When you hear the phrase “male sex toy,” you probably think about fleshlights or maybe even sex dolls. But there’s another type of male sex toy that’s starting to get more attention these days: the prostate massager. As straight and bisexual men are becoming more comfortable talking about butt play, the quality and variety of prostate massagers is getting more diverse than ever.
In this post, we’ll look at some of our favorite brands, as well as some do’s and dont’s for noobies. But first, our coutdown to the 15 best prostate massagers.
a hands-free toy for internal and external stimulation
The Aneros Helix Syn is designed specifically to get your body trained for prostate orgasms. Unlike an anal dildo, you don’t use your hands to push it in and out of your body. Instead, you use your pelvic floor muscles to clench and unclench around the toy, drawing it further in to your rectum. With practice, the Helix Syn will train you to experience full-body prostate massages.
The Helix Syn is a great toy for guys new to anal play. It’s small enough to fit in easily without causing discomfort, and has two external tabs: one for you to pull it out, and one that gently stimulates the perineum. Also, it’s coated with silicone, making it easy to clean and safe to insert inside your body. This is one of the top selling prostate massagers for a reason!
PROS: silicone coating, external Comfort Tab, waterproof
CONS: requires a lot of lube, attracts dust
an adjustable, hi-tech prostate massager
The Edge by Lovense is a great sex toy for men who want some vibrations with their prostate stimulation. The Edge has two built-in vibrators, one in the insertable end to massage your prostate, and the other in the external end to stimulate your perineum. They’re designed to last for 1.5 - 2 hours per charge and are easily rechargeable by USB. Its silicone coating means it’s body-safe and easy to clean, plus it’s waterproof for use in the bath or shower.
The vibration patterns are where the Edge really stands out. Connect the toy to your smartphone via Bluetooth and use an app to control it wirelessly. You can choose from 5,000 patterns or create one of your own. If you have a partner, they can control it from the other room - or from halfway around the world. You can even pick a song and set it to vibrate in sync with the music.
PROS: remote-control vibrations, rechargeable, syncs to music
CONS: buttons are hard to press, Bluetooth connection can drop
8 inches of stainless steel
Njoy is known for making high-quality stainless steel dildos. But these large, heavy sex toys can be a bit intimidating. Once you get over the learning curve, you’ll appreciate the simplicity of this elegant massager. Stainless steel products have a different feel than silicone sex toys. They’re non-porous and easy to clean: you can boil them or even put them in the dishwasher. They warm up easily and can be used with any type of lube.
The Pure Wand has two bulbous ends, one smaller than the other, so you can insert either side depending on how intense of an experience you’re looking for. To stimulate your prostate, just rock the wand back and forth until you find the “p-spot”. Since it’s so heavy, you can’t use it for hands-free play, but it’s perfect for use with a partner applying gentle pressure.
PROS: two insertable ends, curved design
CONS: heavy (1.5 lbs), takes some getting used to
an ergonomic sex toy with two vibrators
The Lelo Bruno looks and feels similar to the Edge, but without the remote control function. That means there are less vibration patterns to choose from, but it certainly makes for a simpler experience. The curved design is meant to press directly against the prostate, while the external vibrator massages the perineum. Because it’s so powerful and there are less control options, it may be too intense for guys new to prostate play.
As with the Edge, it’s rechargeable and waterproof, with a silicone coating that’s easy to clean and non-toxic. It’s also quiet and hands-free, so you can leave it in during partnered sex if you can handle the extra stimulation!
PROS: built-in vibrators, rechargeable, waterproof
CONS: no remote control, not many patterns
an elegant wooden prostate toy
Long before there were silicone sex toys, there were carved wooden dildos. Wood is an excellent material for sex toys because they can last for decades if cared for properly. Nobessense makes their toys from sustainably-sourced wood and coats them with Lubrosity, a smooth, body-safe finish.
The Dare Sculptured Hardwood Prostate Massager has a large insertable bulb and a smaller knob that presses against the perineum. Because the bulb is so big, it’s best for guys who already have some experience with prostate massage. The toy is waterproof and requires only a small amount of lube. Clean it using gentle soap and water and store it safely.
PROS: lasts for years, doesn’t require much lube
CONS: too large for some guys, can be damaged if dropped
a large butt plug for prostate play
Doc Johnson is known for making more affordable, sex toys for men, and the Mood Naughty 2 is no exception. For under $25, this toy can meet all of your prostate pleasuring needs. Designed to stay in for hours at a time, you can choose from one of several sizes depending on your level of experience and stimulation preferences.
The bulbous head presses against the prostate, while the base is designed to fit snugly against the body. It’s made of silicone, so it’s non-toxic and waterproof, and can be easily cleaned for regular use.
PROS: affordable, waterproof, body-safe silicone
CONS: can acquire smells or lint if not cleaned properly
a flexible sex toy designed to shock
If you’re looking for a sex toy with excellent (shock) value, Curving Curt will stimulate your prostate and then some. Designed to be used with the MyStim Tension Lover or MyStim Pure Vibes, Curving Curt has electric poles that can add extra intensity to your prostate orgasm. This toy is made with unique “Flex & Stay” materials that will hold their shape in any position you twist them into.
That means you can get just the right curve to stimulate your prostate no matter your body shape and size, with a handy ring for easy removal. It’s made with medical-grade silicone, so you can easily wash it with soap and water after each use.
PROS: unique flexible design, electric stimulation
CONS: requires additional unit for e-stim
a prostate massager with a rotating head
The Nexus Revo 2 has so many different points of stimulation you might feel a little overwhelmed the first time you try it! Its highlight is the rotating head that is designed to pleasure your prostate at 2 different speeds. There’s also an external perineum stimulator with 3 vibration speeds and a raised texture for extra sensations. Use the buttons on the base to change the settings.
The Revo 2 lasts for four hours on a single charge. It’s made of silicone, so is body-safe and non-toxic, but it’s not waterproof, so be careful not to get water on the base of the toy when cleaning it. Because it’s so large, it might be too intense for new users, but experienced sex toy users will surely find some novel sensations you haven’t encountered before!
PROS: 2 rotation speeds, external vibrations, rechargeable
CONS: not waterproof, long charging time, large base
a vibrating massager with an extra curve
The Duke by Fun Factory is a vibrating massager with a unique upper curve, creating an added sense of fullness and pressure on the prostate. Although it has several vibration settings, you may either find it too strong or too weak for your liking - and jarring when you switch between them. If you can handle the intensity, the Duke has some nice features to recommend it.
Because it has a magnetic charging port rather than a standard USB port, it’s fully waterproof so you can take it in the shower or bath with you. You can also remove the vibrator to do a more thorough cleaning of the insertable portion. It’s made of medical grade silicone, so it’s body safe and requires water-based lube.
PROS: waterproof, rechargeable, removable vibrator
CONS: too intense, takes a long time to charge
a strap-on dildo with a curved tip
This silicone dildo is 5.7 inches long and is designed with a curved tip for extra prostate stimulation. It can be used solo, or attached to a harness for strap-on play, so it’s perfect for couples who like pegging. The Ambit is hand-crafted, so you’ll be able to appreciate the look of its beautiful colors and design (when it’s not inside you!). Experienced dildo users may find it too small, but it’s great for newbies who are still having trouble locating their prostate. The unique curved design will find it for you!
PROS: hand-sculpted, can be used with a harness
CONS: smaller than other dildos
a compact butt plug for prostate play
The NjoyPfun Plug is a compact butt plug designed for prostate stimulation. Because it’s made of steel, it will warm up to your body’s internal temperature, or you can heat it or cool it for more intense temperature play. It’s also easy to sterilize after each use and suitable for use with any kind of lube.
Since it’s a butt plug, it’s meant to be kept in for hours at a time, but some guys find that it can twist and turn while wearing. The handle can also be a little uncomfortable, since it’s ring-shaped rather than flat. Compared to other butt plugs, most guys find that it’s best for short-duration play.
PROS: stainless steel, easy to clean
CONS: large handle, doesn’t stay in place
a high-end, luxury prostate massager
The Lelo Loki is at the higher-end of prostate pleasure play, with a sleek wand that comes with its own satin storage sleeve. Although there’s no remote, the buttons at the base allow you to switch between 6 different vibration settings during play. The entire device is waterproof, so you can take it into the bath or shower with you, and charge it later using the USB port. The toy is pretty wide, so it may be too big for some guys, but if you can warm up to it, its perfectly curved tip won’t fail to pleasure your prostate every time.
PROS: waterproof, rechargeable, 6 vibration settings
CONS: expensive, may be too wide for some guys
the best cheap vibrating massager
The Paloqueth Vibrating Prostate Massager has many of the same features as the Edge and Lelo Bruno, but at a fraction of the price. With two built-in vibrators - one for the prostate and one for the perineum - and 10 vibration patterns, this affordable sex toy will keep your prostate satisfied. It’s 100% waterproof, so you can bring it in the shower or bath, and also has a remote control you can use to easily change between settings. However, some guys say that the remote stopped working or it doesn’t hold a charge, so be aware that it may not be as durable as more expensive sex toys.
PROS: affordable price, 2 motors, 10 patterns
CONS: short-range remote, unreliable charger
3 stimulation points in 1 toy
The Paloqueth 3 in 1 Prostate Stimulator is one of the only prostate toys that has three points of contact. In addition to prostate and perineum stimulation, this one provides vibrations to your testicles too. It has a remote control and can cycle through 8 different settings. Like the other Paloqueth massager, it’s 100% waterproof and can be recharged via USB. However, keep in mind that this is a budget-friendly device and may not last as long as other toys.
PROS: 3 motors in 1, USB rechargeable
CONS: remote and charger aren’t durable
a handblown glass butt plug
The Icicles Glass Prostate Massager is an affordable glass butt plug shaped to stimulate your prostate. Just like with steel toys, you can use this with any kind of lube and it’s ideal for temperature play. With 4 inches in length and with a rounded tip, it’s the perfect size to reach your prostate without feeling too overwhelming. It also has a ring at the bottom for easy removal.
PROS: waterproof, body-safe, curved design
CONS: handle can shatter when dropped
an elegant, hands-free prostate massager
The Aneros Ice looks like it’s made of glass, but it’s actually made from a non-porous medical-grade plastic. Each toy has an air bubble inside, which gives it a unique, elegant style. There are two external tabs, one that presses against the perineum, and one that reaches further up the butt crack, called the Kundalini Tab. You can also use these tabs to remove the toy from your body. Due to its size and shape, this toy is intended for more experienced prostate play, but is sturdy and reliable for regular use.
PROS: easy to clean, two external tabs
CONS: made of plastic instead of silicone
a compact toy with a rolling tip
The Pinpoint Prostate Massager is a contoured toy that can be inserted up to 3 inches. The bulb has a rolling ball inside with 3 speeds and 12 vibrations. It even has a memory chip that stores your most recent setting so you can pick up right where you left off. The device is waterproof and made of silicone, and only takes 1 hour to recharge by USB. You can control it either with the built-in buttons or a separate remote. It’s small enough for guys new to prostate play, with enough options to keep more experienced guys entertained.
PROS: waterproof, fast charging, remote control option
CONS: may be too small for some guys
an e-stim massager with four poles
The MyStim Twisting Tom is the only prostate massager with four electrical poles that stimulate both the prostate and the perineum at the same time. It’s made of medical-grade silicone with Flex & Stay technology so you can bend it into any shape you like. If you want to use the e-stim function, you’ll need a separate device such as the MyStim Tension Lover. For guys who like e-stim, you can’t get more intense than this. But with a 1.5 inch diameter and 5 inch insertion depth, it’s definitely not for beginners!
PROS: flexible shape, 2 e-stim areas
CONS: too big for beginners, wires fall out easily
If you’re looking for an intense prostate massage, there are plenty of vibrating massagers to choose from, including several with remote control options.
Here are a few of our favorites:
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If you haven’t tried prostate play yourself, you may still be wondering what all the fuss is about. Why not just stick to what you’re good at and get another pocket pussy? Can prostate play really be any better than masturbation?
For many guys, it is. If you learn to do it right, you can have a “full-body” orgasm that’s more intense than ejaculation. You don’t even need an erection to have a prostate orgasm, so it’s great for guys who have erectile dysfunction or trouble ejaculating. Some guys even have multiple orgasms in a row!
A prostate orgasm starts with a series of sensations building up in the pelvic area, including contractions of the sphincter. You’ll feel increasing tension and warmth in your lower body, leading to trembling expanding out from your pelvic area. The peak of the orgasm is a feeling of release in the pelvic muscles that can spread out through your whole body. Some guys get an erection and some don’t, but either way, your penis isn’t the focus.
It can be hard to imagine if you’ve never had one before, especially if you think of “orgasm” being equivalent to “ejaculation.” But with a little practice and the right tools to massage your prostate, you can be having full-body orgasms too.
Since the only way to reach the prostate is through the anus, it’s important to spend some time preparing the area. Some guys like to wait until shortly after they’ve had a bowel movement, so they know that their rectum is empty.
After that, take a shower and make sure to clean your butt well. Use a cloth or finger to clean the opening, or even better, use an enema bulb to wash it out. If you haven’t used one before, don’t freak out: it’s just water, and will help make sure the inside of your rectum (not just the opening) is fully clean.
A big part of prostate massage is finding the right position. Since everyone’s body lines up a little differently, you’ll have to see what position works best for you. For many guys, it’s lying on their back with their knees bent and legs lifted up. If that position is difficult for you, lying on your side can work too.
Then, let yourself relax and try to loosen up your rectum. Don’t try to insert a toy in all the way at once. Start by putting some lube on your finger and pushing one or two fingers in at a time. Make sure you can locate your prostate, which should be about an inch or two into your rectum, toward your penis.
It might feel weird at first, but eventually your body will get used to the new sensations. As your rectum loosens up, you’ll be able to insert the tip of your prostate massager in place of your finger.
Most toys are designed to slide in easily. If some parts are wider than others, don’t force it in. Focus on clenching and unclenching your butt muscles and the toy will eventually end up in its proper position.
Now, you can focus on the prostate massage. If you have a vibrating massager, try it on a low setting and slowly increase it. If your toy is handheld, try making some gentle side-to-side motions with it. Remember, it’s not a dildo, so don’t push it in and out repeatedly, and stop if you feel any pain.
It may take a few tries until you manage to have a prostate orgasm, so don’t be discouraged if it doesn’t happen right away!
Even with all of the good things you’ve heard about prostate orgasms, you may still think of “butt stuff” as being only for certain types of guys, such as for gay or bisexual men. But you don’t have to be into anal sex to enjoy a prostate massage - they’re totally different sensations. Besides, plenty of straight guys enjoy receiving a prostate massage from their female partners. Everyone should be able to have a prostate orgasm without worrying about their sexuality.If you’re worried about getting dirty, you’ll find that that’s rarely an issue. As long as you’re clearing out your bowels regularly, then a quick shower and an optional douche will be enough to make sure that you’re clean down there.
Some guys think of the prostate as the “p-spot,” or the equivalent of the female g-spot. Just like the female orgasm, the prostate orgasm can be elusive and hard to describe. If you’ve never put anything into your anus before, then it’s likely to be a novel experience. But with so many prostate massagers of all shapes and sizes, you’re bound to find one that will help you find your p-spot.
What prostate massager did you think was the best? Did you agree with my top picks? Please leave a comment below if you have any questions.