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Where to Buy Fleshlights – Online Stores and Fleshlight Retailers

BY JC Ways

If you’re not the kind of person who’s regularly buying sex toys to play with, then chances are you don’t know where to get a Fleshlight on a whim. Even if you’re lucky enough to live near some brick and mortar stores that sell Fleshlights, you might be too shy or embarrassed to actually walk in and buy one.

 There are multiple ways of buying sex toys discreetly, whether online or in person, and here we help you to purchase the best Fleshlights  cheaply, safely, and discreetly.

How to buy a Fleshlight

When it comes to buying your Fleshlight, you’ve got two main options – online and in-store. There are pros and cons to each of these routes.

Buying a Fleshlight online

If you buy a Fleshlight online, you can save yourself the potential embarrassment and awkwardness of having to go to a store, pick one up, and go pay for it in front of a stranger. 

This is great if you’re shy, and shopping online means that you can access the full range of Fleshlight products. so you’ll find something to suit you. The vast majority of retailers selling sex toys online know that discreet packaging is important to their customers, so you’re guaranteed this with most online sellers.

There are over 100 variations of Fleshlight as of 2019, featuring a diverse mix of pussy, ass, and mouth orifices for your member to enjoy.

You can also shop for the cheaper Fleshlight models online, which is great if you’re on a budget, as brick-and-mortar stores are likely to have limited selections. The downside with buying online is that there are many fake and dishonest retailers preying on people who want a cheap deal on a Fleshlight – some have even been known to use the genuine Fleshlight box and case but replace the interior skin with a cheap replica which is described as “smelling of chemicals” and feeling terrible.

Buying a Fleshlight in a brick-and-mortar store

Assuming that your local sex shop is above board, which it probably is, then you can guarantee that you’re going to get a genuine Fleshlight product when buying at a sex store. However, bear in mind that stores that sell Fleshlights need to make a profit and cover their overheads (building rent, energy bills, cashier’s wages, etc.) so you’re probably going to pay more in total when all is said and done.

Of course, if you’re thinking about buying sex toys discreetly, then this option may not appeal to you. Sex store staff are obviously open-minded and unlikely to judge you, but some people just cannot stand in front of a cashier and pay for a sex toy without feeling like they’re about to die of shame. Also bear in mind that if you’re buying from a store then you need to take the toy home with you, and I know from personal experience that you can feel terrified until the Fleshlight is safely in your sex drawer at home.

Do remember that sex store cashiers see people buying strange sexual devices and 14-inch dildos literally every day, so you and your little Fleshlight are not going to faze them.

Where to Buy a Fleshlight

When it comes to purchasing online, there are 3 main places that I would recommend for buying a Fleshlight: Amazon, LoveHoney, and Fleshlight themselves.


Buying Fleshlights on Amazon is trustworthy as long as you buy them from the right place.

The official Fleshlight store on Amazon is called ILF, LLC, Official Store, so always check that your product is coming from this seller. As mentioned previously, there are some fake Fleshlights being sold on Amazon, so keep your eye out and read customer reviews if you’re unsure.


LoveHoney is a reliable and trustworthy international “sexual wellness and happiness” company, which is basically a wholesome way of saying that they sell sex toys. If you buy your Fleshlight from LoveHoney, you can guarantee that it’s genuine; some of the best cheap sex toys online are sold through LoveHoney and their straightforward reviews system allows customers to discuss their gender and sexual orientation before giving pros and cons for a product – this makes it very easy to skim through and find reviews that relate to you.

Fleshlight Website

When in doubt, you can always head straight to the Fleshlight website to take advantage of direct-to-consumer Fleshlight prices and 100% guaranteed genuine products. If you’re in the US, then you can take advantage of free shipping for orders over $60, which is great if you’re ordering one of the pricier models. Even if you’re purchasing one of the cheaper Fleshlight models, there are always little add-on items such as sex toy cleaning fluid and lube which can help bring you over the $60 threshold.

Fleshlight coupon codes

If you see a website advertising Fleshlight coupon codes which is not Fleshlight themselves, then there’s a good chance that it’s fake or a scam. If you’re buying from the official Fleshlight website, they may occasionally have discounts up to 20% but they are rare. If you’re looking to save money, Fleshlight usually have discounts on Black Friday where you can get up to 30% off. If you’re going to use a Fleshlight coupon code, just make sure that it’s from Fleshlight and not a third party.

You may find that retailers such as LoveHoney have their own discounts (i.e. 25% off all men’s sex toys) which can be applied to Fleshlight products depending on the scope of the offer.

The cheapest place to buy a Fleshlight

Unless you’re lucky enough to get a deal or a coupon code like the ones we talk about in the section above, you’re not going to find a genuine Fleshlight product for less than $60-$80 if you want the Stamina Training Unit-style toys that everyone is familiar with. Cheap “Fleshlights” on Amazon and obscure websites are likely to be fake, so don’t be taken for a fool. 

Most of the time, the cheapest place to buy a genuine Fleshlight is on the Fleshlight website when they’re promoting a coupon code or via an online sex toy store which is having a sale on men’s sex toys.

So, should you buy a Fleshlight?

According to a survey conducted by Tenga, 82% of men who have used sex toys say that they improve their masturbation experience. In other words, the chances of you buying a Fleshlight and enjoying it are 82%, which I’d say is pretty good odds.

Regular masturbation has been found to relieve stress, help with sleep, and enhance self-esteem, so why not make it as good as possible?

For men who are a bit uneasy about experimenting with prostate massagers and other male sex toys, Fleshlights are a good gateway sex toy to start opening up your mind to the wonderful world of adult toys. After all, if you can make masturbation feel even better, why wouldn’t you?


I aim to smash down stigmas and introduce men and women to sex toys that change their lives.