The Best Sex Toys For Seniors

Sex is exhausting, no matter your age. The older you get, the more difficult having sex can become due to conditions like arthritis, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and more.

But that doesn't mean senior sex is off the table!

Here we look at 17 of the top-rated sex toys for seniors, looking at different vibrating martial aids for couples, vibrators for older women, and men's sex aids.

Let's get to it!

The Best Martial Aids For Senior Sex

Liberator Wedge & Ramp Sex Positioning Pillows Combo

Special pillows to help older people have sex.

Best For: Senior sex.

Liberator is company that creates special pillows, cushions, ramps, and chairs designed to help people have sex more easily. There's a famous scene from the movie "Meet The Fockers" where Barbra Streisand teaches old people to have sex with these Liberator cushions.

Liberator Wedge & Ramp Sex Positioning Pillows Combo

PROS: Versatile, machine-washable covers, make sex easier and more comfortable

CONS: Expensive



Fun Factory Manta

Penis vibrator for men

Best For: Male vibrator for ED

The Fun Factory Manta is a special vibrating toy designed for penis play. Simply apply some lubricant and massage your penis with the vibrating silicone flaps - simple! You don't need an erection to feel the pleasurable vibrations of this men's sex toy.

Fun Factory Manta

PROS: Easy to use with ED, many different vibration settings

CONS: Expensive


Lovense Max 2

Vibrating penis massager for men

Best For: Men with erectile dysfunction (ED)

The Lovense Max 2 is a vibrating penis massager for men. You simply put your little fella inside, turn it on, and let the vibrations and contractions do their thing. If you're an older man who struggles to masturbate or keep an erection, this brilliant men's sex toy does all the work for you.

Lovense Max 2

PROS: Many vibration settings, easy to clean

CONS: Expensive


Lelo Lubricant

Make penetrative sex easy again!

Best For: Older women with vaginal dryness

If you want to get the spark back in your sex life but you find it difficult to have penetrative sex, you should try this water-based lubricant from Lelo. Simply rub some on your vagina and/or penis before sex to get things slipping and sliding down there. Sex will feel so much easier!

Lelo Lubricant

PROS: Body safe, great for masturbation or senior sex

CONS: A little expensive


Lelo SONA Cruise 2

Easy-to-hold vibrator for older women

Best For: Easy clitoral stimulation

If you struggle to hold vibrating marital aids, maybe you should try the Lelo SONA Cruise 2. This small women's vibrating sex toy responds to your grip - the tighter you press it into your vagina, the stronger the pulses and vibration become. This sexy toy can give women great orgasms.

Lelo Sona 2 Cruise

PROS: Uses sonic pulses for clitoral stimulation, easy to hold

CONS: Expensive


Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Prostate massager for men

Best For: ED and improving male orgasms

Aneros is a company that specializes in men's sex aids, mainly manufacturing prostate massager toys. The Helix Syn Trident is perfect for beginners to prostate play thanks to its small size and flexible silicone construction. You don't need to play with your penis at all when using prostate massagers, so they're great for men with ED.

Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager

To use this sexual toy, you cover it with lube and slowly slide it inside your butt. Once it's in place, you just relax and think sexy thoughts. Some men also contract their pelvic floor muscles to help feel the pleasure. These are great for men's masturbation or to wear while having sex for added pleasure.

For those who don't know, the prostate is a gland situated 2-3 inches inside the male anus. It's known for producing incredibly strong orgasms, even helping some men have multiple orgasms. Check out our prostate milking guide for more.

PROS: Prostate stimulation, small size, no genital play required

CONS: Requires practice


Aneros Vice 2

Vibrating prostate toy for men

Best For: Men with ED and arthritis

The Aneros Vice 2 is a vibrating prostate massager that massages the prostate directly with vibrations. Add a lot of lubricant to this toy and then put it inside you to feel pleasurable sensations without needing to do anything! If you've got ED and arthritis, you can enjoy sexual pleasure with minimal effort.

Aneros Vice 2

PROS: Remote control, multiple vibration settings, well-made

CONS: Quite large, practice required


Vibrating Fleshlight

One of the best sexy toys for men

Best For: Men with decreased penis sensitivity

A "Fleshlight" is a men's sex toy that resembles a fake vagina. You lubricate your penis with lubricant and put it inside, having sex with the toy as you would a real woman. This particular Fleshlight actually vibrates as well, so it's perfect for men with decreased penis sensitivity.

Vibrating Fleshlight

PROS: Feels like a real vagina, vibrates

CONS: Hard to clean and dry


Le Wand Petite Mini Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator

Discreet wand massager

Best For: Clitoral stimulation

If you're an older woman looking for vibrators for arthritis, then this sex toy could be perfect for you. This wand massager can be held gently against your clitoris for intense stimulation. It can also be used as a muscle massager, so it's quite discreet if you want to keep things private.

Le Wand Petite Mini Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator

PROS: Discreet, 60 possible settings, flexible head

CONS: Pricey


Tracey Cox Supersex Rabbit Ears Clitoral Vibrator

Great for clitoral stimulation

Best For: One of the best women's vibrators for arthritis.

This small women's vibrator comes with 2 flexible vibrating "rabbit ears" designed to tickle and massage a woman's clitoris. It's easy to control and comes with 7 different vibration settings to try out. It's also one of the cheapest senior sex toys on this list, coming in at just under $40!

Tracey Cox Supersex Rabbit Ears Clitoral Vibrator

PROS: 7 vibration modes, affordable, flexible, simple controls

CONS: A little noisy


Fifty Shades Of Grey "Greedy Girl" G Spot Vibrator

Powerful vibrator for the best orgasms of a woman's life.

Best For: Older women who struggle to orgasm.

Inspired by the erotic book "Fifty Shades of Grey", this rabbit vibrator is brilliant if you're a woman who struggles to orgasm. This toy massages the clitoris and the G-spot inside your vagina at the same time, leading to a "blended orgasm" as these 2 pleasure zones combine into 1 super orgasm.

Fifty Shades Of Grey "Greedy Girl" G Spot Vibrator

The G-spot is a pleasure zone located around 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the anterior (front) side of the body.

PROS: Stimulate 2 areas at once, 36 vibration settings, powerful

CONS: Expensive


Hot Octopuss JETT

Penis vibrator for hands-free orgasms

Best For: Men who struggle to masturbate.

The Hot Octopuss JETT is a penis vibrator or "guybrator" designed with older men in mind. Designed for the frenulum (the sensitive part of the penis just under the tip), this toy has 5 vibration patterns to explore. Once you've got the Hot Octopuss on, you just lie back and enjoy!

Hot Octopuss JETT

PROS: Ergonomic design, hands-free ejaculation, 5 vibration patterns

CONS: Requires 4 x AA batteries



LubeLife Water-Based Lubricant

Cheap lube for older men, women, and couples

Best For: Old people sex!

Great for old couples having penetrative sex, this brilliant and affordable lube will make your sex life so much better. Whether you're playing with sex toys, masturbating, or making love, lubricant always makes things easier and can increase both your sexual pleasure.

LubeLife Water-Based Lubricant

PROS: Water-based lubricant, affordable

CONS: Quite sticky


Bluechew Chewable Viagra & Cialis Pills

Viagra pills you can actually afford!

Best For: Men with ED who don't like swallowing pills

Bluechew is a company that makes chewable ED pills using the same active ingredients of Viagra and Cialis to increase blood flow to the penis. You chew each pill down instead of swallowing it whole, so they're great if you're bad at swallowing Viagras. The chewing also makes them work faster than Viagra - usually in 20-30 minutes!

Bluechew

PROS: Affordable, chewable, fast-acting, Viagra & Cialis versions

CONS: Monthly subscription required

Magic Wand Rechargeable Cordless Vibrating Wand

Very intense toy for sex.

Best For: Women who struggle to orgasm.

Based on the original Magic Wand vibrator popularized during women's liberation in the 1970s, this is the modern cordless version that's easier to handle for older women. Designed to be pressed gently against the clitoris, this has the potential to give you intense sexual pleasure like you've never felt before.

Magic Wand Rechargeable Cordless Vibrator

The Magic Wand is based on the design of a back massager, so you can claim it's just a muscle massager if you value your privacy.

PROS: Cordless, easy to hold, 2 powerful settings, discreet design

CONS: Expensive


We-Vibe Chorus

Vibrating marital aid for couples.

Best For: Making sex better for older couples.

This is one of the more advanced toys for sex on this list. The We-Vibe Chorus is a small, lightweight vibrator designed to be worn by a woman during lovemaking while the man penetrates her with his penis. The vibrations are controlled by squeezing a remote control, and the sensation can feel good on both the woman's clitoris and the man's penis.

We-Vibe Chorus Couples Vibrator

PROS: Can be used during sex, lightweight, pleasure for both partners, 10+ vibrations

CONS: Expensive


We-Vibe Touch

Easy-to-hold lightweight vibrator for older women.

Best For: Women with arthritis who struggle to hold sex toys.

Designed specifically for older women, the We-Vibe Touch is a vibrator for arthritis made to fit into your hand easily. This lightweight, soft women's sex toy is whisper-quiet and comes with 8 vibration modes to explore, allowing you to gently caress your vagina into pleasurable sexual sensations.

We-Vibe Touch Purple

PROS: Soft, lightweight, easy-to-hold, whisper quiet

CONS: Expensive


How to Use Sex Toys For Seniors

Different sex toys are used in different ways depending on your gender, the design of the toy, and where it's supposed to be used. You should always check the instructions for a sex toy carefully, following what it says.

However, there are some general rules for using sex toys for both men and women. Here are some basic tips on how to use sex toys for beginners:.

  1. Make sure your toy is clean - warm water and antibacterial soap is usually fine, but we have a guide on how to clean sex toys too.
  2. Use plenty of water-based lubricant - whether you're masturbating or having sex with sex toys, lubricant is a great way to combat dryness and make sex easier
  3. Stop if it hurts - sex toys should never feel painful, even if they are intense.
  4. Start slowly - if you're using a vibrator sex toy with different strength settings, always start at the weakest settings before working your way up to the stronger ones

If you want more detailed information, we have a guide on how to use sex toys that goes through 8 common types of adult toys for men and women.

Getting in the Mood

Don't bother using sex toys if you're not aroused, as your body won't respond in the right way.

It's normally best to wait until you're "in the mood" before using adult toys for the best experience.

If you struggle with this, you may want to try:

  • Foreplay
  • Testosterone boosters
  • Abstaining from masturbation
  • Watching pornography
  • Reading erotic fiction

Joan Price

Furthermore, if you want more specific advice on sex toys for older people, I would recommend you check out Joan Price.

Joan Price is an advocate for "ageless sexuality" who writes tons of useful stuff about having sex for older people, including how to use sex toys for older men and women.

You can find her by clicking here: https://joanprice.com/

Where to Buy Sex Toys

The easiest place to buy sex toys is online.

The vast majority of adult toy stores use discreet plain packaging when they send adult products to your home.

They also charge your credit card with discreet generic business names.

Some adult toy websites also post customer reviews for you to read the pros and cons of every product and find which one is best for you.

Trustworthy adult toy websites include:

LoveHoney.com

SheVibe.com

The Pleasure Chest

Good Vibrations

Smitten Kitten

What about Amazon?

You can also use websites like Amazon, but there are many poorly-made and toxic products found on Amazon, so you need to be careful.

Our guide on where to buy sex toys online has more information, but I'd recommend staying clear of Amazon unless you're quite experienced with adult products already.

Conclusion

If you're an older man looking for a toy that can pleasure your penis whether it's soft or hard, I would recommend the Fun Factory Manta.

For older women looking for a fun and easy lightweight vibrator, I would recommend the We-Vibe Touch or the Lelo SONA Cruise 2 for sure.

Even if your vagina is dry or your testosterone levels are low, age shouldn't stop us from enjoying the natural sexual pleasure that our bodies are capable of.

Hopefully with these marital aids you'll be able to enjoy intimate pleasure once again.

Stay safe and have fun!

About The Author ~ J.C. Way


I’ve never been afraid to stick things up my butt or pop my cock into something – why wouldn’t you want to make your sex life better? I aim to smash down stigmas and introduce men and women to sex toys that change their lives.

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