DIY Fleshlights

How to Make a DIY Fleshlight: 25 Homemade Pocket Pussy Ideas

By: JC Ways

The production and sales of men’s sex toy sales have gone up by over 1,000% in the last 10 years – online sex shops have made it easier for guys to buy Fleshlights and pocket pussies with confidence. But with the best fleshlights costing upwards of $70, many guys are using household items to make DIY Fleshlights for cheap.

Here I look at 25 homemade pocket pussies that anyone can make and fuck tonight! I also made this YouTube video, where I take my 6 favorite DIY Fleshlight ideas from this list and create them from scratch! Don’t worry – I won’t be testing them live 😉

25 Ways to Make a Fake Vagina

1. Towel and Latex Glove

1 Towel Latex Glove

One of the most popular ways to make a DIY pocket pussy. There are many variations on this homemade Fleshlight, but the basic idea is that you roll out a towel and fold it in half. Next, place a latex glove or a condom inside it, leaving the end sticking about an inch out.

Then you simply roll up the towel, use some rubber bands to hold it in place, and voila! This is one of the best ways to make a tight faux pussy – just be sure to use lots of water-based lube. This  video on YouTube shows you an easy way to make this toy, though I also covered it in my own video. Just make sure that you’re not allergic to latex before you stick your dick in!

Never use oil-based lube with latex condoms or gloves – the oil breaks down the latex and quickly destroys it. Water-based lube is cheap and works well with latex.

2. Toilet Paper Roll

2 Toilet Paper Roll

If you’re looking for a cheap pocket pussy, it doesn’t get much cheaper than a toilet paper Fleshlight! Take a toilet paper roll, remove the cardboard center, and then pull a condom/latex glove through the middle, stretching it over the other side if you wish. Once you’re done, simply throw the condom away.

Unless you’re a very aggressive masturbator, you could probably still use the loo roll after.

There are a couple versions of the toilet paper pocket pussy; most involve rubber gloves or condoms to catch your spunk in. It doesn’t feel remotely like a real pussy, but it sure is cheap! When I made my own version of this, I preferred using latex gloves. I also used some rubber bands to keep the toilet paper nice and tight – tightness is very important!

3. Sponges and Pringles Can

Sponges and Pringles can

The sponges and Pringles can homemade pocket pussy is another toy that creeps up all over the place. Basically, you take an empty Pringles can and wedge two (soft!) sponges into the tube, leaving a “tunnel” between them. Next, use a latex glove or condom to act as a jizz-catcher and secure with a rubber band or duct tape.

This YouTube video shows you the easiest way to create this homemade Fleshlight. Just make sure that you get the right kind of sponges – you want SOFT sponges, not the abrasive scrubbing variety. You might also consider soaking them in warm water beforehand to create the illusion of a real pussy. A damp sponge feels remarkably similar to a pussy.

I personally think Pringles are overrated, so I’m glad to see them being put to good use.

4. Banana Masturbator

Take a fresh banana and cut one end off with a knife. Squeeze out the fruit from inside until the peel is now empty. Don’t worry if you leave a little banana residue – it can act as a makeshift lube! Simply pop your cock into the banana and get jacking! The closed end catches your cum, which is super convenient.

We covered a variation of this banana masturbator technique in our male masturbation techniques guide recently. Feel free to add your own personal lubricant if the natural banana lubrication doesn’t do it for you. You’re throwing it away after, so any type of lube will be fine.

5. Plastic Bottle and Damp Sponges

5 Plastic Cup Damp Sponges

This is very similar to the Pringles can homemade Fleshlight. Basically, you take a large plastic cylindrical container (or large bottle) and place 2 sponges inside, creating a tunnel down the middle of the bottle. Next, place a condom or latex glove down the tunnel and pull over the edges, securing in place with a rubber band to create a neat little masturbator.

I made this one with the UPPLADDA Ikea bottle, and the only thing I struggled with was getting the sponges to stay in place when you’re fucking the container (they have a tendency to slide down). They’re only about 4-5 inches long, so not an ideal size for some. Of course, you could always double the sponges up lengthways or get a cup that narrows at the bottom.

As noted in this DIY fleshlight Reddit thread, it’s probably best to use a plastic tumbler rather than glass. Putting regular non-tempered glass near your private parts is not a great idea.

6. 3 Socks and a Latex Glove

3 socks and a latex glove

Wanna know how to make a pocket pussy for free? All you need is 3 socks, a latex glove, and a rubber band. Fold up 2 socks to make the 2 sides of the hole, placing your glove in between them. Next, wrap a third sock around the “vagina” and then pull the excess glove over the edges. Seal in place with an elastic band or similar.

The socks pocket pussy is ideal for guys who don’t want to risk getting caught with a sex toy for whatever reason. Once you’re done, just throw away the glove and you’re back to 3 innocent little socks!

7. The “Prison Fifi”

The “Prison Fifi”

While searching for how to make a Fleshlight, you’ll probably see the word “Fifi” used a lot. The Fifi masturbator is a simple men’s sex toy that uses disposable sleeves (a bit like condoms) that you throw away once you’ve jizzed into them. Lots of guys on a budget want to know how to make a Fifi toy for themselves!

Guys in prison often make a Prison Fifi using a towel, some warm water, and 3 latex gloves. Half-fill two of the gloves with warm water and tie them off at the end. Place them on top of each other and sandwich an empty glove in between. Roll them all up in a towel and get pumping. It’s that easy!

8. Naughty Plush Toy

9 Naughty Plush Toy

This is a pretty simple one that most boys figure out when they’re becoming teenagers – a plush toy with a hole in it is prime fucking material. If you don’t want to spend a lot, you can get some pretty cheap stuffed toys from IKEA and use scissors or a knife to cut a hole in their fluff. If you want to use them repeatedly, you should probably wear a condom.

When I made this DIY fleshlight, I used Kramig the Stuffed Panda from IKEA. He cost me £3.50, so it set me back around $4.50 in total. Of course, you could use any stuffed animal that is big enough to accommodate your member, but the cheaper the better!

There’s a website called Bear Mods that specializes in purpose-built fuckable plush toys. They’re not cheap, but they’re one of the most discreet pocket pussies you’ll ever own!

9. Gummy Bears and Towel

Gummy Bears and Towel

If you want to add some extra sensation to the towel and rubber glove technique, why not use gummy bears or gummy worms for added squishiness? Simply fold a towel in half and place a glove at the top with the open-end sticking out. Next, cover the towel in gummy bears and then roll the towel up with the glove in the center.

Once the towel is rolled up, place it into a large plastic cup and pull the end of the glove around the rim of the cup, securing it in place with duct tape. This (NSFW) PornHub video goes into more detail if you’re interested.

10. Jar of Floral Beads

Jar of floral beads

This one is super easy! Buy a jar of floral beads, empty about ¼ of them out the jar, and then place a latex glove inside the beads, pulling the opening over the rim of the jar. Secure the gloves around the rim with duct tape. Now just add some lube to the glove and get busy! The soft and squishy texture of the beads makes a very interesting sensation for your penis.

Before I found out about this homemade Fleshlight with floral beads, I didn’t even know what floral beads were. Now I know all too well.

11. Pillow Pumper

I mean, this one is a teenage classic. Kneel down next to your bed and put your cock on top of the mattress. Take a pillow or a cushion and place it over your penis, holding the 2 sides down over your cock as you pump in and out. This is best performed with a condom or glove if you want to minimize mess, and it obviously depends on the height of your mattress.

We covered this technique in our male masturbation techniques guide, among many other things! It’s one of the first “sex toys” that many men discover.

12. Couch Gagger

Couch Gagger

If you have a couch with tight gaps in between the cushions, it’s pretty easy to use this as a homemade male sex toy when nobody’s around! Get a plastic sandwich baggy, fill it with Vaseline, put it over your erect penis, kneel down in front of the couch, slide your cock between the cushions… and pump away!

Apparently, it’s extremely common for children and adolescents to masturbate using couch cushions as they become teenagers.

13. Pool Noodle and Gummy Worms

Pool noodle and gummy worms

This is one of the more realistic pocket pussies on this list, and it’s pretty easy to make. Take a swimming pool noodle and trim it down so it’s about 2 inches longer than your erect penis. Take this piece of pool noodle and cut it in half lengthways down the middle, giving you 2 sides to the tunnel.Use a knife to cut slots into the interior, but don’t go all the way through.

Next, push gummy bears into these slots, holding them in place to create a unique pattern of lovely gumminess. Place a glove or plastic bag between the 2 halves and then pull the end over, bringing the 2 halves together into 1 gummy bear-lined homemade Fleshlight.

14. Nerf Football

Nerf Football

This one’s really easy. Go to Walmart (or similar) and buy a cheap foam Nerf football for a couple of dollars. Use a sharp knife to cut the end off, leaving the inner foam exposed. Use the knife to cut a hole into the foam and place a plastic bag, glove, or condom into the hole. Finally, fill the sleeve with lube and your Nerf Football DIY Fleshlight is good to go!

15. Sponges and Bubble Wrap

Sponges and Bubble Wrap

Take a large plastic coke bottle and cut the top off, giving you a plastic cylinder. Wet your sponges and place them on a large sheet of bubble wrap with around 2 inches of space between them. Fold the bubble wrap over the sponges and underneath them. Now fold the sponges over into a “sandwich” and place them in the bottle, duct taping them into place.

Bubble wrap is commonly recommended for DIY pocket pussy toys by masturbation sites like JackinWorld, and this is one of the best ways to make a fake vagina using bubble wrap. Obviously, remember to use a condom or latex glove to catch your spooge too. You might need some rubber bands to hold it in place over the rim of the bottle.

Bear in mind that damp sponges are likely to smell and/or go moldy over time, so homemade sex toys like this aren’t ideal for long-term use due to hygiene concerns. *Shudders*

16. Pillow Stuffing in a Bottle

17 Pillow Stuffing Bottle

Take an unwanted pillow or cushion and take out of large “sheet” of the stuffing. Lay a condom or latex glove on top of the stuffing with the open end sticking out. Roll the condom into the stuffing until you end up with a “tunnel”. Take a large plastic bottle and cut the top off. Place the “tunnel” into the bottle and then pull the condom over the edge.

Take care and make sure that the edges of your bottle are not too sharp! If you do this correctly, the pillow stuffing should cover the sharp plastic edges of the cut-off bottle. This is one of the best pocket pussies if you’re counting the pennies!When I made this “Fleshlight” personally, I ended up stuffing the stuffing (lol) into the bottle and then making a hole with my fingers through the middle. I then duct-taped over the plastic edges of the bottle (to dull the sharp edges) and pushed a latex glove into the tunnel of stuffing, stretching the end over the rim of the cut-off bottle. It worked a treat!

17. Cucumber and Duct Tape

Cucumber and duct tape

The cucumber homemade pocket pussy is one of the easiest ways to make your own masturbator. Take a large cucumber which is longer and girthier than your penis. Slice it so that you have a piece around 2 inches longer than your erect cock. Next, cut this in half lengthways and scrape out the inner flesh, making a fuckable tunnel.

If you want to, use some duct tape to secure the 2 halves together, making for a sturdier artificial pussy. You could try rubber bands, but I think duct tape would be best. Cucumbers are 95% water, so the inside might be moist enough, but feel free to add some of your own lube if you need that extra slipperiness for your pleasure. Any type of lube should be fine.

18. Hole in a Melon

Hole in a Melon

While we’re on the subject of fucking fruits, fucking a melon is one of the easiest ways to make a fake vagina without putting much effort in. Simply buy a cantaloupe melon, use a knife to carve a hole in it, and fuck away. The natural fleshy moisture makes for a really nice sensation – just make sure that you remove any seeds before penetration!

I had to check that cucumbers were fruits before writing that paragraph. Turns out they are!

19. Hot Water Bottles and Duct Tape

Hot Water Bottles and Duct Tape

Affectionately known as the hot water bottle sandwich, this is one of the easiest ways to make a DIY fleshlight which is warm and reminiscent of a real pussy. Take 2 hot water bottles and fill them with hot water (duh!). Place a latex glove between the two hot water bottles and make a “sandwich” with them. Now simply duct tape the hot water bottles together, put some lube inside the glove, and enjoy a warm Fleshlight sex toy!

This is best for if you already own hot water bottles (they’re not usually very cheap). Also, it goes without saying, but don’t burn your cock with water that’s too hot. That’ll be a weird trip to the ER.

20. Baggie and Mattress

Baggie and Mattress

One of the simplest and most common homemade pussy toys, the “Baggie and Mattress” is a classic technique. Take a sandwich baggie and fill it with Vaseline, wrapping it around your penis. Kneel down next to your bed, lift up the mattress, and place your erect cock between the mattress and the box spring, fucking it to your heart’s content.

This (NSFW!) video shows a gentleman masturbating with this method, and you’ll find many Baggie and Mattress variations on sites like Who needs a Fleshlight when you have a perfectly good bed?

Don’t attempt this technique if your bedframe would be uncomfortable for your erect penis in any way. My own bedframe has a wooden edge that sticks up, so I would end up circumcising myself if I attempted this DIY fleshlight myself. Yikes.

21. Bubble Wrap

Bubble Wrap

If you’re after a simple homemade pocket pussy, buy yourself a roll of bubble wrap, wrap it around your erect penis, and wrap this in a towel. The towel gives you something to grab onto while you “fuck” the bubble wrap, and the bubble wrap makes for a very intense sensation on your penis. Use plenty of lube for this and consider using a condom too!

22. A Sock and a Glove

Sock and glove

Another DIY sex toy for men who aren’t gifted craftspeople, this is one of the easiest ways to make an artificial vagina “Fleshlight”. Take a woolly sock and roll it upon itself until it forms a donut-like shape. Next, place a latex glove into the sock and unroll it, giving you a latex-lined woolly sock. I don’t think I need to tell you what to do next.

23. ODDHILD Ikea throw

24 IKEA Throw

While I was shopping in IKEA, I happened to find the ODDHILD couch throw for £2. This throw is rolled up and comes in a little fabric pouch, similar to a sleeping bag. If you pull this throw out of the pouch, cut off about 15 inches of length, roll it up loosely and put it back in the pouch, there is now enough room to comfortably fuck the center of the rolled-up throw.

I covered this in my video at the top of the page. You could use a condom or latex glove and pull the edges over the outside of the pouch to catch your semen. It’s cheap, it’s easy, and you control how much resistance you want by cutting off more/less of the throw material.

The pouch is what makes this homemade pocket pussy amazing. You don’t need to bother with rubber bands or anything. It’s basically a Fleshlight case in disguise.

24. Mefe Masturbator

Mefe Masturbator

Okay, this isn’t a homemade pocket pussy, but it is A LOT cheaper than a Fleshlight sex toy. Low-price pocket pussies like the Mefe Masturbator may not feel quite as good as fleshlights, but they’re decent and some cost $20 or less. If you can afford to splash a little bit of cash, there are many budget masturbators on the market that rival Fleshlight.Other companies like LoveHoney sell cheap fleshlight alternatives for $11.49 and Tenga Egg strokers for $12.99. Just because you can’t afford a Fleshlight doesn’t mean that you can’t afford cheap male sex toys – itdoesn’t have to be toilet paper and rubber bands! Using your hand is great, but why not branch out and see what toys you can afford or make?


Cum-clusion. DIY Fleshlights

I hope you enjoyed this guide on how to make your own DIY Fleshlight toys! Did you try any of the designs yourself? Perhaps you found some variations which work even better? If so, share them with us in the comments below! Have fun, stay safe, and experience this wide variety of penis-tingling sensations for a fraction of the price of a Fleshlight!

Written by

JC Ways

Born into a family of avant-garde artists, JC Ways rebelled against conventional paths from an early age. After obtaining a degree in Gender Studies and Creative Writing, they embarked on a journey to challenge societal norms through their writing. Embracing the intersection of sexuality and identity, JC found their calling at, where they can explore and celebrate the diverse spectrum of human pleasure. With a flair for eloquent prose and a keen eye for innovative products, JC elevates the discourse around sexual wellness, advocating for inclusivity and empowerment in every article they pen.

  • Adultscare says:

    Nice blog…………….

  • ben says:

    The coach made me cum

  • Goat says:

    Y do they mostly all have gloves

    • JC Ways says:

      Generally speaking, you need something which is stretchy and able to take some strain without snapping (similar to the rubbery material of a Fleshlight).

      Latex gloves and condoms are cheap, easy to get, and great for this purpose! 🙂

    • n says:

      most ppl have gloves during covid tho

      • Otter says:

        What T F kind of question was That?!
        Wow, just wow…

        COMMON SENSE #1:
        Only a DUMB-ASSED FOOL would boink other people’s personal rubber gloves.

        COMMON SENSE #2:
        Only a DUMB-ASSED FOOL would boink someone who is Dishonest about their COVID status.

    • Otter says:

      Gloves are cheap at the Dollar store, $1 for a pack of 2 pairs.
      I work as a cleaner at an apartment complex , so I get my latex rubber glove supply at company expense and I take home a box of 100 new pairs of latex rubber gloves for my own personal use. I’m Frugal like that.

      Latex rubber gloves are disposable, so only YOU get to use them… you should never use other people’s latext rubber gloves, used or new, because you don’t know where their gloves have Been!

  • some paranoid guy. says:

    I get the naughty plush with it being good material…My only question is why would you want to fuck a panda? or any kind of animal or bear for that manner.

    • JC Ways says:

      Short answer – it was the cheapest suitable plush toy in IKEA that day.

    • Big dan says:

      Not sure why your wanting to question what kind of animal it is….certainly knowing what you typed into Google to find this page? Lol

  • Lil Xanax says:

    Bottle and stuffing and glove one feelz good

  • Dominik says:

    Oh damn, please dont use vegetables or plush toys.
    Its kinda weird
    Best thing is actually towel method

  • Troy says:

    The banana feels sooo good!

  • Dude with small cock says:

    Why are they all so big?

  • Anon says:

    For christ sake dont use the banana peel. Doctors around the world are warning not to because the citrus from the banana can cause painful sores and blisters to form on the penis.

  • Lucy Liu says:

    This is super helpful to me as a gf wanting to try new things on her guy but not quite ready to invest real dough on a quality pocket pussy. Definitely going to share this and see how some of these stack up!

    • D says:

      Honestly just let him put it in ur butt, or if he isn’t a butt guy, just tell him how much you want his c*%#, how good it feels, and how bad you want him to cum for/in you.
      You’ll thank me later

  • hard all day says:

    My wife came home with a new plush velvet blanket, it was folded just right where I could fuck it in the tight folds. I took it & hide it in the closet, gonna fuck the shit outta that thing. I’ll buy another when that wears out.

    • JC Ways says:

      sounds like fun!

    • Otter says:

      I use a very plushy 100% polyester super-soft fleece blanket, the kind of material used for baby’s blankets. The material is so soft it feels ticklish, and it’s not abrasive against a tight hard penis head. Gentle edging strokes with it will milk the precum outta you so good you’ll be making crazy mad goon faces and slurred speech noises.
      After you’re done with it, wash it in tepid water with mild soap, let it air-dry, and gently brush the fleece to fluff it up for the next session.

  • dough says:

    Ok honeltly either i have a big pp or the banana peel method is kinda bullshit

  • King Boyce says:

    I put two sponges inside a small cup and put a condom inbetween the sponges and that shit made me cum fast

  • Monstercock says:

    When my cocks hard it’s just over 16.5 inches I have a huge cock I’m gonna need something bigger for my dick any ideas?

  • Tyler says:

    I used the water bottle a prison fifi. My dick was too big to fit in it. how do i fix this?

  • Some dude says:

    Yoga mat is the best. Roll it up and lube it up. You are welcome!

  • JohnS says:

    Recommendations if someone has a latex allergy? Latex gloves and latex condoms won’t work.

    • JC Ways says:

      You could potentially try nitrile gloves, but I’m not sure how stretchy they are and whether it would work, so take that with a pinch of salt!

      • Person on the internet says:

        They are very stretchy you can fill 1 with over a gallon of water they get bigger than the average blown up balloon

    • SimpleGuy says:

      Why has no one mentioned the good old child’s swimming cuff? Just blow it up, lube it up and off you get. Still the simplest and cheapest and non-latex option out there.

    • Otter says:

      Try silicone rubber toys.
      And if that fails, try this:

      A giant teddy bear (4ft teddy, or a lifesized 5ft teddy)… cut a slit opening in its crotch… stick your hand inside to push the cotton stuffing out of the way, forming a “tunnel” that is as deep as your forearm halfway towards your elbow… then stuff a soft plushy baby fleece blanket inside the crotch hole, as a “liner”, and do your thing!
      The fritction should feel gentle enough to tickle your shaft, and the tunnel should feel fitting to let your c*ck head slide through easily without discomfort. And the tunnel should feel deep enough for you to thrust ballz-deep until you hit the “cervix”.
      If the tunnel feels too tight, remove the fleece liner, and fist the hole to push more cotton stuffing out of the way to make the tunnel wider.
      You’re welcome.

    • Factx says:

      Sheepskin condoms.

  • Wallet says:

    The cornstarch pussy didnt work,every time i took it out of the glass it fell apart and or craked

  • Unknown cu says:

    In the words of who ever tf said this “damn, he fucking that shit up!”

  • juju says:

    im 54 and these work great

  • sexually exploring says:

    i cant condoms im 16

  • tastifulback says:

    Respect mate

  • dick says:

    i love the toilet paper one

  • Idk says:

    I took a mug and a penis shaped object then I put a latex glove on it and just put tons of socks on it, I put it in the mug wrapped the glove opening around the mug and then took out the object. To put another glove in just take the object and put a glove or condom on it and slide it in

  • Loren says:

    You know the Pringles can and corn starch would be swsome

  • Nigga says:

    Any ideas I don’t have a condom or a fucking glove

  • people says:

    where do i find FREAKING GLOVES

  • DAVID MOORE says:

    The author is cute 🙂

  • idk says:

    i just wanna ask what things that i can replace gloves
    (pls tell me)

  • User2003 says:

    I tried the pillow method ???? i have never made or used a homemade fleshlight but holy fuck. fucking my pillow felt amazing

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