How to Use A Vibrator

If you walk into a sex store or look at sex toy websites online, you can find vibrators for beginners, vibrators for couples, egg vibrators, vibrating rabbit toys, and so much more. It can be a little bit intimidating when you’re browsing for your first vibrator and you’re bombarded with a sea of contorted vibrating […]

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24 Best Lesbian Sex Toys To Bring Couples Closer Together

A recent study found that gay women have more orgasms than straight women do. Alas, one of the main advantages of a same-sex relationship is that we know how to please each other sexually! However, there is the stereotype of lesbian bed death suggesting that same-sex female couples have less sex than any other type […]

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Sex Toy Storage 101: How to Store Your Sex Toys

Before you purchase a sex toy, you naturally lust after the sexual pleasure it’s going to give you. You read about how big it is, how many vibration settings it has, and how it’s going to produce otherworldly orgasms inside your body. One thing that you might gloss over, however, is sex toy storage. Why […]

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Bluechew Pills: Do They Work? A Gay Man’s Bluechew Review

This post is going to a little different, a review of a new ED medicine called BlueChew.   I used to think I was alone when it comes to erectile dysfunction, but it seems that ED is much more prevalent than I assumed. As a gay man, my love life revolves heavily around sex, whether I […]

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The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Milking: Prostate Massage Techniques, Preparation, and Tools

Prostate milking is the Holy Grail of male sexuality.  If you’re ready, willing, and able, men are able to achieve mind-blowing multiple orgasms without even having to touch their cock at all.  Some men can even cum from anal orgasms alone, with their penis shooting out cum hands-free. It’s quite a spectacle!However, milking your prostate is […]

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Review of Buzz, A Stimulating Sex Toy History

The book Buzz by Hallie Lieberman is the most in-depth read about sex toy history yet.  It starts off with a quick overview of ancient history, talking about things like the world’s oldest dildo, it then focuses on about ten people that had big impacts on the sex toy industry in the late 1900s. Hallie is […]

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Sex Toy History Quiz

How well do you know your sex toy history? Take the quiz to find out!

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Jar Test – Will These Jelly Dildos Melt?

One my goals is to promote awareness of toxic sex toy materials, and help put the companies making them out of business (or at least force them to switch to safer materials). The most toxic sex toy material is jelly, a catch-all term for a mystery blend of plastics and plasticizers that results in a cheap […]

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A Rabbit Afraid of K-Y Warming Jelly

6 Studies That Put K-Y Under The Microscope

The last time I was at Smitten Kitten I talked to one of their SESAs (sex educator sales associates) about lube.  When I asked what he thought about brands like K-Y his response was an “Oh we hate K-Y here”, then gave me their lube safety pamphlet.  After reading it, I was inspired to do some research […]

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Vibrator Nation

Vibrator Nation tells the story of how women changed the sex toy industry and brought new standards of quality, education, and comfort to a previously seedy industry. The author, Lynn Comella, is an associate professor of gender and sexuality studies, which I think brings the book a bit of an academic feeling.  The chapters are fairly […]

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