1 in 4 straight women are having anal sex a few times a month. 15% of men are having anal sex regularly, including some straight and bisexual men. As the world becomes more educated on the joy of sex, an increasing number of men and women are goin' in the backdoor.
Here I’ve handpicked some of the best female and male anal toys on the market, covering everything from small buttplugs to deep anal dildos and P-spot massagers. Let’s go!
If you’re new to anal stimulation and you’re worried about pain or discomfort, these beginner toys are great for introducing butt sex and ass play into your life.
Comes with a douche and everything!
If you’re venturing into anal stimulation for the first time, the Anal Explorer Kit by Calexotics has everything you need to get started. Featuring a bulb-style anal douche for cleaning, this kit includes a small silicone probe with a suction cup (for attaching to the wall/floor) and a beaded, angled probe. Nothing too big or scary, and you even get a douche!
Teeny tiny little buttplugs!
This beginners anal toy set features 3 plugs with insertable lengths of 1.7 inches, 2 inches, and 3 inches, so it’s good for butt sex amateurs. All the plugs have a ring-style handle so they’re easy to pull out, and you can wash these toys easily with soap and water or by boiling them to get rid of any nasty smells. Believe me, the smells can get truly nasty with ass toys.
A tiny introduction to the wonders of anal stimulation.
This small buttplug is brilliant for anal newbies who want to get used to feeling something inside their ass. At 1-inch wide and 3 inches long, this plug is very small and unintimidating. Featuring a flared base to stop the toy from slipping inside your butt, this cheap silicone buttplug is also 100% hypoallergenic. What’s not to love?
Start small and get progressively larger!
Did you know you can buy anal sex toys on Amazon? This 3-piece anal training set features 3 plug-style silicone toys that get progressively larger in size, boasting 2.75, 3.5, and 4.5 inches of insertable length. The curved shaft design of these toys make them ideal for prostate stimulation for men, though they can be used by women just as comfortably.
Great for all-day wear.
Doc Johnson anal sex toys tend to be high quality, and this plug is no exception. This small anal plug has 3 inches of insertable length with a slim design and tapered edge for easy insertion. It also has a long neck and the T-bar base is ergonomically curved, making it easy to wear comfortably all day if you’re experimenting with wearing anal plugs outside the home.
Maybe more intermediate than beginner.
Slightly bigger than the other beginners’ anal toys on this list, the Calexotics 3-piece anal trainer kit features 3 silicone plugs with 4 inches, 4.25 inches, and 5 inches of insertable length. These plugs are ideal for intermediate users, though some anal newbies will be okay starting with a 4-inch plug if they use plenty of lube and relax.
One of the best anal toys for beginners.
This small anal plug from LoveHoney is the perfect size for experimenting with nice, tingly sensations in your bottom! Featuring a 10-function bullet vibrator with 3 speeds and 7 patterns, this toy is 100% waterproof, so you can take your rumbly butt fun into the bath or shower. It’s powered by a single AAA battery, so try to keep a pack of batteries spare or just take them out your TV remote, whatever.
You can use a lot of dildos for butt play, but it’s better if they have certain qualities, such as a flared base and slightly curved shape. These anal dildos are all perfect for putting up your butt, whether you’re new or experienced in anal stimulation.
Ultra-realistic butt-friendly dildo.
Vixen are known for their high-quality dildos, and this anal dildo is no exception. The toy features a firm core and a soft exterior, helping it to feel lifelike. There are 3 different skintones available and a lovely 7 inches of insertable length to explore. If you’re fairly experienced with anal play, you might wanna treat yourself to a Bandit!
Inspired by Art Deco and Retro Futuristic styles, this unique Etsy dildo comes with 6.25 inches of insertable length, a flared base, and an unusual shape designed for aggressive P-spot stimulation in men (though it can be used by women too). The selling point with this toy is the unique aesthetic, but the shape probably lends itself to more experienced anal players.
Sexy glass for the ass.
This impressive swirling glass dildo boasts 8 inches of insertable length and an impressive reinforced borosilicate glass construction. Because this anal dildo is glass, it can be used with any lubricant, and you can cool it down or heat it up in water for temperature play. Nonetheless, it’s very stiff (obviously) and large, so it’s not a beginners anal toy!
Slightly less intimidating than the Bandit.
Available in 3 skintones and a fabulous rainbow design, the VixSkin Mustang is a realistic silicone dildo with 6.25 inches of insertable length and 1.5 inches of diameter. The skin-like material retains body heat, and the flared base makes it suitable for anal play or using with a harness if you’re looking for strap ons or pegging toys.
The fanciest sex toy in town
These Etsy dildos are customizable, allowing you to combine 2 colors to create a unique and artsy bi-pearlescent sex toy creation. These small dildos are 5 inches long and are designed to mimic a small finger, so they’re perfect if you’re exploring butt sex for the first time. To be honest, I’d probably put these dildos on display. They’re bloody beautiful.
Butt plugs are pleasurable for the wearer, but they can also be used to help stretch your ass before an anal sex session, making the sex easier and more comfortable for you. They come in various shapes and sizes, but these butt plugs are some of my favorites.
Basic intermediate-level buttplug.
This toy is ideal for intermediate buttplug users looking to try something a little bigger. This toy has 5 inches of insertable length and 5.5 inches of maximum circumference, so it gives you a nice feeling of fullness throughout the day. Because it’s made from body safe silicone, it’s also easy to clean via boiling or bleaching.
Weighty stainless steel buttplug.
NJoy are known for their stainless steel sex toys, and their range of steel buttplugs are held in high regard by the sex toy community. The NJoy Pure Plug comes in different sizes for different experience levels, and the steel construction means you can use them with any lubricant you like. Nice.
Although you can wear these plugs all day, they’re very heavy, so I wouldn’t recommend it.
Does what it says on the tin
This inflatable buttplug from Stockroom is 5 inches long and comes with a hand-pump for easy inflation. It’s made from high-quality latex and comes with an air pressure release valve when you want the fun to end. It’s a unique design that’s brilliant if you enjoy a nice girthy toy in your ass.
I don’t recommend wearing this toy outside your home. If it suddenly deflates, it would sound like the most obnoxious fart ever.
Kinda like Ben Wa Balls, but for your ass
Made in Germany by sex toy giants Fun Factory, this unique sex toy is a buttplug meets anal beads meets Ben Wa balls. Basically, you insert this 5-inch toy into your bottom and the 2 balls on the inside rattle and rotate around as you walk and move around, adding extra internal sensations to the party. Fun stuff.
Get wide and girthy!
If you enjoy a feeling of fullness in your bottom but a deep anal dildo isn’t for you, perhaps this 2-inch-wide and 4.25-inch-long silicone butt plug is the toy for you. There’s a tapered point and a narrow neck to help your sphincter muscles hold it in place for as long as you want. It’s also a decent price, so that’s nice.
Fancy getting foxy with some roleplay?
If you wanna release your inner fox, what better way to do it than with a faux fur fox tail buttplug? There are various plug sizes available from 2.7-inch to 3.6-inch and you can choose from metal or silicone plugs to suit your personal preference.
There are places selling real fox fur versions of this, but I can’t personally justify killing a fox for the sake of roleplay.
I mean, just look at it. It’s gorgeous.
If you’re looking for an opulent anal plug, look no further. This glass rose-shaped buttplug has around 2.5 inches of insertable length and is made from handblown glass. It’s definitely one of the best glass sex toys I’ve come across, although I wouldn’t use it for all-day wear. I don’t imagine that sitting on a glass rose is very comfortable.
When you move anal beads in and out, they stimulate erogenous zones in the anus. It’s more common these days to find anal beads that are formed a bit like a probe or a beaded dildo, as it’s less likely that the beads will snap off. Personally, I’m fine with that. Safety first and all that.
We’ve all gotta start somewhere.
These anal beads are great for beginners and intermediate bum sex fans. The Tantus Ripple beads (which are actually more like bumpy dildos) comes in small and large sizes – the smallest size graduates up to 1 inch of width and 5 inches of length, while the larger size goes up to 1.5 inches of width and 6 inches of length.
Is it a dildo or is it anal beads?
Here we have another dildo-meets-anal-beads Frankenstein sex toy – the beaded glass dildo from Lovehoney. This toy is made from handblown reinforced glass and measures a whopping 8 inches in length. It could be used for prostate stimulation if you’re male, though I wouldn’t recommend going past the last bead because it acts as a flared base.
7 and a half inches of bum fun!
These beads from Amazon measure 7.5 inches long and feature 7 unique beads down the length of the toy. Rather than increasing in size, the beads vary in size along the toy, keeping the sensations interesting. If you’re worried about toys being hard to pull out of your ass, there’s actually a ring-pull handle for easy removal. Good stuff.
Cheap, cheerful, and well-made anal beads.
These very affordable anal beads are 4.5 inches long and come to 1.25 inches at the widest point, so they’re good for amateurs and intermediate bead fans. There’s a retrieval ring handle for easy removal, which is great if you’re crap at pulling out beads like I am.v
Anal vibrators are usually plug-style anal sex toys which come with single-speed or multi-speed vibrating bullets inside. Many are waterproof, and some are even USB rechargeable. Vibrating butt toys help to add new levels of pleasure to the anal experience, whether you’re alone at home or wearing a toy in public.
16 vibration modes of fun!
Boasting an impressive 16 vibration modes, this bead-shaped Amazon butt plug is made from body-safe silicone and features a T-shaped base for easy removal. The beads get gradually bigger and you push the toy deeper inside, and it’s waterproof so you can use it in the shower.
This is apparently the Amazon #1 Best Seller in “Anal Beads”. I didn’t realize that Amazon had a whole anal beads section until today.
Get used to taking it up the ass.
If you wanna get used to the feel of a cock in your ass, this Tom Of Finland anal toy is a good place to start. The penis-shaped plug has 4.5 inches of insertable length and is around 1.5 inches at the widest point, so it’s pretty large. It houses a bullet vibrator, but sadly it’s only 1 single speed. Alas, you can’t win ‘em all.
A butt toy you can charge through your laptop.
This USB rechargeable vibrating anal probe comes with 12 vibration functions and 2 motors, so you get 2 points of vibrations rumbling around inside your anus. The flexible silicone adjusts to your body movements, giving this toy a lot of versatility and points on the comfort scale.
Vibrate all day long.
The B-Vibe comes in various different sizes, all of which have 6 levels of vibration intensity. The unusual shape of the B-vibe makes it difficult to get in and out, but it’s ideal for all-day wear because it isn’t going to slip out accidentally. Combine all of this with USB charging and you’ve got yourself one of the best anal vibrators on the market.
The prostate is the "male G spot" found 2-3 inches inside a man’s rectum. A prostate toy, used correctly, can lead to some of the most mind-blowing prostate orgasms on the face of the Earth. Some prostate toys use vibrations while others rely on your sphincter and PC muscles for massage. Our prostate stimulation guide has more info.
Hands-down the best orgasm I’ve ever had
P-spot stimulation is no joke – this toy has made me cum hands-free 3 times now. The pleasure is unreal. Once you learn how to use Aneros massagers, you open up a whole new world of sexual exploration. This toy is made from medical-grade silicone with an ABS plastic core, so it’s totally body safe and easy to sanitize in boiling water if smells become a problem.
The future of prostate massagers is here
The Lelo Hugo is a well-made vibrating prostate toy which comes with a remote control to change vibration settings. However, the remote control also contains sensors which allow you to control the vibration strength by holding the remote at different angles. The shape of the toy is perfect for hitting the P-spot (at least for me) and it’s USB rechargeable too.
Bigger, stiffer, and meaner than the Helix Syn
The Aneros Maximus Trident is a P-spot toy constructed from body-safe ABS plastic. The toy is ideal for more experienced Aneros users, as the stiff construction can take its toll on your sphincter muscles after a while. This toy is capable of very powerful orgasms and even the Super O if you know how to use it. The only downside? It can dig into the perineum uncomfortably.
“Super O” refers to the “super orgasm” that Aneros prostate toys can produce if used correctly. It often takes several months of practice, but the pleasure is incredible. I’ve only reached the “Super O” 2 or 3 times, but I’m always continuing my pleasurable search.
Unisex G-spot fun
The NJoy Purewand has a reputation as one of the best sex toys on the market. Why? Because it can be used to stimulate a man’s P-spot or a woman’s G-spot. This smooth, weightly, stainless steel wand is perfectly curved for anal play and you can easily sanitize it by boiling it in hot water or bleaching it. Truly an all-rounder for everyone.
The only vibrating Aneros toy!
The Aneros Vice 2 is the only prostate toy from Aneros which vibrates, boasting a dedicated remote control which makes it easy to flick through different settings and intensities. There are 18 patterns and 4 vibration speeds available, giving you 72 different sensations to explore. There are dual motors which create pivoting motions, and the toy/remote are USB rechargeable.
I hope you enjoyed this guide to the best anal toys for men and women! Lots of people are scared to put things up their butt due to the fear of poop or discomfort, but with the right preparation, good lube, and a high-quality sex toy, there is plenty of pleasure to be derived from good ol’ anal stimulation.
Basically, put a towel down and don’t have a curry beforehand.
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