By: JC Ways
May 30, 2024
In some ways, gay men have the best sex of all. Not only do we get to stimulate our penises, but we can (if willing) experience the unbeatable sensation of anal pleasure too.
After all, we have a G-spot inside our butts!
Throw in some nipple clamps, fetish gear, and 50 years of sexual liberation and you’ve got yourself a recipe for some of the best orgasms on the planet.
So, how can we make sex and solo play even better for gay men?
Well, here we look at some of the best toys on the market that are marketed to (or can be used by) gay men.
Okay, so what are gay sex toys exactly?
Well, any toy used for penis, nipple, or anal stimulation might be classified as a “gay sex toy”, though it’s worth saying that men (and those assigned male at birth) of any sexuality could use all of these toys if they wanted to.
Compared to a list of, say, the best male masturbators or best fleshlights, the best gay sex toys consist of more anal options and fetish options.
Here are our fave gay sex toys on the market right now:
Anal take on the classic cock-pumping toy
The anal version of Fleshjack’s #1 best-selling series, the Stamina Training Units, it should come as no surprise that this product makes our list. With 8.5 inches of insertable length, this gay sex toy is versatile enough to be used by the vast majority of men, unless you were born incredibly lucky!
Of course, this product can be used for straight-up cock jacking masturbatory pleasure, although it’s supposed intended use is that of a “stamina training unit”.
In other words, you could also use this product to practice your pumping technique and increase your stamina when you’re pumping your load into a cute guy’s ass for real.
The only real downside? It’s pretty much a one-size-fits-all kind of toy.
Versatile anal douching kit
There are so many guides to anal douching, all of which give you different advice.
Nonetheless, the shower has always seemed like an obvious choice for douching if you’re careful – you’ve got a steady and powerful stream of water coming straight from your wall!
The CleanStream kit comes with 4 different tips and a flow regulator, making it relatively safe to douche straight from the shower.
This kit easily fits onto your shower plumbing, providing you with a fast and easy solution that is far quicker than using an old-school bulb enema.
The best part? Any accidental mess will land in your shower! Put simply, if you’re about to get fucked pronto, this is the quick fix you need.
Bluetooth-enabled male masturbator
The Lovense Bluetooth Max 2 Male Masturbator features a vibrator, air pump, and skin-like texture inside, even coming with an air vent for suction control.
The manufacturers claim that this product fits 95% of men, and I certainly found no problems with it.
However, this is also a great gay couple sex toy, as the device can be controlled via smartphone and Wi-Fi from several miles away.
Wanna get your partner all revved up while you commute home from work? Now you can.
Powerful adjustable P-spot pleasure
Finding your prostate can be a challenge, even for the most experienced of men, leaving them feeling discouraged and frustrated when they try to use one-size-fits-all prostate massagers.
However, this Bluetooth-controlled prostate massager it’s the world’s first adjustable prostate massager, so you can 100% guarantee that you’ll hit that coveted P spot without throwing your legs behind your head or reading 50 guides on prostate stimulation techniques.
Featuring sections for stimulating your prostate and perineum, this is one of the best solo gay anal sex toys, and could also be a naughty gay couple sex toy if you’re into discreet public stimulation.
This gay ass toy can connect to various devices, including Android, iOS, Mac, and PC!
Elegant butt plug for rich men
Okay, I have to admit that this product is kind of funny. I mean, it’s a sophisticated men’s butt plug made from literal 24-karat gold.
It costs around $2,000 and it comes with matching cuff links. No, that isn’t a joke. It really does come in a velvet-lined box with matching gold cuff links.
Now I know that us gays are supposed to have a fair amount of disposable income, but this butt plug costs more than my first couple of cars did.
Still, if you’re rich and really into butt plugs, it sure is a unique purchase!
Kinky nipple suckers for men According to recent scientific studies, approximately 52% of men are sexually aroused by nipple play. Nipple stimulation is quite common in the gay world, although these nipple suckers definitely take it to the next level! The kinky design of these suckers is definitely ideal if you’re into the typical kink/BDSM aesthetic, feeling right at home alongside the standard leather and chains that you’d expect in any fuck dungeon worth its salt. They also come with handy rings which your fingers can fit through easily, making them ideal as kinky gay couple sex toys if you like to watch your partner squirm while you stroke their pulsating cock.Atomic Jack Oxball Nipple Suckers
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The ultimate fisting gauntlets Although fisting isn’t every bottom’s cup of tea, there are definitely people who get off on it. There are many guides on fisting available online to help you out if you’re new, but a good pair of strong gloves/gauntlets is a definite must-have for fisting… don’t go in there with an old pair of marigolds. These BUTTR (nice name) gloves are designed to be strong and flexible, supposedly fitting most people’s hands with ease. I personally have quite long and skinny fingers, so it wasn’t the world’s best fit, but I think these gauntlets would be good for most users. With a decent lube and the right technique, these long gloves could be your ticket to anal fisting delight!BUTTR Extra Strong Latex Fisting Gauntlets
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Sexy yet practical bottomless briefs Is there anything more exciting than pulling down your partner’s pants to reveal sexy underwear that turns you on? If you’re a bottom and you want to turn on your partner while providing them with easy access to your hole, these are the pants for you. Combining the most macho sexiness of a jock strap with the comfort of briefs, these bottomless briefs are a thirsty bottom’s uniform.Fetish Gear Bottomless Jock Briefs
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Chastity device for gay teasers Do you like forcing your partner to be chaste and taking sexual pleasure away from them until you say they can have it again? This great lockdown chastity device allows you to lock your partner’s penis away for long stretches of time, meaning they cannot play with themselves and get aroused until you say they can. It’s the ultimate way to tease your partner and get them insatiably horny over time. The best part? When they finally cum, it’ll be one of the most powerful and voluminous cum shots they’ve had in years.Chastity device for gay teasers
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Now we must issue a PSA for anyone reading this article, whether you’re gay, straight, or somewhere in between – you should try to avoid using toxic sex toys made from jellies and PVC! Although things are getting better in recent years, many sex toys [emit toxins or absorb bacteria through porous materials], posing a wide range of health complications and damage to your body over time.
Medical-grade silicone
If you’re looking for high-quality material which won’t let you down, we would highly recommend medical-grade silicone. As the name suggests, this silicone is designed to be safe for use inside the human body, which includes shoving it up your ass! You’ll find a lot of sex toys made from PVC, “jelly”, TPE and TPR – sometimes these will often even be referred to as “silicone” even though they’re technically not. These materials are much less safe for your body, so we would suggest replacing them with medical-grade silicone alternatives if possible.
Borosilicate glass
Sex toys made from borosilicate glass are designed to withstand extreme temperatures. No, your ass isn’t 400 degrees, don’t worry. This robustness means that you can boil a sex toy in water without worrying about the glass cracking. This way, you can ensure that your glass sex toys are truly bacteria-free, which is great if you’re a bit anal… get it?
Stainless steel
Stainless steel is considered to be hypoallergenic for most people. However, [the vast majority of stainless steel contains nickel,] which some people can have sensitivities to. You’re unlikely to be exposed to any nickel unless you scratch a stainless steel sex toy (which rarely happens) but it’s probably best to avoid stainless steel if you know yourself to have a nickel sensitivity problem.
When it comes to gay sex toys, there’s a lot of variety to sink your teeth into. There are toys to stimulate your cock, anus, prostate, nipples, and a whole lot more, introducing you into a whole new world of sexual stimulation. However, here we have rounded up the 3 best gay sex toys for keeping a versatile gay man or gay couple happy!
So, there we have it! I hope you enjoyed this selection of the best gay sex toys for couples and solo players alike. It doesn’t matter if you’re a top, bottom, vanilla, or kinky, there’s something on this list to satiate every gay man’s desires.
If you are hungry for more toys, check out some more of the best male sex toys.
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