8 Top VR Sex Toys in 2020

8 Best VR Sex Toys for Ultra-Realistic Blowjobs [2024]

By: JC Ways

As a fan of both sex toys and Star Trek, VR sex toys intrigue me. They feel like sex toys of the future – things that you’d see in futuristic movies or episodes of Black Mirror. Alas, virtual reality sex machines exist and many of them are surprisingly affordable. My personal favorite is the Fleshlight Launch, but there are so many VR sex toys on the market these days. From Bluetooth sex toys to cock strokers with virtual reality headsets, there’s something for everyone’s needs and budget.Here I take a look at the best VR sex toy products of 2021 and answer your burning questions. Let’s get to it!

What is a VR Sex Toy?

What is a VR Sex Toy

There’s no strict definition of a virtual reality sex toy. In general, this refers to adult toys for men that use automatic masturbation machines and video headsets to simulate a sexual experience. If the girl/guy on the VR porn headset sucks your cock slowly, the automatic masturbator strokes your cock slowly. If they speed up and start jacking you off, the machine starts stroking your cock more quickly to “match” this virtual reality porn.This video about Kiiroo products gives you a good idea of what to expect.However, what about automatic male masturbators that can be controlled by your phone via Bluetooth? What about remote control vibrators like the Lovense Nora which can be controlled by a long-distance partner over Wi-Fi? Do they count as VR sex products?For the purposes of this review, I’m counting “smart sex toys” which have some advanced level of technology and control. Some are more “virtual reality” than others, but all of them are decently priced and will show you a good time!

Top 8 VR Sex Toys

Kiiroo KEON + FeelMe AI

AI-powered blowjobs from your fave pornstar!
Best For: Real-Feel sex with porn stars

Kiiroo’s KEON automatic male masturbator is a VR-compatible male sex toy that takes penis stroking to the next level, stroking your penis at up to 230 strokes per minute until you climax!

Paired with their brand new FeelMe AI system, you can receive AI-powered blowjobs from your favorite pornstars.

There are 100s of different pornstar videos integrated into the FeelMe AI system, including Lisa Ann, Asa Akira, and Dillion Harper. Take your pick!


  • AI-powered blowjobs, 230 strokes per minute, very powerful masturbator


  • Pricey

Fleshlight Launch

Take your Fleshlight to the next level.
Best For: Making the Fleshlight experience even better!

Many male interactive sex toys don’t really “stroke” your cock – they kind of squeeze it, rub it, or vibrate it with their mechanisms. That’s fine and all, but the Fleshlight Launch literally strokes your penis up and down 180 times per minute with a full-sized Fleshlight toy. It’s actually a collaboration between Fleshlight and Kiiroo, so you get the technology of 2 companies!

Fleshlight Launch

Yes, this interactive sex toy also syncs with virtual reality porn content, including many of the major virtual reality porn sites like FeelMe and VR Bangers. It doesn’t work with all goggles, so make sure you do your research before buying the wrong ones! The software regularly updates itself for free, and the toy is totally rechargeable with wireless Bluetooth connectivity.

What more do you want? Should I tell you that it makes sandwiches too?


  • Headset compatibility, 180 dick strokes per minute, advanced features


  • Only works with standard-size Fleshlights, expensive

Kiiroo Onyx 2

Much sexier than the Pokémon, I assure you.
Best For: Using for VR chat sex and with VR porn app sites.

Another collaboration between Fleshlight and Kiiroo, the Onyx 2 actually uses the famous Fleshlight “Superskin” sleeve material for its stroker – the same skin-like patented material that is reserved for the best fleshlights. It uses a system of contracting rings to massage and stroke your penis, syncing up with porn, video chats, or even your partner’s long-distance vibrator.

Kiiroo Onyx 2


If you can stand the woman’s annoying voice, the Kiiroo Onyx 2 ad is full of useful information.


  • Video chat compatible, can sync with other devices, features Superskin sleeve


  • Battery life could be longer, pricey

Titan by Kiiroo

Armed to the teeth with vibrating motors.
Best For: Guys who REALLY like vibrations on their cock.

The Kiiroo Titan is an interesting virtual reality sex toy because it uses 9 vibrating motors to massage your cock at different points. However, it doesn’t stroke your cock or use contractions to “milk” it – you need to stroke the machine up and down yourself. Still, you get 3 different penis sleeves to choose from and it does sync up with interactive porn!

Titan by Kiiroo

The Titan can also sync up with the OhMiBod Fuse, a female vibrator that can mimic the vibrations of the Kiiroo Titan in real-time, making a great long-distance sex toy for couples who live far apart or go on business trips.


  • 9 vibrating motors, touch-sensitive control pads, syncs with VR porn, 3 sleeves


  • You need to stroke manually, not as “realistic”

Autoblow AI

Enjoy unlimited blowjobs galore.
Best For: Watching POV blowjob porn.

Apparently, the makers of the Autoblow AI used machine learning technology and forced a bot to watch hundreds of hours of blowjob porn videos in order to learn the most effective BJ techniques. I’m not sure whether I believe that, but this thing produces 10 different blowjob experiences and while it doesn’t sync with VR, it feels great while watching POV porn!


  • 10 blowjob settings, interchangeable skin-like sleeves, 250 different positions


  • Plugs into the wall, limited sensations

Quickshot Launch

Like the Fleshlight Launch, but a bit smaller/faster.
Best For: Watching porn on your phone.

The Quickshot Launch doesn’t sync with virtual reality, but it does come with a very handy smartphone mount that is compatible with basically all smartphones. Put your favorite porn on and use this automatic male masturbator to stroke your cock into submission.Quickshot Launch

The Quickshot Launch is compatible with the Fleshlight Quickshot mini strokers, hence the name. It comes with various settings for stroke length, speed, and position, stroking your penis up to 250 times per minute at the base, shaft, or tip depending on your preference. The controls are intuitive, so matching the speed to your porn is easy to do on your own.


  • 250 strokes per minute, 3 different “pleasure zones”, universal smartphone mount


  • Large and bulky, can have glitch issues

Fleshlight Mounts

Get humping!
Best For: Watching missionary scenes.

Okay, so Fleshlight mounts like the Liberator Mission Mount (and much cheaper Fleshlight Shower Mount) aren’t interactive products, but if you’re watching VR sex in the missionary position through a headset, then humping your favorite Fleshlight with one of these products is a safe and intense way to get your rocks off and feel included in the porn.

Fleshlight Mounts

You could try fucking your Fleshlight on your bed, but they tend to slip and slide all over the place, especially if you’re wearing a VR headset.


  • Train your stamina, “fuck” your fleshlight, realistic VR experience


  • You have to buy a bunch of extra stuff to make it “VR”

Realdoll Sex Doll

It doesn’t get much realer than this.
Best For: Imitating real sex pretty closely.

Realdoll makes incredibly complex life-size sex dolls like the Harmony X and the Solana X, both of which are fully customizable. If you can afford one of these amazing sex dolls, you can fairly easily squeeze and fuck her while watching virtual sex porn. Then again, these dolls are integrated with AI and machine learning, so you might not need VR at this point!

RealDoll Sex Doll


  • AI-integrated, incredible technology and features, fully customizable experience


  • Very expensive, very bulky

Lovense Max 2

Milk your cock within an inch of its life.
Best For: Taking your penis on a little adventure.

The Lovense Max 2 is an automatic male masturbator which can be controlled via an app on your phone over Bluetooth or Wi-Fi. This Bluetooth sex toy uses the Lovense Remote app which can sync with music, sync with other sex products, or follow an infinite number of vibration/contraction patterns created by you or other Lovense users.

The Max 2 from Lovense

Your partner can control the Lovense Max 2 from the other side of the world, making virtual sex and dirty Skype calls incredibly exciting!


  • Vibrates and contacts, easy to clean/charge, controlled via “remote control” app


  • Contractions are very loud, sleeve is tight

DIY VR Sex Toys

DIY VR Sex Toys

If you want to make a DIY virtual reality sex toy, the easiest way is this:Purchase a low-cost VR headset on Amazon which uses your smartphone as the video screen. They’re not really proper VR goggles, but you can use these devices to watch POV porn without holding your phone.Next take a Fleshlight toy or cheaper pocket pussy toy and sandwich it between your mattress and your bed. Kneeling at the correct height (with pillows if necessary), “fuck” the Fleshlight while watching the porn on your headset.If you can’t afford a Fleshlight or you don’t want to buy one, you could try a similar trick with a cheap DIY Fleshlight. We made an article listing 25 DIY Fleshlights using everyday household items and bits of things from IKEA if you’re looking for ideas.

Best VR Sites to Use With Your Sex Toys

Best VR Sites to Use With Your Sex Toys

There are so many virtual reality porn sites popping up online, but here are my favorites!

VR Bangers

VR Bangers has lots of different online movies and categories to choose from, including cosplay, curvy, shemale, blowjobs, orgies, and more. They’re also involved in VR sex games like VirtualMate and AR Conk, an augmented reality porn app that allows you to touch a virtual woman in real-time.

The VR Bangers slogan is “Make America Hard Again”. Shut up and take my money.


I mean, who doesn’t love the name “WankzVR”? That’s an amazing company name. WankzVR has won “VR Site of The Year” in 2018 and 2019 from the XBIZ Awards, and it’s not hard to see why. With lots of supported devices and 400+ exclusive porn movies, they’ve got a lot to boast about.


Another VR porn site boasting loads of awards, BadoinkVR has 380+ exclusive videos and regularly releases 2 more videos every week so you’ve constantly got something to look forward to. With exclusives from popular pornstars including Riley Reid, who also has her own Riley Reid Fleshlight, you can’t go wrong with this virtual-reality porn company.


The gay version of VR-Bangers, VRBGay features a wide range of Gay VR porn, including 8 360-degree VR experiences that you can use with headsets like the Oculus Rift and PlayStation VR system. There aren’t as many movies as you get on the straight websites, but it’s starting to catch up quickly. From twinks to muscle daddies, it’s all there!

How to Use VR Sex Toys

How to Use VR Sex Toys

Connecting your VR sex toy to your virtual reality porn is actually incredibly easy. This video shows you how to connect to interactive content for products including the Fleshlight Launch, Kiiroo Onyx, and more.1. Download the FeelConnect app from your Appstore and install in on your smartphone.2. Make sure your toy has Bluetooth switched on.3. Select “Connect a device” on the FeelConnect app and choose your sex toy from the list.4. Once your smartphone is connected, visit a VR porn site like VR Bangers or FeelMe.5. Watch your favorite interactive porn and the toy will automatically sync to what’s happening on-screen.It really is that simple. VR sex made easy.


Cum-clusion. top VR sex toys

All in all, I think that the Fleshlight Launch is the top product by far, though the Onyx 2 and Titan deserve honorable mentions as some of the best VR sex toys. The Fleshlight Launch can be used with any standard-sized STU Fleshlight, so you can customize your wank experience with the different sleeves and sensations that Fleshlight has to offer.Furthermore, the Fleshlight Launch is the only VR sex toy on this list which literally strokes your cock up and down in sync to VR porn – most of the others just give your cock a massage with vibrations or contractions. That’s nice and all, but the up-and-down strokes of the Launch are much more lifelike if you’re going for the realistic experience.I hope you enjoyed our guide to the top-rated male interactive sex products. Have fun, stay safe, and don’t lose your grip on reality!

Written by

JC Ways

Born into a family of avant-garde artists, JC Ways rebelled against conventional paths from an early age. After obtaining a degree in Gender Studies and Creative Writing, they embarked on a journey to challenge societal norms through their writing. Embracing the intersection of sexuality and identity, JC found their calling at Sextoycollective.com, where they can explore and celebrate the diverse spectrum of human pleasure. With a flair for eloquent prose and a keen eye for innovative products, JC elevates the discourse around sexual wellness, advocating for inclusivity and empowerment in every article they pen.

  • Jo says:

    I don’t get why thehandy is on none of these list. Check it out ;—)

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