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Hot and Cold Sex Toys – A Guide to Sex Toy Temperature Play
Have you ever fantasized about candle wax melting onto your skin? Maybe you enjoyed that scene in 9 ½ weeks where Mickey Rourke melts an ice cube on Kim Basinger’s body? Whether it’s hot or cold, temperature play is one of the most common sexual fetishes shared by lots of men and women. But what […]
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The Ultimate Pegging Guide for All Your Anal Strap-on Needs
A study from 2008 asked 1,478 straight men about their sex lives, finding that 24% had been anally fingered and 18% enjoyed receiving anal sex from toys. Flash forward to sex-positive 2020 and the number of heterosexual men unashamedly experimenting with their anus is higher than ever before. For many straight guys who enjoy anal […]
Continue reading37 Homemade Sex Toys For Men and Women
The Hitachi Magic Wand, one of the most famous vibrators of all time, started off as a humble back massager before Sex Coach Betty Dodson realized its potential for orgasms. Sometimes household items are already amazing DIY sex toys – you just don’t realize it yet. Here, I’ve listed 37 different homemade sex toys for […]
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How to Clean Sex Toys – The Ultimate Guide to Keeping Adult Toys Safe for Play
A few months ago, I got a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) because I didn’t wash my sex toys properly. According to one survey, 28% of people never clean sex toys, despite the possibility of yeast infections, bacteria buildups, and STIs (if sharing with a partner). This applies to both men and women!Even if you do […]
Continue readingThe Work Hazards of Being a Sex Toy Reviewer: Prostate Play Edition
Prostate orgasms are fucking amazing, and that’s kind of a problem. You see, I used to be content with the orgasm that a regular wank would produce for me, but after experiencing my first shaking Aneros “super orgasm” (NSFW!) a few months ago, I found myself chasing the dragon of the super orgasm a little […]
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3 Quick and Easy Fake Cum Recipes – How to Make Fake Cum In Your Kitchen
I love cum. There, I said it. As a gay man, there’s nothing more arousing to me than a cock shooting cum – preferably a lot of it. However, the human body is only capable of producing so much semen; I can’t expect my partner (or myself) to produce massive cumshots every single time. Sometimes […]
Continue readingI Got a UTI Because I Didn’t Wash My Sex Toys Properly
As I’m writing this blog, my penis is stinging like a fucking scorpion and I have an uncomfortable and never-ending urge to pee. My bladder feels like someone is squeezing on it and my urethra seems like it’s about to split at the tip. I haven’t been able to masturbate for nearly a week, and […]
Continue readingUrethral Sounding – A Guide to This Extreme Fetish
I won’t lie to you; sounding is not for the faint of heart. When it comes to the long and eclectic list of sexual fetishes, urethral sounding is one of the more risky and dangerous sexual activities out there, but that’s exactly why so many people love it! The taboo and thrill of penis sounding […]
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Sex Toy Storage 101: How to Store Your Sex Toys
Before you purchase a sex toy, you naturally lust after the sexual pleasure it’s going to give you. You read about how big it is, how many vibration settings it has, and how it’s going to produce otherworldly orgasms inside your body. One thing that you might gloss over, however, is sex toy storage. Why […]
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6 Studies That Put K-Y Under The Microscope
The last time I was at Smitten Kitten I talked to one of their SESAs (sex educator sales associates) about lube. When I asked what he thought about brands like K-Y his response was an “Oh we hate K-Y here”, then gave me their lube safety pamphlet. After reading it, I was inspired to do some research […]
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