The Best Bondage Furniture: A Guide to BDSM Dungeon Gear

Roleplay. Restraints. Spanking. Pain. BDSM and kinks are deliciously taboo and naughty, something we’re fully supportive of here at the Sex Toy Collective. So many of us want to be punished, restrained, tortured (sexually) or spanked until we can take no more. Household items can go so far, but here we introduce you to different S&M furniture to really spice up your dungeon.

BDSM & Spanking Benches

BDSM benches (sometimes called “fuck benches”) are bench-style pieces of furniture which are designed to restrain someone in a submissive position. Positions and styles of BDSM can vary, but most of them restrain the person in a hunched-over doggy style position, leaving them vulnerable to spanking, anal play, and pussy play, among other things.

Bondage Bench

It’s good enough for Cara and Ashley!

The internet recently went mad over a picture of celebrity girlfriends Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson carrying a BDSM sex bench into their home. Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you that very sex bench. It’s not particularly cheap, but it’s made from stainless steel and can support up to 400 lbs in weight, so it’s suitable for most users.

The restraints are of good quality and the whole thing seems very sturdy; the only downside is that it’s one-size-fits-all and if you’re shorter than around 5’9 then you could struggle to fit on this comfortably. I suppose you’re not meant to be overly “comfortable” while submissively tied to a fuck bench, but if you’re gonna be there for a while, you want to feel comfortable-ish.

PROS: Simple and straightforward, can hold up to 400 lbs

CONS: One size fits all, assembly instructions not very clear

Spanking Bench

Show them who’s boss

If you love spanking your partner but you think that they move a little bit too much, maybe you should look into buying a spanking bench like this one from Metalbound! This bench is made from stainless steel and marine-grade vinyl, so it’s easy to clean if things get a little messy, and the bench is also padded to be more comfortable for the spank-ee. You can be restrained across the length of the bench (lying down) or standing up and bent over it, giving you multiple angles from which to be spanked and punished mercilessly.

PROS: 20 attachment points, stainless steel and marine-grade vinyl construction

CONS: Pricey

Bondage Horse

Use your imagination!

This bondage horse (I’ve always thought that was a weird name) is a very versatile piece of sex dungeon gear which can be used to restrain someone in a myriad of ways depending on your imagination. This particular one is made from high-quality steel and comes with 22 attachment points for cuffing and tying down your partner, so let your imagination run wild! The only downside is that it’s super expensive – I mean, you’re basically paying $2,000 for a padded cylinder with some metal on it.

PROS: 22 attachment points, washable upholstery

CONS: Very expensive

BDSM Chairs

BDSM chairs come in different shapes and sizes, but mostly they are chairs with holes in strategic places which restrain someone in a sitting position while leaving them vulnerable to the mercy of their master. BDSM chairs often have cutouts which expose the genitals or anus of the sitter, and the sitter can be dominative or submissive depending on the nature of the chair.

Queening Chair

Facesitting has never been so comfortable

For those who don’t know, queening is essentially facesitting, usually referring to a woman sitting atop the face of a man (or another woman) and receiving cunnilingus while sat there. A queening chair makes this a lot more comfortable by giving the woman a nice padded seat to sit on and the man a nice comfy headrest to rest his neck in while he licks out the woman.

This queening chair from QueeningStools is ideal because it takes the weight of the woman off the man’s face, allowing him to be queened for longer. A lot of queening chairs look similar to a toilet, which is hardly a turn-on for most people, but this particular model doesn’t suffer from that affliction.

PROS: Sturdy pine construction, good height, made in the USA

CONS: Limited product pictures to help inform buyers

Black label bondage couch

Versatile and comfortable bondage fun

This bondage couch is curved in a unique design and even comes with a removable pad for the middle, giving you dozens of potential positions to try restraining your partner in. Some of the suggestions from the manufacturer include “Down Boy”, “Bandwagon”, and “No Holds Barred”, 

all of which have their own distinctive ways of playing with dominance and body restraints. It would take a lifetime to explain all the ways that you could fuck on this bad boy, but suffice it to say that it’s a high-quality versatile piece of kinky furniture.

PROS: 24 attachment points, versatile, moisture-resistant lining

CONS: Attachment points could be stronger

Liberator Esse

Basically a really sexy chaise longue

This product is basically the “pro” version of the bondage couch listed above, although it does have some drawbacks. For example, while the overall design and upholstery of this bondage couch is top notch and looks stylish, it only comes with 12 attachments instead of 24.

With that said, those 12 points seem to be constructed from sturdier steel materials, so I suspect that it’s a case of quality over quantity. 
This couch also doesn’t come with a removable middle cushion section, so the positions you can achieve a little more limited. Still, Liberator suggest that you give “Miss Muffet”, “Headstar”, and “X Marks the Spot” a go, and they sound pretty sweet.

PROS: High-quality upholstery, comfortable, looks good

CONS: Only 12 attachment points

BDSM wedge ramp

Angles your body for perfect penetration

When it comes down to it, this BDSM “wedge ramp” is basically a couple of big padded triangles with attachment points on them. However, these wedges can be assembled in a variety of ways to angle your partner’s pussy or ass perfectly for the best penetration. Personally, I think that it’s great for 69ing, especially if a woman restrains her man on the bottom and then goes on top – the angle is ideal for licking pussy.

PROS: Versatile, great for 69ing

CONS: Can be hard to find a position which works for you

BDSM Stockades and Crosses

BDSM stockades come in various forms, but they usually restrain your head and arms through some appropriately sized holes, leaving you bent over and unable to see behind you. Crosses, as the name suggests, are cross-shaped, forming an “X” as opposed to the vertical crosses used for punishment in biblical times. Crosses force a subject to be restrained with their limbs spread open; the subject can face forward or backward depending on their preference.

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BDSM sex stockades are not too different from the stocks used to punish petty criminals in medieval times. The stocks were designed to restrain and publicly humiliate people who had committed minor crimes, such as producing unruly art. How naughty of them.

Hanging bondage stockade

Get medieval on their ass!

When it comes to dungeon furniture, a sex stockade is a pretty staple, allowing you to force your sub to give in to your touch while their hands and head stay restrained. This is great for things like medieval roleplay and Viking roleplay, or you can simply use it to restrain your partner and deprive them of free movement.

 The only downside to a stockade like this is that it’s a fuss to put up – you need to mount it from the ceiling, assuming that you have a ceiling made from the appropriate material. It’s also not exactly discreet or easy to hide, so it’s best reserved for a private sex dungeon that friends and family members won’t see.

PROS: High-quality New Zealand pine construction, great for roleplay

CONS: Not discreet… at all

BDSM Triangle Cross

Show them who’s boss of the cross

This BDSM cross comes with a unique hourglass shape which distinguishes it from your usual BDSM St. Andrew’s cross, making it feel sleeker and more sensual. The finish gives it a unique aesthetic which could work for many scenes, whether they’re gothic, medieval, steampunk, or modern. There are 14 attachment loops on this baby, so you can make sure that your sub is really strapped down and vulnerable.

PROS: Sleek gothic finish, 14 attachment loops

CONS: Pricey

Medieval Dungeon Suspension Bar

Restraints that fit into many fantasies

If you’re into roleplaying and setting scenes, then this suspension bar gives you multiple options, restraining your sub’s hands and head securely. This piece of dungeon gear could be found on a pirate ship, a medieval castle, or a steampunk experimental laboratory, so there’s tons of kinky stuff you can do with it. The heavy-duty black steel and New Zealand pine construction ensure high quality, while the 5 hooks mean that you can tie up and tease your sub until they cum with pleasure.

PROS: Ideal for roleplay, cheap for BDSM gear

CONS: Wrist cuffs sold separately

Cages

BDSM cages can be used in a cornucopia of different ways depending on the sexual needs of the dominant and submissive partners. For example, a sub may lock themselves in a cage while they wait for their partner to get home from work, feeling aroused by their restriction of freedom and the inevitable fucking that awaits them. Some subs like to use a cage because it makes them feel “on display” to their partner(s), turning them on in a more voyeuristic manner. Whatever your kink is, it goes without saying that cages should always be used with consent, safety, and clear boundaries.

Coffee Table Cage

Sip a latte and keep your bitch in check

As an eager coffee enthusiast, I can’t get enough of this product. I mean, you can use this cage-table hybrid to hold your coffee while your partner subserviently waits for you to let them out the cage and/or fuck them. If you really want to tease them, you could put this cage in your living room and watch TV with a drink while you rest your feet/drink on this cage and make them wait… and wait… and wait.

The cage is made from steel and features an upholstered floor for the prisoner, which is a nice touch even if they don’t deserve to be treated so well. Just bear in mind that it’s quite small, so it’s probably not ideal for some larger subs. The dimensions are 38" Long x 24" Wide x 20" Tall. If your bitch will fit, then fucking make them sit.

PROS: Doubles as a coffee table!

CONS: May be too small for some

Stand up cage

Take no prisoners!

This cage is 6’4 in height, making it ideal for the vast majority of prisoners and submissive bitches. What’s unique about this cage is that it has 3 doors which open in different places to allow the dom access to the head/shoulders, abdomen, and genitals separately. The bars mean that the prisoner can easily be cuffed and restrained, making it easy to tease them by opening different parts of the cage and playing with their body. This BDSM standing cage is 100% steel and you can also use it lying down if you wish, positioning the cage so that the dom has access from the top/side. Let your imagination run wild really.

PROS: 3 different doors, easy to assemble

CONS: Locks not included

BDSM Kennel

Bad puppies deserve punishment

Whether you’re a pup, a slave, or you just like the idea of being restrained like a dog, this BDSM kennel has so much potential. The low-down cage is reminiscent of a doggy cage, stripping you of your dignity as a human. The great thing about this cage is it’s adjustable, so it’s able to fit most people in it regardless of their size,

and it also comes with optional positioning bars which slide across the middle and allow you to angle someone’s ass, chin, or feet up in the position you want. The only downside is that there are no attachment points for restraints – you have to rely on bars, giving your sub the opportunity to slide their restraints up and down the bars unless you use something like bondage tape.

BDSM puppy cages and kennels are often used by human pups, people (usually gay men) who enjoy dressing in puppy-esque latex and fetish gear for their masters.

PROS: Padded floor, adjustable cage

CONS: Relies on bars instead of attachment points/hooks

BDSM Tables & Platforms

A BDSM table basically refers to any kind of flat table-like surface which is designed to be used for restraining someone. They can be used to keep your sub still while you tease them with whips, chains, feathers, ice cubes, candle wax, and anything else you can think of. Some have more specialized uses, such as milking tables, which look similar to a massage table but they have a hole for the man’s penis to poke through underneath, allowing his dom to milk his cock without him seeing it.

Box BDSM Table

Use your imagination!

Admittedly, this box BDSM table is more of a small cage than it is a bondage table, but it gets the job done either way. The design allows your sub to be handcuffed underneath the table, while the top opens up and closes to expose their head on top of the table, making them do whatever you want. Want to tease their body underneath and rub their nipples while they can’t see?

Go ahead! The head restraint has the potential for sensory deprivation because the sub can’t see the rest of their body. What’s more, a female dom could force her sub to perform cunnilingus while sitting on his trapped face. Wonderful.

PROS: Many potential uses

CONS: One-size-fits-all

Penis furniture Table

Milk him like a horny cow

Personally, I really love milking. There’s something really hot about focusing on nothing but a man’s penis, doing everything you can to milk his cock and radiate pleasure throughout his body using nothing more than his exposed penis. If you’re into milking your man, then this table is absolutely ideal. 

It comes in both single and double options, with the “double” options featuring a second padded surface on the bottom where the milker can comfortably jack/suck off the man and collect their well-earned hot spunk when he finally explodes. This whole milking table is actually handmade, which is a testament to its quality, aesthetic, and craft.

PROS: Padded for comfort, handmade, single and double options

CONS: Nothing to hook restraints on to

Black label Bondage stage

Versatile padded fucking platform

This “stage” (i.e. floor table) from Black Label is a brilliant introduction to bondage gear and BDSM furniture for people who are looking to start with the basics. This is essentially a padded platform which comes with an angled cushion and 6 D-rings to hook cuffs onto, giving you a bunch of basic restrained sex positions to try on a piece of furniture which isn’t too pricey and is easy to slide away under the bed when you’re done with it.

Some of Black Label’s recommended positions for this product include “Lock and Key”, “Pushing Daisies”, “Master Class” and “Sweet Surrender”. How sultry.

PROS: Padded, cover is machine washable, versatile

CONS: Not super comfy

Beds and bedding

Sex dungeon beds and bedding are primarily designed for torturing and teasing your sub in a lying down position, similar to sleeping on a bed. BDSM beds cover all sorts of things, from old-fashioned cuff restraints to extreme latex vacuuming, so there’s something for everyone to seek their kinky teeth into and enjoy.

Latex Vac-u-bed

Not for the fainthearted

Make no mistake – this is some advanced bondage and restriction right here. This bed allows a sub to sandwich themselves between 2 layers of 14-gauge latex with nothing but a mouth hole to breathe through. You can use most everyday vacuum cleaners to then suck all of the air out from between the latex, effectively “shrink wrapping” your partner and trapping their entire body. 

If you’re claustrophobic, this is probably one to avoid.

Make sure that your partner is able to breathe comfortably during their extremely restrictive experience – this is one of those types of BDSM play that could be fatal if you aren’t careful.

PROS: Extremely restrictive, well-made

CONS: Dangerous – use with caution

Depot Dungeon Bed

Sex dungeon centerpiece

This dungeon bed is the ideal centerpiece to a sex dungeon, giving you a main focal point and a sling on which to fuck your little bitch. The votive lighting option is a really nice touch with this, allowing you to create the atmosphere of an underground Latin brotherhood where one must be punished for their sins. The customization options are really what sells this bed for me; there’s so much to tailor to your personal kinks and needs. For example, you can change the bed size, the footboard, the rail restraints, and even the color of the frame.

PROS: 3-inch steel tubing frame construction, comes with customization options

CONS: Pricey

BDSM bed restraint kit

Quick and easy bondage play

If you want to try bondage but you don’t have the money or space to go setting up an entire kink dungeon in your basement, then this simple bed restraint kit from LoveHoney is the best way to spice up your bedroom without breaking the bank. Simply pass the straps underneath your mattress and pull them into position at the 4 corners of your bed, tying down your partner’s hands and feet. 

The straps are all adjustable, suiting all bed sizes (even Super King) so can rest assured that your partner will be tied down against their will no matter what! Just ignore the terrible packaging that this comes in.

PROS: Universal – fits all beds

CONS: Bad packaging

Waterproof bed sheets

For all your watersports fun

If you’re into piss play, watersports, or any other sexual activity involving a lot of liquid, then you obviously don’t want to ruin your bed sheets in the process. While putting a towel down can help keep things clean, towels can be uncomfortable and awkward as they move around underneath you. However, with these waterproof play sheets from Doc Johnson, you can enjoy your kinks without worrying about the laundry. 

Lots of people actually use these waterproof sheets for if they wet the bed in the middle of the night, so that’s a good indication that they’re as waterproof as they claim to be.

PROS: Fully waterproof and machine washable

CONS: Minor leaks can occur

Bondage Sex Slings

When it comes to BDSM equipment, sex slings/swings are probably one of the most common things you come across (or cum across). These slings are designed to hoist your partner up in mid-air, restraining them into a vulnerable position, preferably with their ass/pussy at waist height, begging for passersby to fuck them hard. Slings aren’t just convenient for positioning (including anal) but they’re great for motion too – the suspended ropes mean that you can toss your partner around and yank their body back and forth with very little effort. Physics is on your side here!

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With a sex sling, your partner’s body is easy to move and shape despite them being restrained. You can mold them as you wish and take advantage of their vulnerable (i.e. fuckable) position.

Leather BDSM Swing

Ryan Murphy’s favorite sling

This high-quality leather sling was featured in the first season of American Horror Story, a show which is obsessed with network-friendly sexy horror. TV aside, this is a really decent leather sex swing which actually comes with a leather pillow and cuffs included, so you’ve already got the accessories sorted! The look is very typical of a leather-stricken sex dungeon, featuring thick straps of leather and nickel-plated rivets that feel at home in a kinky San Francisco basement somewhere. The only downside is that you have to buy the chains separately, which seems kind of dumb to me.

PROS: Leather construction, comes with pillow and cuffs

CONS: Chains not included

Classic swing

360 degrees of BDSM

This swing can spin on its axis a full 360 degrees, leaving your sub bitch fully exposed for all to see at all angles. The swing has padded supports for the back, ass, and legs, helping your sub to be relatively comfortable while dangling precariously from the straps. The material is mostly nylon, so it’s not ideal if you have a leather kink, but the good news is that it’s easy to install and hang from your ceiling provided that you have some common household tools hanging around… get it? Hanging around? I digress.

Make sure that your ceiling can take the weight of you/your partner in this sling; the last thing you want to do is come crashing down.

PROS: 360-degree spin, enjoy every angle of your partner’s body

CONS: You need a strong ceiling

Cheap doorway BDSM swing

Cheap and easy doorway bondage

This cheap and cheerful sex swing goes over a door and is designed to hold your partner in place against the door, featuring fully adjustable stirrups, handles, and a harness to keep everything as comfortable as possible. The straps are made from sturdy nylon which will take any person’s weight, but I would check how stable your doorframe is and consider weight-testing it first, especially if your door is quite old. Ultimately, your doors were not designed to have a little naked bitch hanging off them, so proceed with caution and have fun!

PROS: Affordable, can be used on most doors

CONS: Hard to get into

BDSM Fuck Machines

I mean, BDSM fuck machines… need I say more? Whether you’re playing solo or with a voyeuristic partner, fuck machines are the ultimate in anal or vaginal pleasure. Not only do you get to simulate real sex, but the machine never stops or gets tired – it just keeps pounding and pounding until you feel like you’re about to burst into orgasm. They also feature in one my favorite scenes from the movie “Burn After Reading”, putting George Clooney and Frances McDormand in a whole new light.

Early forms of fuck machine date back to the Victorian era, and there’s even an entire museum dedicated to sex machines
in Prague, Czech Republic.

Hismith

Portable sex machine fun

This beauty of this machine from Hismith is that it’s able to be assembled and taken apart relatively easily, coming with a portable bag which makes it great for traveling or putting away after use. Uniquely, this sex machine can be angled upwards or downwards up to 90 degrees, so you can adjust the angle of the fucking to your favorite position, making sure that you hit your G spot and get nice and wet while the powerful 100-watt motor delivers wave after wave of euphoria directly into your body.

PROS: Comes with a portable bag and 8.7-inch dildo

CONS: A little bit noisy

Slave driver

The perfect BDSM/fuck machine combo!

This is a unique piece of BDSM furniture which combines a stockade-style restraint system with an adjustable fuck machine. Your slave gets into the stocks doggy style and then you use the head, feet, and hands restraints to lock them into the doggy style position. Next, line up the dildo with their ass/pussy and begin fucking them to high heaven! The length of the machine’s stroke can vary from 1½ to 6 inches, so you can fuck your slave deeper and deeper if they’re not behaving as you want.

PROS: Various settings, comes with restraints

CONS: Expensive

Shockspot

The ultimate sex machine

Shockspot are kind of like the Aneros of sex machines – they know what they’re doing. Their machines are all designed to be compact, lightweight, and portable, making it easy to travel with them or hide them away when they’re done being used. After all, who wants a big dildo machine just lying around in the middle of their living room? The Shockspots models are certainly impressive, and most weigh around 23 lbs, which is incredibly light for a sex machine of this caliber.

PROS: Lightweight, portable, many different settings

CONS: Very pricey

Ken's Sex Machine

“Twisted” fuck machines galore

Ken has a twisted mind, which apparently means that you end up starting a company dedicated to fuck machines… who knew? Ken’s Twisted Mind stocks sex machines which are designed for single penetration, double penetration, simulated blowjobs, pup training and much more! The company claims that it’s offering lifetime guarantees and warranties on its fuck machines, which is promising, but I can’t confirm whether they actually stick to that promise or not.

PROS: Just about every type of fuck machine you can imagine, lifetime warranty guarantees

CONS: Some machines are a little noisy

Using your existing furniture – DIY BDSM at home

If you’re not a BDSM aficionado just yet, you might be perusing some of these complicated pieces of sex dungeon furniture and thinking “who the hell can afford that?” Similarly, if you live in an apartment or smaller house, you might be thinking “who has space for all of these slings and cages?” However, you can use a lot of your existing home furniture to turn your house into a fuck dungeon on demand. Here’s some of the easiest DIY BDSM.

Beds
With a simple restraints kit, you can turn any mattress into a bondage table for your partner. There are many cheap and adjustable under-the-bed bondage kits out there on the market, or if your bed has 4 bedposts, you could use simple ropes, ties, or zip ties to restrain your partner and leave them helpless.

Doors
On a similar note, there are many over-the-door bondage restraint sets that you can buy, hoisting you up over a closed door in your home. Just make sure that your door is sturdy enough to support your weight, especially if you’re on the heavier side.

Dining chairs/stools
There are lots of ways to use a dining chair to put your partner in a compromising position, but my personal favorite is to have them lying on their back with their legs in the air, with their feet and legs tied to the upright chair.

This leaves their feet dangling in the air, which is great if you have a foot fetish, while their ass/pussy are just waiting to be teased if you sneak your way under the chair. Just make sure you bind their hands so they can’t escape!

Closets
Closets make great alternatives to cages, especially if they’re the kind with slats that allow you to see in/out of them. Keeping your bitch locked in the closet lets them know who’s boss until daddy or mommy’s home. Just make sure that you keep your slave in a closet with enough airflow etc.

Trunks/ottomans
If you have a trunk or ottoman at the end of your bed which happens to have ring handles on either side, you could easily turn this into a simple restraint system or spanking bench for you and your partner to enjoy.

If it doesn’t have any attachment points, try using rope or bondage type to tie your lover down to the trunk, looping around the entire trunk and over their body to keep them in place. That ought to show them who’s boss.

How to make your own BDSM Furniture

Want to get fucking in your sex dungeon but can’t afford the professional bondage gear? Maybe you just don’t want to pay for something which you can make yourself? Well, if you’ve got the spare time and enough crafting skills, you can make your own DIY BDSM furniture without spending a fortune.

Personally, I can barely put Lego together, let alone a sex swing.

Here are a few guides and YouTube tutorials on creating your own BDSM dungeon gear!

DIY spreader bar

A lady with very interesting hair called Morgan Thorne shows you how to make a spreader bar restraint from a wooden dowel and some screw-in hooks. It’s a good video but she does ramble a little bit.

DIY over-the-door restraint system

This woman shows you how to make a sex swing harness (or over-the-door restraint system) from a chin-up bar designed for doing chin-ups in doorways. You can use it as a hands restraint system or as the start of a sex swing if you like.

DIY BDSM pony stocks

If you’re particularly crafty and you like the idea of building your own pony stocks for your sub, then look no further! It’s a lot of work and materials, but this guide shows you how to create your own for under $30, which is light-years cheaper than buying one.

How to build your own sex dungeon

The sex toy wizards over at Lovense have taken things one step further and put together an overall guide for putting together a
DIY sex dungeon in your home. It includes tips for things you might not think of, such as hiding power cables away and ensuring that everything is flame-retardant if you’re into candle wax play.

Cum-clusion

Well congratulations, you just made it to the end of 5,000ish words on BDSM furniture and sex dungeon gear. How do you feel? If you made it all the way to the end, I’d say that you definitely have a healthy appetite for some kinky BDSM action, whether you’re a rookie looking for new ideas or an old pro checking out some new bondage tables. Whoever you are and whatever you’re into, just make sure that you follow precautions, respect boundaries, get horny, and have fun!

Now don’t forget your safe word… bitch.

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