By: Tawney Seren
May 14, 2024
Vibrators are great and all, but have you ever tried to change their settings when they’re inside you? It’s awkward, it’s messy, and you lose the flow entirely.
Enter remote control vibrators.
With remote control vibrators (both Bluetooth app & dedicated remote versions) you can make masturbation easier, as well as tease yourself discreetly in public.
Better yet, your partner can tease you discreetly in public. Oh my.
Interested? Here are the best remote control vibrators on the market right now.
Here we’ve put together a list of the best remote control vibrators to help you make the perfect choice.
The world’s #1 remote control vibrator
The Lovense Lush 3 is one of the most sought-after remote-control vibrators out there, and for good reason.
This vibrating egg is smart, intense, and totally wearable.
IPX7 waterproof and whisper-quiet, this quiet egg vibrator syncs up with the Lovense Remote smarthphone app, allowing you or your long-distance partner to control the vibes via Bluetooth and Wi-Fi.
As well as long-distance play, the Lovense Remote App allows you to download and create your own vibration patterns, leading to 1000s of unlimited possibilities.
You can even sync to sounds (great in a nightclub) or sync directly to Spotify. Yes, you can get off to the beat of your favourite slow jams. This is considered one of the all-time best vibrators for a reason.
Have a “rendezvous” with discreet public orgasms.
Ever wanted to tease yourself in public? Or better yet.. have your PARTNER tease you in public?
Say hello to the LoveHoney Rendezvous.
Made from sleek silicone, this 4-inch comfortable clitoris vibrator slips neatly into your panties, with the 6 vibration patterns and 5 strengths buzzing your clit till you’re weak in the knees.
Small and quiet for discreet public use, this is one of the best remote control vibrators if you’re new to this stuff and don’t want to splash too much cash.
Designed to be worn during Penis-in-Vagina sex
The best remote control vibrators aren’t all about solo play and public stuff!
The We-Vibe Sync 2 is designed to be worn during penis-in-vagina sex, adding vibrations to the mix that take both partners’ orgasms over the edge into eye-rolling, toe-curling territory.
However, you can also use this remote control vibrator solo with either the included remote control or downloadable WeVibe app, whatever takes your fancy!
With 3 speeds & 7 vibration patterns included, there are 21 different sensations to get your panties wet, with this 100% waterproof toy handling any messy situation you throw its way.
Boasting a 2-hour runtime and 3 inches of insertable length, this versatile toy is a great all-in-one solution to both solo and partnered play… whether you’re in the same room or 1,000 miles away!
Powerful anal vibrations with a wireless remote control
A prostate massager designed for anal orgasms in men (and anyone with a prostate), this remote control vibrator is perfect for both solo and partner play!
With 3 speeds and 7 vibration patterns, there is a total of 21 sensations to explore… you’re sure to fine the perfect tickle for your anal G spot.
This prostate toy also clocks in at an impressive 4.5 inches of insertable length. This makes it perfect for that “feeling of fullness” if you like your anal toys on the larger side.
It’s definitely one of the best remote control vibrators for anal.
Proof that size doesn’t matter! Touted as the most versatile vibrator ever, the Ambi is comfortable to hold and use in numerous positions along with the Lovense Remote app. You may be curious about the unusual shape of this toy – you can use the broad side or the narrow side depending on what you like. The narrower side of the head can be used to tickle the clitoris for pinpoint stimulation, while the broader side gives you… broader stimulation! Get experimenting!
Lovense Ambi - App-Controlled Vibrator
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One of the most powerful vibrators on the list
This soft and flexible remote-controlled massager is designed to provide clitoral and G-spot stimulation simultaneously, similar to a rabbit vibe.
It’s charged via USB cable, as all the best remote control vibrators are, so you have a wealth of charging options at your disposal.
The Lelo IDA vibrates and rotates inside you. In fact, it vibrates 8 different ways simultaneously. It’s as good as it sounds! Due to its flexibility, Lelo IDA can be used as a sex vibrator during intercourse, amplifying the pleasure.
If that wasn’t enough, this thing is 100% waterproof and lasts for 4 hours with a full charge. It’s probably the best remote control vibrator in terms of pure battery life!
Sequel to the world’s first remote control butt plug.
Looking to spice up your love life with some sweet anal play?
This app-controlled butt plug is ergonomically designed so that it stays in place for several hours – the manufacturers stress that this toy is designed for prolonged use.
It’s made from sturdy yet flexible medical-grade silicone, and there are 4 different sizes (1 inch to 2.25 inch diameter) so you can choose the perfect girth for you.
Using the Lovense Remote app, you can control the vibration strength and pattern of your Hush 2, experimenting with hundreds and thousands of different settings to your heart’s content.
As with the Lush 3, the Hush 2 can be controlled long-distance or locally, so it’s great for both bedroom fun and public play, designed to stay in place comfortably for up to 2 hours or more.
Feeling naughty? Why not let your partner control the vibrations of your butt plug remotely while you’re in public?
Just don’t drive a car or perform surgery or something… you know?
The little remote control pink vibrator that you need.
Vibease was the first hands-free wearable remote-control vibrator. When it comes to phone-controlled vibrators, the Vibease is the OG, the trailblazer, the grandmamma of them all.
Using the Vibease app, you can control the vibrations and patterns that are delivered to your quivering pussy. You can also chat with friends/partners and share intimate experiences.
Owning the Vibease is like owning a little piece of sexual history – if you’re gonna buy an app-controlled vibrator, why not go with the innovative toy that started the best vibrating panties craze?
This app-controlled vibrator can even sync up with built-in erotic audiobooks!
Next time you’re listening to the dulcet tones of Mr. Darcy, you can have him go down on you too. How quaint.
App-controlled sex machine. What more do you want?
Technically, this is more of a sex machine than a remote-controlled vibrator, but it does vibrate, and it is controlled with a cell phone app, so I’m going to plow ahead and say that it counts. Sue me.
The Cowgirl sex machine is one of the top-rated sex toys on the planet, with its slip-resistant silicone seat offering a stable and comfortable base for vibrating dildo riding which is controlled via an app on your cell phone!
What a time to be alive.
The vibrator vibrates (duh) and rotates at various speeds/strengths, giving you multiple sensations to explore as you rock back and forth in delight.
This high-end remote controlled sex toy is the brainchild of Alicia Sinclair, who recently won the Businesswoman Of The Year Award at the XBIZ Awards.
You’re in safe hands with the Cowgirl, whether you’re using the wired remote or the app.
As the name suggests, remote control vibrators are sex toys which can be controlled with a remote.
This remote might be a:
These remotes can work at different distances depending on the toy. Some can be controlled from 1,000 miles away, while others can only be used in the same room.
Here are the most common types of remote-control vibrators you’ll find:
These remote-controlled vibrators are usually meant to be used in the same room.
They come with a dedicated remote control which may be wireless or wired, depending on the design.
These days, the best remote control vibrator toys will have a wireless remote control 90% of the time.
Long-distance vibrators are operated over the internet via Wi-Fi. Why? Because even the best Bluetooth devices are limited to a 100m range.
Long-distance sex toys let long-distance partners spice up their relationship remotely, assuming that they both have a stable Wi-Fi connection.
Looking for more? Check out our article on the Best Long Distance Sex Toys.
Many long-distance couples use video chat services like Skype while using couples vibrators. It’s a unique way to stay sexually connected while you’re apart.
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Vibrator apps such as Vibease and the Lovense Remote app give you full control over Bluetooth sex toys as long as they’re within range.
The best app-controlled sex toys allow you to program in vibration patterns, download custom vibration settings, and even vibrate along to the beat of music on Spotify.
Imagine having a Spotify playlist just for getting off. What a time to be alive.
If you are into discreet public orgasms, power play, or wearing remote control panties, then wearable sex toys are definitely worth your while.
They usually connect via Bluetooth and/or Wi-Fi, so they could be controlled by you/your partner when you’re in the same room or while you’re away at work!
Depending on the brand, they might come with a wireless remote control or a phone app.
There is a subreddit called r/holdthemoan (hold the moan) which fetishizes women having orgasms in public places while trying to “hold the moan” (i.e. keep their face straight while cumming).
A remote-control vibrator can help you build a happier, healthier sexual relationship with your partner. You can even use remote control sex toys in public if you’re discreet enough.
Here are 4 tips for using remote-controlled vibrators safely, easily, and effectively.
Discretion is key. Be cautious of your surroundings. Using your remote-controlled sex toy in public can be fun, but remember that only you and your partner are playing – the public hasn’t consented to join in the fun. The nice, elderly couple sitting at the table next to you at a restaurant probably don’t want to know about what’s going on under your tablecloth.
On the one hand, you need to be respectful and appropriate in public. On the other hand, the whole thrill of public orgasms is how taboo they are.
Just try not to writhe around on the floor in pleasure at Starbucks.
Try your new remote-control vibrator at home before you bring it out to play in public. You and your partner should play, fantasize, and learn how to use it properly before trying your remote vibrator in public.
You don’t want to be sat on a crowded bus when you discover that vibration mode 9 is painful!
There are plenty of cheap, poorly-made remote-control vibrators out there; avoid those completely. Get a body-safe non-toxic vibrator that’s equipped with a high-quality motor capable of delivering just the right intensity.
Read remote control sex toys reviews and look for reputable manufacturers like Lelo,WeVibe, and Lovense.
With a few ground rules, allowing someone to take control of your pleasure can be very sexy. Talk to your partner and guide them.
Sure, there are some boundaries you might want to push, but some need to be set in stone. Let your partner know how to pleasure you and vice versa without overstepping the line.
If you give your partner full-day control over your wearable vibrator, be sure to turn your device off (or inform your partner) when you’re doing something dangerous like driving.
You don’t want to arrive at an intersection and suddenly start cumming.
Remote control, Bluetooth, and Wi-Fi Sex Toys add a level of convenience and spontaneity that can’t be matched by regular sex toys, especially for long-distance couples.
If you’re looking for vulva-based remote control pleasure, you can’t go wrong with the Lovense Lush 3 Bluetooth Vibrator. It’s IPX7 waterproof, powerful, and provides both clit and G-spot pulsating pleasure.
Our full Lovense Lush 3 Review goes into even more detail.
However, if you’re more of an anal play fan, then the Lovense Hush 2 Vibrating Butt Plug is sleek, powerful, and available in 4 different sizes to suit your anal needs.
Whether you’re looking for an easy solo vibrator or sex toy to spice up your relationship, there is a remote control sex toy to suit everyone’s desires.
Good luck finding your dream remote dildo!
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Brilliant! Thank you so much! I’m just starting to play and after buying something I became aware I wanted more info on wearability and noise. Difficult to find. You’ve made it very clear, gave some good pointers and love the poll at the end to see people preference. Thanks again!
Thanks for breaking it down for us. You’ve narrowed down a perfect list of vibrators we could test and buy. Would love to know your take on sex swings
Hi Jen, this guide should help 🙂 https://sextoycollective.com/sex-furniture/swings/
Hello, nice website. Just wondering if there’s something out similar for men to wear, as I notice that these are all vibrators for females. My wife and i are looking for something for me to wear while either restrained at home (with her in another room, so long range) or while i am away in other cities (I’m a volleyball ref so I travel a lot).
We’ve been looking at Max2 by Lovense….your thoughts?Hope to hear back from you, with thanks.
I would totally recommend the Lovense Max 2 for that purpose! We have an in-depth review on it here 🙂 https://sextoycollective.com/best-male-sex-toys/lovense-max-2-review/
Most of these seem to be more geared for women. Looking for something a man can use. Something that my partner can control
Are you looking for an anal toy or a penis toy? If you’re looking for anal, I’d suggest the Lovense Hush or Edge for sure.