By: JC Ways
October 8, 2024
Sex is exhausting, no matter your age. The older you get, the more difficult having sex can become due to conditions like arthritis, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and more.
But that doesn’t mean senior sex is off the table!
Here we look at 17 of the top-rated sex toys for seniors, looking at different vibrating martial aids for couples, vibrators for older women, and men’s sex aids.
Let’s get to it!
Special pillows to help older people have sex.
Best For: Senior sex.
Liberator is company that creates special pillows, cushions, ramps, and chairs designed to help people have sex more easily. There’s a famous scene from the movie “Meet The Fockers” where Barbra Streisand teaches old people to have sex with these Liberator cushions
Penis vibrator for men
Best For: Male vibrator for ED
The Fun Factory Manta is a special vibrating toy designed for penis play. Simply apply some lubricant and massage your penis with the vibrating silicone flaps – simple! You don’t need an erection to feel the pleasurable vibrations of this men’s sex toy.
Vibrating penis massager for men
Best For: Men with erectile dysfunction (ED)
Make penetrative sex easy again!
Best For: Older women with vaginal dryness
Easy-to-hold vibrator for older women
Best For: Easy clitoral stimulation
Prostate massager for men
Best For: ED and improving male orgasms
Aneros is a company that specializes in men’s sex aids, mainly manufacturing prostate massager toys. The Helix Syn Trident is perfect for beginners to prostate play thanks to its small size and flexible silicone construction. You don’t need to play with your penis at all when using prostate massagers, so they’re great for men with ED.
To use this sexual toy, you cover it with lube and slowly slide it inside your butt. Once it’s in place, you just relax and think sexy thoughts. Some men also contract their pelvic floor muscles to help feel the pleasure. These are great for men’s masturbation or to wear while having sex for added pleasure.
For those who don’t know, the prostate is a gland situated 2-3 inches inside the male anus. It’s known for producing incredibly strong orgasms, even helping some men have multiple orgasms. Check out our prostate milking guide for more.
Vibrating prostate toy for men
Best For: Men with ED and arthritis
The Aneros Vice 2 is a vibrating prostate massager that massages the prostate directly with vibrations. Add a lot of lubricant to this toy and then put it inside you to feel pleasurable sensations without needing to do anything! If you’ve got ED and arthritis, you can enjoy sexual pleasure with minimal effort.
One of the best sexy toys for men
Best For: Men with decreased penis sensitivity
Discreet wand massager
Best For: Clitoral stimulation
Great for clitoral stimulation
Best For: One of the best women’s vibrators for arthritis.
Powerful vibrator for the best orgasms of a woman’s life.
Best For: Older women who struggle to orgasm.
The G-spot is a pleasure zone located around 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the anterior (front) side of the body.
Penis vibrator for hands-free orgasms
Best For: Men who struggle to masturbate.
Cheap lube for older men, women, and couples
Best For: Old people sex!
Great for old couples having penetrative sex, this brilliant and affordable lube will make your sex life so much better. Whether you’re playing with sex toys, masturbating, or making love, lubricant always makes things easier and can increase both your sexual pleasure.
Viagra pills you can actually afford!
Best For: Men with ED who don’t like swallowing pills
Bluechew is a company that makes chewable ED pills using the same active ingredients of Viagra and Cialis to increase blood flow to the penis. You chew each pill down instead of swallowing it whole, so they’re great if you’re bad at swallowing Viagras. The chewing also makes them work faster than Viagra – usually in 20-30 minutes!
Very intense toy for sex
Best For: Women who struggle to orgasm.
Based on the original Magic Wand vibrator popularized during women’s liberation in the 1970s, this is the modern cordless version that’s easier to handle for older women. Designed to be pressed gently against the clitoris, this has the potential to give you intense sexual pleasure like you’ve never felt before.
The Magic Wand is based on the design of a back massager, so you can claim it’s just a muscle massager if you value your privacy.
Vibrating marital aid for couples.
Best For: Making sex better for older couples.
This is one of the more advanced toys for sex on this list. The We-Vibe Chorus is a small, lightweight vibrator designed to be worn by a woman during lovemaking while the man penetrates her with his penis. The vibrations are controlled by squeezing a remote control, and the sensation can feel good on both the woman’s clitoris and the man’s penis.
Easy-to-hold lightweight vibrator for older women.
Best For: Women with arthritis who struggle to hold sex toys.
Different sex toys are used in different ways depending on your gender, the design of the toy, and where it’s supposed to be used. You should always check the instructions for a sex toy carefully, following what it says.
However, there are some general rules for using sex toys for both men and women. Here are some basic tips on how to use sex toys for beginners:.
Don’t bother using sex toys if you’re not aroused, as your body won’t respond in the right way.
It’s normally best to wait until you’re “in the mood” before using adult toys for the best experience.
If you struggle with this, you may want to try:
Furthermore, if you want more specific advice on sex toys for older people, I would recommend you check out Joan Price.
Joan Price is an advocate for “ageless sexuality” who writes tons of useful stuff about having sex for older people, including how to use sex toys for older men and women.
You can find her by clicking here: https://joanprice.com/
The easiest place to buy sex toys is online.
The vast majority of adult toy stores use discreet plain packaging when they send adult products to your home.
They also charge your credit card with discreet generic business names.
Some adult toy websites also post customer reviews for you to read the pros and cons of every product and find which one is best for you.
Trustworthy adult toy websites include:
All of these companies are highly respected in the sex toy world for their value, security, and privacy,
You can also use websites like Amazon, but there are many poorly-made and toxic products found on Amazon, so you need to be careful.
Our guide on where to buy sex toys online has more information, but I’d recommend staying clear of Amazon unless you’re quite experienced with adult products already.
So, what are the best sex toys for seniors?
If you’re an older man looking for a toy that can pleasure your penis whether it’s soft or hard, I would recommend the Fun Factory Manta.
For older women looking for a fun and easy lightweight vibrator, I would recommend the We-Vibe Touch or the Lelo SONA Cruise 2 for sure.
Even if your vagina is dry or your testosterone levels are low, age shouldn’t stop us from enjoying the natural sexual pleasure that our bodies are capable of.
Hopefully with these marital aids you’ll be able to enjoy intimate pleasure once again.
Stay safe and have fun!
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