Extreme Sex Toys

Extreme Sex Toys – 22 Kinky Sex Toys for Fetishes

Some of you will be reading this because you wanna gasp at crazy sex toys.

Others will be here because you want to push the limits of kink and get some ideas for extreme sex that pushes the boundaries.

Either way, I welcome you to this list of 23 extreme sex toys from various kinks and fetishes. From electric dildos to steel ball-stretchers, we’ve got a little something to inspire everyone.

Let’s dive in!

Kink and Fetish Sex Toys

Stainless Steel Anal Speculum

Open wide.

If you’re in the mood for a little medical play, why not try this lovely anal speculum from The Stockroom? This stainless steel speculum can slide 3.5 inches deep into the anus, spreading it 2 inches wide for inspection and play. Inspect that rosebud before diving deep!

Stainless Steel Anal Speculum

Along with BDSM stores like Extreme Restraints, The Stockroom is a brilliant sex shop for extreme bondage and kinky sex toys. It’s even got a pun name. Sold!

Violet Wand Electrosex Toy

The classic electrosex wand.

Based on the “Violet Rays” that doctors would use in the early 1900s, violet wands are basically low-voltage high-frequency electric wands which can be used to shock a partner in a variety of ways. They come with various electrode attachments, including combs, bulbs, and floggers. They come in many different price ranges depending on their power.

Violet Wand Electrosex Toy

12-inch Silicone Realistic Dildo

You can do it. I believe in you.

With a maximum insertable length of 9.5 inches, this is one of the biggest dildos I could find that’s made from body-safe silicone. This huge dildo is flexible and comes with a suction cup, making it ideal for attaching to a sturdy floor or wall. Personally, I like to squat on them – gravity makes it easier to get them all in.

12-inch Silicone Realistic Dildo

Most of the large and weird dildos on the market are made from materials like PVC and Jelly Rubber which are porous and NOT body-safe. ALWAYS look for silicone dildos, whether they’re massive or modest.

Giant Silicone Anal Beads

Not for amateurs.

With 13 inches of insertable length and 7.5 inches of girth around each anal bead, these huge anal beads are designed for massive anal gape and extreme anal stretching. Made from 100% silicone for easy cleaning, this extreme anal toy also comes with a ring-pull to make pulling them out easy. Well, as easy as it can be with toys this large!

Giant Silicone Anal Beads

Komodo Electric Dildo

It’s like getting fucked by Raiden.

Although the 5.5 inches of insertable length sounds modest, this dildo can fucking shock you with electricity, so I’ll forgive the size. This versatile electrosex toy can be suction-cupped to a strong surface, held by hand, or attached to a strap-on harness too. Paired with a decent e-stim power box, there’s no telling what this electric dildo could do to you. Zap!

Komodo Electric Dildo

LoveHoney Latex Fisting Mitten

Mittens suddenly seem much less wholesome.

This latex fisting mitten from LoveHoney is great for fisting when paired with high-quality fisting lube. It’s also often used for people who’re into animal roleplay like pup play and pony play because it can help to recreate the look of hooves.

LoveHoney Latex Fisting Mitten

Personally, I think it looks nothing like hooves, but you do you.

Hegar Urethral Sounds

Be extremely careful.

Urethral sounds are essentially long rods of metal which men (and sometimes women) put down their urethra for sexual pleasure. Suffice it to say that this can be VERY dangerous and is best practiced by experts. Our urethral sounding guide can help you out if you’re curious about urethral play.

Hegar Urethral Sounds

Kali’s Teeth CBT Device

Extreme cock and ball torture!

If you’re a fan of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) and you want something extreme, this spiked cock ring is perfect for torturing cocks and denying men orgasms in the most uncomfortable way possible.

Kali’s Teeth CBT Device

36 sharp spikes pointing at your cock is a sure-fire way to stop boners in their tracks.

Spiked Male Chastity Cage

Take chastity to the next level.

If you’re into cock cages but want that added level of pain, this spiked male cock cage from the Stockroom is perfect for you. Made from sturdy steel, this CBT-meets-chastity device comes with 3 keys for the padlock – I’d suggest spreading them all out so they’re easy to find if you lose one key. No one wants that awkward trip to the hospital.

Spiked Male Chastity Cage

Penis Plug with Glans Ring

A bit like urethral sounding for beginners.

Used for urethral play and orgasm denial, this DOMINIX Deluxe penis plug is a great way to introduce urethral play into your sex life. Like most penis plugs, this needs to be thoroughly cleaned and used with a special sterile lubricant to keep your penis safe from nasty bacteria. I don’t wanna keep giving out medical warnings, but these kinky sex toys can be dangerous!

Penis Plug with Glans Ring

Agent Noir Electrosex Kit

Torture them with electricity.

Have you ever fantasized that you’re a sexy secret agent performing some undercover espionage and then… torturing people with electricity? Well, you’re in luck! This cool electrosex kit comes with an electric wand and 9 different attachments, including an electrified whip. Yes, you can literally whip someone and shock them at the same time.

Agent Noir Electrosex Kit

This kit also comes with a Power Tripper which you can use to conduct electricity through your own body, shocking your partner when you touch them. Ouch! Talk about a power trip.

XXL Wide and Long Dildo

Not exactly realistic, but fun.

This slightly weird dildo has an unusual half-real half-cartoonish look to it, but it’s certainly an impressive size whatever your aesthetic taste might be. With 7.5 inches of insertable length and a massive 7.4 inches of circumference, this extremely girthy silicone dildo is great for extreme anal stretching and massive anal gape. Use a metric fuck-ton of lube.

XXL Wide and Long Dildo

Lockable Ball Pillory

Ball stretching toy for CBT experts.

This “Humbler” stainless steel CBT toy is designed to pull a gentleman’s bollocks behind his legs while his arse is up in the air, stretching his balls for the ultimate sadomasochistic torture. This extreme sex toy includes a padlock and 2 mounting lugs for attaching handcuffs – the BDSM possibilities are endless.

Lockable Ball Pillory

Nipple Suction Cylinders

Get pumping!

I’m a big fan of nipple clamps and nipple toys in general – the nipples are so underrated when it comes to the body’s erogenous zones. These nipple suction cylinders are perfect for more advanced nipple play, and can accommodate various sizes of nipple. Just make sure that you’ve got an appropriate pump handy.

Nipple Suction Cylinders

Inflatable Butt Plug

Stretch your anus one pump at a time.

If you like the idea of anal stretching, but you’d like to get there slowly, this inflatable butt plug is perfect. Made from high-quality latex, this plug is 5 inches long and can inflate up to a maximum circumference of 8 inches, so it’s perfect for extreme anal stretching. What’s more, there’s even a pressure release valve if the pain becomes too much to bear and you need to stop.

Inflatable Butt Plug

RealDoll Sex Doll

A cool sex doll for people with tons of cash.

RealDoll is a high-quality sex doll company based in California. They make loads of different sex dolls, but their Harmony X doll is probably the most famous. She can be customized down to the color of her eyes and her vagina style, and she’s even integrated with AI so she can learn from you both sexually and intellectually.

RealDoll Sex Doll

RealDoll also makes the Real Cock 2, a $500 silicone dildo designed to be incredibly realistic. It’s so lifelike that it’s almost scary.

Extending Inflatable Dildo XL

One of the more extreme fetish toys out there!

This inflating dildo already starts out at a whopping 10 inches in its deflated form and can grow to an impressive 16 inches of insertable length when inflated! Designed for anal overachievers, this huge dildo really is something to write home about! It comes with a high-quality pump and valve, so it’s easy to increase and decrease the pressure on demand.

Extending Inflatable Dildo XL

Leather Sex Sling

Any good BDSM dungeon needs a sex swing.

This high-quality leather extreme bondage sling comes with leather foot stirrups and multiple D-rings which serve as attachment points for more advanced BDSM play. If you’re a fan of extreme rough bondage, this is a brilliant investment for your sex dungeon. It might be pricey, but it’s handcrafted to perfection in Los Angeles.

Leather Sex Sling

Interested in bigger pieces of BDSM furniture like sex slings and bondage tables? Our BDSM Furniture Guide has tons of ideas to explore.

9-inch Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Kit

Give your lover the ride of their life.

Is your partner a bit of a Size Queen? This 9-inch vibrating hollow strap-on dildo can be used by either men or women, so it’s perfect for all kinds of couples. Whether you’re using it as a strap-on or for male-female anal pegging, this 9-inch strap-on is perfect for wrecking your partner’s hole and teaching them a lesson about extreme rough sex.

9-inch Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Kit

This toy even comes with a dedicated remote control to flick through the 10 vibration patterns. What more can we ask it to do? Make breakfast?

Wooden Humbler

No humblebrags allowed.

If you’re a fan of sadomasochism and predicament play, this wooden “humbler” is a brilliant CBT device to try. Stretching his balls painfully, he won’t be able to stand up straight while wearing this toy, making for a wide range of sexy predicaments. The toy comes in a sleek black painted wood, looking right at home in the classiest of sex dungeons.

Wooden Humbler

Stainless Steel Ball Stretcher

Have you got the balls?

Weighing an impressive 678g, this chunky stainless steel ball stretcher is designed to tug on the balls heavily, blurring those fine lines between pleasure and pain. You’ll probably need a decent amount of water-based lube to slide your balls into the tight 1.3-inch diameter opening, and once they’re there, they’re not going anywhere until your top says so.

Stainless Steel Ball Stretcher

Many LoveHoney customers say that this ball stretcher is difficult to get into, but totally worth it afterward.

Dildo Sex Stool

A relatively cheap dildo stool available on Amazon. Nice.

Upon first glance, this looks like a monkey rocker, but you actually sit in the stool and use your own force to propel yourself up and down on a dildo. It’s basically a much safer and more comfortable version of squatting onto a suction cup dildo. If you’re experimenting with huge dildos, a stool like this could be extremely useful for helping your efforts.

Dildo Sex Stool

Cum-clusion

Cum-clusion.Extreme Sex Toys

I hope you enjoyed this guide to extreme and kinky sex toys! From electrosex wands to spiked cock rings, we’ve covered a little bit of every major kink and BDSM fetish in this guide.

If you’re looking to try extreme sex toys, be sure to use caution, read up on all the safety advice, and stop if anything becomes painful. They’re called “extreme” for a reason!

Stay safe, buy high-quality products, and have fun!

About The Author ~ J.C. Way


I’ve never been afraid to stick things up my butt or pop my cock into something – why wouldn’t you want to make your sex life better? I aim to smash down stigmas and introduce men and women to sex toys that change their lives.

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