A prostate orgasm is quite literally the most amazing thing you will ever feel in your life.
Whether you're using prostate massagers in combination with penis masturbation or you're going for the famous Aneros hands free prostate orgasm known as the "Super O", these little butt toys really can change a man's life. They changed mine.
In case the world's best orgasms weren't enough, it turns out that men who practice regular prostate stimulation are reported to have healthier prostates and can even learn to have multiple orgasms in a row. I've personally experienced the multiple orgasms on a couple of occasions now... there is no going back.
In this post, we're gonna look at some of our favorite brands, as well as some do’s and dont’s for prostate play beginners. But first, my countdown of the 20 best prostate massagers.
As always, the video version of this roundup is also on my youtube channel for your viewing pleasure:
Aneros Helix Syn Trident
Literally the best orgasm I've ever had. Period.
The Aneros Helix Syn Trident was the first prostate stimulator that gave me a full-body minutes-long orgasm. It lasted for several minutes, I felt absolute pure pleasure all over my body, and I'm yet to experience a better physical feeling in my life. I believe that this was the Aneros "Super O" or "Super Orgasm" that so many Aneros users talk about.
Whether you're a beginner, intermediate, or expert to anal play, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident really does cater to all. This prostate toy is fairly small and flexible compared to other prostate massagers, helping your bottom to relax and settle into the pleasurable sensations.
As with most Aneros models, the Helix Syn is a non-powered toy; you use a mixture of pelvic floor exercises and relaxation techniques in order to use it. Believe me when I say that non-vibrating prostate massagers lead to SIGNIFICANTLY better orgasms than vibrators. Our Aneros Guide should help you if you're new.
PROS: Medical-grade silicone coating, amazing full-body orgasms, great for beginners and experts, small and flexible
CONS: Attracts dust, hard to clean, clings onto nasty smells
Lelo's best vibrating prostate toy!
The Lelo Hugo is a really cool vibrating prostate massager which uses a wireless remote control to let you flick through the 6 pre-programmed vibration patterns. However, it also has another trick up its sleeve - 2 "SenseMotion" settings.
These SenseMotion settings use sensors in the wireless remote control to send signals to the toy, telling it to vibrate on command. The first mode changes the vibration of the toy based on how far you tilt the remote (flat = 10% vibes, upright = 100% vibes), while the second mode makes the Lelo Hugo vibrate when you shake the remote with your hand. It's a cool feature, though it's easy for your hand to get tired with the second setting!
PROS: wireless remote control, unique "SenseMotion" modes, great medium-sized toy, only 3.4 inches of insertable length
CONS: SenseMotion modes can get tiring, control requires AAA batteries (is this the '90s?)
Edge by Lovense
Totally adjustable vibrating prostate massager!
The Lovense Edge is designed to be totally adjustable so it hits the spot every time. The box literally says "IT WILL HIT YOUR SPOT!" in huge, obnoxious letters. Most prostate massagers are one-size-fits-all, so it's nice that Lovense created a prostate vibrator where you can change the angle according to your body shape.
As with many Lovense products, the Edge is a Wi-Fi and Bluetooth compatible sex toy that connects to your smartphone or device via the Lovense app. Once you're connected, you can use your finger to "draw" vibration patterns and program in your own patterns as you desire. You can also choose from a database of over 5,000 vibration patterns created by other Lovense users. Why not have your P-spot pleasure controlled by the vibe pattern of a total stranger? Very erotic.
PROS: Remote controlled vibrations, Bluetooth and Wi-Fi connectivity, works for long distance couples, totally adjustable
CONS: Buttons are hard to press, Bluetooth connection can drop, hard to get in
Njoy Pure Wand
The Holy Grail of sex toys
This Njoy toy can actually be used by both sexes - it's ideal for hitting a woman's G spot, as well as the male G spot (prostate) too. It's rare to find a unisex adult toy with such a strong reputation as the Njoy Pure Wand, but here we are! This high-quality stainless steel wand is non-porous and easy to clean, so it's easy to keep those bacteria at bay with regular cleaning.
The Njoy Pure Wand has two bulbous ends, one smaller than the other, so you can insert either side depending on how much you wanna get your rocks off! To stimulate your prostate, just rock the wand back and forth until you feel the waves of pleasure wash over you. It takes some practice to get the angle right, but you'll get there eventually.
PROS: Unisex sex toy, stainless steel, easy to clean, 2 different-sized ends
CONS: Heavy (1.5 lbs), takes some getting used to, stainless steel isn't for everyone
Taking prostate massagers back to basics.
The Lelo Bruno is one of the best prostate toys for guys who just want simple vibrating stimulation. The ergonomic shape and dual vibrators in the prostate and perinuem arms make for some very intense P-spot pleasure, although the settings are somewhat limited.
The Lelo Bruno is fully rechargeable and completely waterproof, complete with a non-toxic silicone coating that feels nice and elegant as it slides into you. It's also pretty quiet and stays in place nicely during sex, so there's a whole new world of anal play sensations you can explore.
PROS: Dual vibrations, easy to use, waterproof, fairly quiet
CONS: No remote control, limited settings
Wooden Prostate Massager
Is it a prostate massager or is it modern art?
Wood is an excellent material for sex toys because it can last for decades if cared for properly. Nobessense makes their toys from sustainably-sourced wood and coats them with Lubrosity (a smooth, body-safe finish).
The Dare Sculptured Hardwood Prostate Massager has a large insertable bulb and a smaller knob that presses against the perineum. As you can see, the main bulb is pretty large, so it's ideal for guys who are already experienced in prostate play. Being a wooden male sex toy, you need to clean it and care for it carefully, but it's not too hard.
PROS: Requires little lube, lasts for many years, unique feel
CONS: Can get damaged if dropped, quite large if you're a beginner
For intermediate and advanced users.
The Mood Naughty from Doc Johnson is a non-vibrating prostate toy made from high-quality platinum-cured silicone. It's a steal of a price, so it's definitely a cheap alternative to Aneros toys if you're looking to save some cash.
This toy comes with 4.5 inches of insertable length, so it's definitely one of the largest massagers on this list. You don't particularly need 4.5 inches to reach the P-spot, but if you like the feeling of fullness in your bottom, then it's an ideal size for you.
PROS: Low price, well-shaped, feeling of fullness in the bottom
CONS: Attracts dust, can smell if not cleaned thoroughly
Not for the faint of heart.
If you’re looking for an adult product with excellent (shock) value, Curving Curt will stimulate your prostate and then some. Designed to be used with the MyStim Tension Lover or MyStim Pure Vibes, Curving Curt has electric poles that can add extra intensity to your orgasm.
This toy is made from unique “Flex & Stay” materials that keep their shape when you twist them, so you can definitely hit the right spot. It's probably the most unique toy on this list, and it can even sync with VR content if you're into that sort of thing.
PROS: Unique curved shape, can be used with electro-stim for extra intensity, syncs with VR
CONS: Pricey and better for advanced users
The world's strongest prostate vibrator!
According to Lelo and a couple of other sources, the Lelo Loki is the world's strongest vibrating prostate massager. If you're a fan of having your P-spot shaken to death by ultra-strong motors, then the Loki is perfect for you. Personally, I prefer the more subtle route!
Nonetheless, the Lelo Loki comes with 6 brilliant pre-programmed vibration settings, a very simple 4-button control system, and a whopping 4.5 inches of insertable length. It's a pretty large anal toy, so keeping it inside your bottom is tricky, but it is packing an extremely powerful vibration motor, so I'll let them off.
PROS: World's strongest prostate vibrator, 6 great vibration patterns, completely waterproof down to 1 meter
CONS: Stronger vibrations doesn't automatically mean stronger orgasms, hard to keep inside
Nexus Revo 2
Vibrations combined with a rotating head!
The Nexus Revo 2 features a 2-speed rotating head which delivers a very unique massage to the male G spot. In addition to this unique sensation, the bumpy perineum arm features 3 different vibration settings, making for a total of 6 different sensations to explore.
Although this toy is sadly not waterproof, it does last for a whopping 4 HOURS after a single charge. You can normally only get 1 or 2 hours out of most adult toys, so that's really impressive. However, some users have found that the charging port breaks quickly, so take it all with a pinch of salt.
PROS: 2 rotation speeds, 3 perineum vibration settings, very unusual P-spot massage
CONS: Not waterproof, quality control issues
Duke Vibrating Prostate Stimulator
Extra curve for added "fullness".
The Duke by Fun Factory is a vibrating massager with a unique upper curve. This is supposed to add more "fullness" while also applying pressure on your P-spot. Personally, I think it looks kinda weird. If you like vibrations, this toy comes with a removable bullet vibrator, although the vibrations are not massively intense.
Made from medical-grade silicone, this toy is completely waterproof because the bullet vibe charges via magnetic ports that can get wet safely. This means that you can clean it really thoroughly and even take it into the shower if you're feeling a little naughty. The positioning is awkward at first, but you get used to it.
PROS: Extra curve for added fullness, medical-grade silicone construction, removable bullet vibe
CONS: Takes a long time to charge, bullet vibes not strong enough for some people
Ambit Prostate Dildo
Do not fuck with Ambit.
If you're feeling adventurous or you're a fan of pegging, this 5.7-inch dildo packs quite a punch. A fun dildo for anal play, the Ambit boasts a curved tip for targeted prostate stimulation, helping you to milk the male G spot while getting anally fucked.
Of course, you could also use this toy solo if you can be bothered moving it in and out with your hand. Alternatively, ask a partner to use it on you with their hand or as a strap-on. It's made from hand-sculpted silicone, so you can really appreciate the craftsmanship before sticking it straight inside your poop chute. Fun times.
PROS: Can be used for pegging, solo play, and more. 5.7 inches of insertable length
CONS: Too large for some guys, not ideal for solo use
A fun little buttplug for prostate play.
Looking like a naughty toy from the Starship Enterprise, the NjoyPfun Plug is a compact butt plug designed for prostate stimulation. As a butt plug, you're supposed to keep it in for hours at a time, but most guys find that the handle is not super practical for keeping inside you. It's probably best for short-term use.
Like many Njoy toys, it's made from stainless steel, so it will warm up to your body’s internal temperature, or you can heat/cool it for more intense temperature play. It’s also easy to sterilize after each use and it's suitable for use with basically any kind of lube.
PROS: Stainless steel, easy to sterilize, very sturdy
CONS: Hard to keep in place for too long, unlikely to lead to orgasms
Lelo Loki Wave
Vibrating prostate toy with "come hither" motion
The thing that makes the Lelo Loki Wave so unique is the "come hither" or "wave" motion that it makes. It looks like it's gently stroking your prostate, beckoning it to "come hither" while you edge closer and closer to climax. It's a really unique prostate play experience for sure, especially when combined with the multiple vibration modes.
PROS: Unique "come hither" motion, multiple vibration modes too, 90-120 minute battery life, USB rechargable
CONS: Quite large and hard to keep inside, perineum arm could be longer
"Icicles" Glass Prostate Massager
The prostate massager that Elsa would have.
It's easy to be scared off by glass sex toys, but most of them are made from high-quality borosilicate glass which is designed to be resistant to heat and shattering. Glass sex toys also have the advantage of being temperature-responsive, so you can warm them up and cool them down as you please.
This glass prostate massager features 4 inches of insertable length and a bulbous head with a circumference of 3.5 inches, so it's pretty large for a male toy. The ringpull on the end is a nice feature for gently pulling the toy out after use.
PROS: Body-safe, can be used with all lubes, easy to clean, temperature-responsive, 4 inches of insertable length
CONS: Handle can shatter if you drop it, glass is very stiff inside you
Aneros Progasm Ice
Looks like glass, but it's actually just fancy plastic.
The Aneros Progasm Ice looks like it’s made from glass, but it’s actually made from a special non-porous medical-grade plastic. Each toy has an air bubble inside, giving it a unique sleek aesthetic. Like most Aneros models, the Progasm Ice is a non-motorized toy that you use your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles to control.
With an insertable length of 4 inches, it's the largest Aneros model currently on offer. It's also one of the stiffest, so it's best for intermediate and advanced Aneros users. You might have noticed the 2 arms - these are designed to stimulate your perineum and your spine. In my experience, the spine one ("Kundalini tab") does nothing though.
PROS: Sleek aesthetic, 4 inches of insertable length, possibility of reaching the famous Aneros Super O
CONS: Stiff plastic, arms can dig into you uncomfortably, too big for beginners
Pinpoint Prostate Massager
Small male toy with a "rolling tip"
Have you ever heard of an adult toy that "rolls" before? Me neither! The Pinpoint Prostate Massager uses a special motor inside the tip which rotates a ball at 3 different speeds depending on your preference. It can also produce a whopping 12 different vibrations, giving you a grand total of 36 sensations to explore!
These 36 sensations can all be controlled via a wireless remote, something I wish was a standard for all sex toys. When I inevitably become a dictator, "all sex toys must have wireless remote controls" will be my first order of tyranny.
PROS: Unique "rolling tip", 36 different sensations, waterproof, fast charging
CONS: 3-inch length may be too small for some guys
E-Stim Prostate Massager
It's like a shock to the system!
The MyStim Twisting Tom is the world's only prostate massager with four electrical poles that stimulate both the prostate and perineum at the same time. It’s made from medical-grade silicone with Flex & Stay technology so you can bend it into any shape you like, which is great if you find that one-size-fits-all toys don't quite find your prostate.
If you want to use the e-stim function, you’ll need a separate device such as the MyStim Tension Lover. For guys who like e-stim, you can’t get much more intense than this. I mean, complete with a 1.5-inch diameter and 5-inch insertion depth, it’s definitely an advanced toy!
PROS: Flexible shape, 2 e-stim areas, very intense stimulation
CONS: Too big for beginners, wires can fall out easily
Top 4 Vibrating Prostate Massagers
If you want to experience anal pleasure without the training and practice required for Aneros-style massagers, then vibrating prostate toys are perfect for you. You're unlikely to experience a full-blown prostate orgasm, but they sure make sex and masturbation feel good!
Here are a few of our favorites:
- The Edge by Lovense has up to 5,000 patterns and can even sync to music. It's also totally adjustable and can be connected to your smartphone via the Lovense app.
- The Aneros Vice 2 is a new 2019 vibrating prostate massager from Aneros. It comes with a wireless remote control and 4.25 inches of length. Check out our review!
- The Lelo Bruno has two vibrators, one for the prostate and one for the perineum. It's a simple yet effective dual stimulation design.
- The Nexus Revo 2 has internal and external vibrations, as well as a rotating tip. Certainly a unique combination of sensations.
Best Cheap Prostate Massagers
If you're thinking about prostate play but you don't want to get a second mortgage just to afford the top-of-the-line massagers, there are some cheap prostate toys out there which can help introduce you to this world without breaking the bank.
- The Mood Naughty butt plug is a quality toy at an affordable price. It also has a decent size to it and it's made from flexible yet sturdy silicone.
- The Paloqueth Vibrating Prostate Massager isn’t as durable as more expensive toys, but it has many of the same features at a fraction of the price.
- The Icicles Glass Prostate Massager is a handblown glass massager which comes in at a nice cheap price tag. The glass might be too stiff for beginners is all I'd say.
Prostate toys are great for improving control of your pelvic floor muscles through "Kegel exercises". If you're looking for intense multiple male orgasms, it's best to start training these muscles in your body with toys like these:
- The Aneros Helix Syn will stimulate the inside and outside of your body. It's one of the easiest Aneros toys to use
- The Lelo Bruno is a hands-free toy with two built-in vibrators, though you could also use it manually
- The Aneros Progasm Ice is a large plastic prostate massager designed for people who want a feeling of fullness in their bottom
Best Prostate Massager for Prostatitis
Prostatitis can lead to difficulty with urination and other health issues. One of the benefits of prostate stimulation is that it can relieve symptoms of prostatitis and lead to a healthier and happier prostate. There are actually numerous benefits to prostate massage. Here are a few prostate massagers that directly stimulate the prostate and help the surrounding muscles to relax:
- The Nexus Revo 2 has a rotating head to directly stimulate the prostate
- The Duke has a curved design to apply extra pressure to the prostate
- The Pinpoint Prostate Massager has a rolling ball in the tip for more gentle stimulation
FAQ: What is a prostate orgasm?
Guys, whether you're straight, gay, or whatever, you NEED to experience an orgasm from your prostate. If you've never experienced this intense pleasure and (sometimes) hands-free cumming, here's a NSFW video that shows a guy having a prostate orgasm with the Lelo Hugo toy.
If you practice and train your body correctly, you can learn to have a full-body orgasm that lasts for several minutes. Sometimes you don't even get hard or ejaculate in the process - it's a whole new sexual experience entirely. This means that it's also possible for guys with ED or subs in chastity.
An orgasm from prostate massage starts with a series of sensations building up in the pelvic area, including contractions of the sphincter. You’ll feel increasing tension and warmth in your lower body, leading to trembling expanding out from your pelvic area. Sometimes your legs and body will shake around like in this (NSFW) video.
The peak of the orgasm is a feeling of release in the pelvic muscles that can spread out through your whole body. Some guys get an erection and some don’t, but either way, your penis isn’t the focus. Try to not focus on your cock too much throughout the process.
It can be hard to imagine if you’ve never had one before, especially if you think of “orgasm” being equivalent to “ejaculation.” But with a little practice and mindfulness, you can be having full-body orgasms too. Our prostate milking guide goes into more detail.
How to use a prostate massager?
Cleaning and preparing
Some guys like to wait until shortly after they’ve had a bowel movement to use a prostate toy, so they know that their rectum is empty. If you've just had a "solid" bowel movement and you feel empty, you should be good to go. Maybe put a towel down still. Arses can be unpredictable.
If you want to really make sure that your bottom is clean, you could try anal douching to really get your bottom spotless. Remember that most P-spot toys are actually quite small, so we don't need to be cleaning our arses out SUPER deeply.
A big part of prostate massage is finding the right position. Since everyone’s body lines up a little differently, you’ll have to see what position works best for you.
For many guys, it’s lying on their back with their knees bent and legs lifted up like this (NSFW). I personally use pillows to support my knees in that position. Many guys also like lying on their side with their legs bent up slightly toward their chest.
Once you're in position, let yourself relax and try to loosen up your rectum. Don’t try to insert a toy in all the way at once. Start by putting some lube on your finger and pushing one or two fingers in at a time. Make sure you can locate your prostate, which should be about an inch or two into your rectum, toward your penis.
It might feel weird at first, but eventually your body will get used to the new sensations. As your rectum loosens up, you’ll be able to insert the tip of your prostate massager in place of your finger. Just relax and allow the toy to slide into place - they're designed to "know" where they're going.
Now, you can focus on the prostate massage. If you have a vibrating massager, try it on a low setting and slowly increase it. Be sure to stay relaxed and fight the urge to clench up with tension.
If your toy is manual, try to gently contract your kegel muscles until you feel a pleasurable sensation. Once the sensation is washing over you, gently contract your sphincter muscles to "pulse" the toy against your P-spot. This NSFW video goes into great detail and our prostate milking guide is helpful too.
It may take a few tries until you manage to have an orgasm from your prostate, so don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t happen right away! Practising mindfulness meditation and relaxation techniques can also be really helpful, as prostate orgasms require a lot of concentration on subtle movements within the body.
Getting over the fear of "butt stuff"
"Butt stuff" is often associated with gay men and anal sex, so a lot of guys (including some gay guys!) are hesitant to try it for fear of being "weak" or "feminine" or whatever other bullshit we've been programmed to believe. You need to get over this fear if you want to experience the best orgasms of your life.
It's not uncommon for straight men to get pegged or fingered by their female partners these days - it's a fun new way to play a more submissive role in the bedroom. Whether you like it or not, the male G spot happens to be located inside your bottom, so you're never going to maximize your sexual pleasure if you don't try it.
Finding Your P-Spot
Some guys think of the prostate as the “p-spot,” or the equivalent of the female g-spot. Just like the female orgasm, the P-spot orgasm can be elusive and hard to describe. Finding your P-spot is not always easy, but you'll just kind of "know" when you're massaging it because you'll feel pleasurable sensations washing over your body and down to your legs and toes. If you feel little pleasure, you're probably in the wrong place!
So which P-spot product did you think was the best? Did you agree with my top picks of the best prostate massagers? Please leave a comment below if you have any questions!