By: JC Ways
September 19, 2024
Many lesbians use strap-ons with their partners, but did you know that you can get strapless strap-ons held in place by the wearer’s vaginal muscles?
These sex toys are most commonly used by lesbians, though heterosexual couples might use them for pegging too. Trans men may also like to use these strapless strap-ons too.
Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on to anally penetrate a man. Strap-on anal sex is easier with a harness, though strapless pegging is still possible.
Here we take a look at the best strapless dildos and how to use them.
Let’s go to it!
Best For: Intimate lesbian sex.
Made in Germany at the dedicated Fun Factory facility, the Sharevibe is a brilliant strapless strapon designed for increased intimacy and skin-to-skin contact between partners. This lesbian sex toy includes a 5-pattern bullet vibrator that you can charge, so both partners experience pleasure without needing to run out and buy new batteries every 5 minutes.
This toy has 5.25 inches of insertable length and the body-safe silicone bends to accommodate different lesbian sex positions you might want to try. It’s also safe for anal use, so you could try it for pegging or anal dildo sex too.
It’s a little bit pricey, but you get what you pay for.
The Sharevibe is made by Fun Factory, a brilliant adult toy manufacturer creating products with high-quality safe materials in their dedicated German factory.
I mean, Germans are known for engineering and kinky sex, so it makes sense that they’re great at this stuff.
Best For: Pleasurable vibrations!
Everywhere you look, the Tantus Strapless ends up selling out. If you happen to see it in stock, I suggest buying it!
While this isn’t necessarily the greatest lesbian toy ever made, Tantus has been creating incredible lesbian sex toys since 1997, giving them a strong reputation in the queer female community.
The Tantus Strapless comes with a single speed bullet vibrator and a solid construction that stays hard at a “natural angle” to simulate penetration in the most pleasurable and comfortable way possible. It’s not a great fit for everyone, but many women absolutely love this toy.
There is also a realistic penis-like version of this toy called the Tantus Real Strapless. FYI, these toys were known as the “Tantus Feeldoe” and “Tantus Realdoe” for many years until a recent name change.
Best For: Ladies who like it large.
It takes two to tango, so I guess that’s why they gave this double-sided dildo such an elegant name. This very large toy has a whopping 6.75 inches of insertable length for the receiver and comes with 3 ridges to provide light clit stimulation for the active partner.
However, SheVibe admits that this toy is better suited to use with an O-ring harness.
Best For: Versatility.
The Vixen Nexus Double Dildo is one in a long list of great dildos made by Vixen Creations. This double sided strap on can be used with or without a harness – some users even wear it through button-fly jeans!
The main shaft is fairly girthy, but if the size intimidates you, they also sell the Nexus Junior Double Dildo so you can start small.
Strapless dildos are held in place by muscles in and around your vagina called “Kegel muscles”, sometimes called your “pelvic floor muscles”.
The Kegel muscles grow weaker if you’re overweight, older, or have had children, but you can strengthen them by performing Kegel exercises using Ben Wa balls (Kegel balls) or similar products.
A lot of strapless toy manufacturers recommend wearing their product around the house for a few hours so that the active partner can get used to the center of gravity and holding the toy in place comfortably.
Many women find that it’s similar to holding a tampon in place (albeit heavier and larger).
Depending on the manufacturer, you’ll find that some strap-free strapons are shaped and colored like real penises, while others are brightly colored and generically shaped.
Of course, the biggest market for these toys is lesbians, many of whom don’t want a toy that looks like a cock. Everyone’s preferences are different.
Although the vagina is self-lubricating, it’s not really designed to come into long-term contact with silicone. As such, it’s a good idea to use generous amounts of water-based lube with your strapless sex toy.
Silicone-based lube is a no-go with the toys on this list, as you can’t mix silicone toys with silicone-based lube (it warps and “melts” the toys).
If you’re using the strapless strap-on for pegging or anal penetration, you should definitely use a high-quality water-based lube.
Strapless strap-on toys are mainly designed with lesbian penetrative vaginal sex in mind. Although they could be used for anal, bear in mind that the anus is much tighter than the vagina, so penetration is more difficult.
This difficult penetration could be uncomfortable for the wearer when she’s holding the toy in place with her Kegel muscles alone!
Many of the toys on this list, such as the LoveHoney Double Delight, can have their “pony” or “bulb” adjusted so that many different angles can be created.
This opens up the door for multiple lesbian sex positions depending on your preference. If you’re using a stiffer toy, you should probably stick with a variation of the missionary position.
Did you know that you can get strap-ons for men?
Some cisgender men use hollow strap-ons with their partners because they suffer from ED, premature ejaculation, or they just want to try something different.
There are many reasons that lesbian couples enjoy these unique adult toys! Here are some of the benefits of strapless toys.
The absence of a strap-on harness means more body-to-body contact for partners, helping them to feel closer during sex. If the product vibrates, this also helps both partners to feel the vibrations together and share a more intimate sexual experience.
Maximized proximity is one of the key benefits of these products.
Although there’s some controversy in comparing lesbian sex to traditional penis-vagina sex, a strapless strap-on helps couples to recreate that “traditional” feeling of one person “fucking” the other.
Some women with strapons find the harnesses to be distracting and not very lifelike or arousing.
You know what isn’t super arousing when you’re both in the mood? Faffing about with your strap-on harness and messing around getting it all tightened up just right.
It’s much quicker to pop a strapless dildo inside you, apply lube, and get busy! The less interruption to your sexy endeavors, the better!
Some pre-op trans men use realistic strapless dildos to simulate the feeling of having a penis when having sex with their partners. The Tantus Reeldoe (now the Tantus Real Strapless) is particularly popular with FTM individuals.
If larger ladies struggle to find a plus size strap on harness that fits them, strapless strap-ons could be the answer. There are no straps to fit into – you just need pelvic floor muscles of steel!
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Overall, the Fun Factory Sharevibe is my favorite strap-free dildo.
Ultimately, the Sharevibe’s adjustability, German engineering, and solid 5-pattern rechargeable vibrator give it the edge over its competitors, making intimate lesbian sex easier than ever before.
I hope you enjoyed these reviews of the top-rated strapless toys for lesbians – have fun and stay safe!
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