or iOS devices to download the Wearables app and connect.

We-vibe Sync Aqua


One Liner: A vibrator designed for couples in long distance relationships.

Pros: Durable, high-powered, flexible.

Cons: Distance limitations.

Best for: Long distance clit and g-spot stimulation.

We-vibe Sync Aqua is a beautiful remote-control vibrator with a well thought out design. The toy is 100% waterproof and is made with body-safe silicone. The vibrator comes with a wireless remote with a range of 3 metres. We-vibe Sync Aqua also comes with an app which allows users to play and control the device from anywhere in the world. The We-Connect app allows you to have fun as you control the powerful stimulation in her clitoris and g-spot from wherever you are in the world.



One Liner: A powerful sex toy designed solely for her pleasure.

Pros: Quiet, affordable,

Cons: No complementary toy for your partner.

Best for: Strong app-controlled rumblings.

Vibease is a wearable clitoral vibrator that can be used for solo play or long-distance couples’ sex. The vibrator is app-controlled which makes it perfect for LDRs. The vibrator comes in a sleek design. It’s made of soft body-safe silicone that almost mimics the skin. Vibease is an easy-to-use sex toy, it comes with two buttons. One button turns the device on/off while the other helps you navigate through the five vibration modes. You can download the Vibease Chat app for your iPhone or Android smartphone for free.

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How Do Long Distance Sex Toys Work?

The underlying technology in long distance toys for couples is haptic feedback. Introduced in 1975 by Ted Nelson, haptic feedback is simply a technology that applies force, movement, and vibration to the user. The technology has come a long way since its invention. Today, long-distance toys for couples facilitates real-time, lifelike interactivity vis-à-vis intimacy and sexual pleasure. Long-distance sex toys come in a variety of products and accessories that work in tandem over a long distance.

Like other remote-control vibrators, these interactive sex toys for couples in long-distance relationships use various technologies to function over a long distance. Some of these technologies include Bluetooth, smart devices, virtual reality, and, of course, the internet. With teledildonics, all you need is an internet connection to feel your lover’s touch from miles away. Long distance sex toys come with customizable speed controls and vibratory settings and are designed to feel as realistic as possible.

Are LDR Sex Toys Worth the Money?

Sex and intimacy are important parts of a relationship. But sometimes, distance gets in the way, which can make things very difficult in a relationship. Couples in long distance relationships spend a lot of time planning visits, trying to binge watch the same TV shows together, scheduling elaborate in Skype or Facetime dates, masturbating, etc. just to keep the fire burning. Thanks to LDR vibrators, couples in long distance relationships can engage in real time, lifelike sexual experiences with each other no matter where they are.

Big_Quote: “Thanks to LDR vibrators, couples in long distance relationships can engage in real time, lifelike sexual experiences with each other no matter where they are.”

Be on Opposite Sides of The Planet and Still Have Sex 

Thanks to long distance toys for couples, you can be on opposite sides of the planet and still have sex with your partner. All you need is a couple’s set of long-distance sex toys and an internet connection. Your partner will be able to control the toy’s movement and vibrations with a smartphone app. These app-controlled sex toys will help you tide over until such a time that you can be together again, whether your partner is travelling around the world for work or miles away in a college.

Keep the Fire Alive

LDRs are almost never a smooth sailing. Long distance sex toys help couples in this type of relationship keep the fire alive. They give you and your partner something to look forward to. Long distance sex toys provide a myriad of ways for couples in different parts of the globe to stimulate, tease, and interact with each other. Just like regular toys, long-distance sex toys come with different sets of features to give couples options.

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Standard innovations have led to the creation of great products when it comes to app-controlled sex toys. Long distance sex toys are really fun to play with. Once you get synced via Bluetooth, you will be able to remotely start and stop the toy at will. The app also allows your partner to control the vibration speed and pattern. Additionally, most of the apps allow couples to make long-distance video calls and send messages to keep communication alive.

Info Snippet: Long distance vibrators are expensive. Your long-distance sex toy of choice should have enough bells and whistles to keep you interested for a reasonable time period.

Long distance relationships can be challenging. It takes a lot of work for couples RDLs to keep the fire burning. Long distance sex toys can make it easier for you to connect with your partner. Sure, toys and apps are not going to replace your lover but they are super fun to play with and can make the struggles of a lonely night a lot easier. If you are not quite sure of where to start, give one of the products on our list of the best long-distance sex toys a try.

About The Author ~ Ian, Sex Toy Engineer

On a Friday night you'll find me locked away in my sex toy shop, designing, crafting, and testing some of the latest sex toy technology.  In my guides, I review sex toys in different categories so you can get right to finding the good stuff.

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