Is it okay for Christians to use sex toys? Depending on who you ask, the answer could be “yes”, “no”, or “kind of”.
With shops such as Covenant Spice and Amazon selling Liberator Chairs for easier natural sex positions, it’s easy to question the Bible’s stance on marital aids.
Many people believe that products which strengthen a Christian couple’s love and intimacy are totally fine in the eyes of the Lord, but some people disagree. We’ve dived into the scripture toward the end of the article so you can make up your own mind.
For now, here we present our top 14 Christian sex toys for married couples!
14 Sex Toys for Christian Married Couples
Use it for sex, sitting, whatever.
Best For: Partners who want to try different positions
If you’re bored of the missionary position and want to branch out to new and exciting sexual territory, the Liberator Chair is a brilliant piece of furniture-meets-marital-aid that can function as both a chair and a sex aid.
It’s made in the USA, the covers are machine washable, and it comes in 6 different colors, so there’s one to suit every bedroom! The unique design makes it easy to try doing it in many different ways!
Hitachi Magic Wand
Body massager or discreet sex toy.
Best For: Women who can’t orgasm easily.
The Hitachi Magic Wand is a famous body massager that can also be used as a female vibrator thanks to its deep, rumbly vibrations that penetrate deep into the clitoris. If you’re a woman struggling to orgasm, try bringing this thing into the bedroom. You won’t regret it!
Increase sexual intimacy… at random!
Best For: More exciting foreplay!
If you want to spice up your foreplay but you’re not the most creative person in the world, these foreplay dice should give you plenty of ideas to try! One die has actions such as “kiss”, “stroke” or “blow” and the others have body parts such as “stomach”, “fingertips” and “inner thighs”. I’m sure you can use your imagination from there.
“Purple Reins” Sex Swing
Prince would be proud.
Best For: Better leverage.
If you find it uncomfortable to try different positions on your bed, perhaps you should invest in this comfortable padded sex swing from LoveHoney. This hammock-style swing could be used to enhance multiple sexual positions and it can hold up to 22 stone (140 kg) in body weight. Just make sure your ceiling is strong!
Iroha Temari Hana Silicone Vibrator
Is it a sex toy or is it art?
Best For: Those who need discretion
If you’re worried about people finding your sex aids, then this unique artistic Japanese adult toy is perfect for you. Designed as a discreet ball which vibrates, the toy can be used for female clitoral pleasure and potentially penis pleasure too. It’s a unique piece of décor that looks more at home in an art gallery!
Ramp up the sexual intimacy!
Best For: Trying more advanced positions.
Another great piece of Liberator furniture, this sex ramp definitely doesn’t have another function – it’s designed for intercourse. It’s adjustable, comes in 5 different colors, and it’s great for getting her legs high in the air, ready for entry!
Aloe Vera Vanilla Lubricant
Best For: Making oral taste like vanilla!
Brilliant for lubricating your genitals or making oral sex taste vanilla-esque, this 95% Aloe Vera Gel-based lubricant is sold by Christian Love Toys, a company dedicated to selling sex toys for Christians. This lube comes in many different flavors, but I love vanilla personally.
Adam & Eve Kegel Balls Set
Good for your health and your sex life!
Best For: Older women.
These fancy Kegel balls sold by Adam & Eve come in 3 different weights and have a gorgeous rose gold finish to add that extra touch of sophistication and class.
Kegel balls (also known as “Ben Wa Balls”) are balls inserted into a woman’s vagina, usually throughout the day, which help to strengthen her vaginal walls and improve urinary incontinence. Some of them can also be worn during sex.
Chair With Inflatable Sex Pillow
Bouncy, sexy fun!
Best For: Alternative to your Christian bed!
Do you get sore or uncomfortable when you’re making love? Perhaps you should try the Toughage Chair with Inflatable Sex Pillow! Made from stainless steel and nylon, this durable sex chair can add fire back into any relationship.
OhMiBod Esca 2
Remote controlled G-spot fun!
Best For: Long-distance married couples.
If your spouse often works away from home and you want to keep your sex life alive while they’re gone, then try the OhMiBod Esca 2. This G-spot vibrator connects to Bluetooth and Wi-Fi so a husband can control the vibrations his wife feels from 10,000 miles away.
Lelo Sona Cruise
Best For: Clitoral play during sex.
Ladies, if you want to make sex with your husband feel even better, try using the Sona Cruise on your clitoris as he thrusts inside you. A favorite in the sexual toys store, this toy uses sonic pulses to stimulate the clitoris, reaching 75% more of your deep internal clitoral complex.
Couple Vibrator 5-Piece Gift Set
Cheeky, naughty fun!
Best For: Playing together!
Featuring a finger vibrator and a vibrating cock ring for both his and her pleasure, this fun little set is perfect for newcomers to adult toys who aren’t sure where to start! The experience in the bedroom is sublime.
Lovehoney Vagina Pump
Increase your sensitivity
Best For: Getting ready for sex.
In case you don’t know, pussy pumps are a great way to make your vagina look more enticing, increase its sensitivity, and make your lips feel tighter. Many men like the “engorged” look of a freshly-pumped vagina, while many women enjoy the increased pleasure and aesthetic too.
LoveHoney Tie & Tease Oh! Kit
Best For: More adventurous religious partners.
Cheap and cheerful, this LoveHoney BDSM kit is perfect for beginners who don’t know how to use sex toys or bondage equipment! Complete with a feather, blindfold, and a couple of handties, this is a brilliant introduction to BDSM for kinkier couples.
What Are Christian Sex Toys?
You can’t really class anything as a “Christian Sex Toy” so to speak – it’s more about marital aid products that you can use with your married partner in your marital bedroom that are in keeping with your beliefs regarding the Bible’s stance on sex toys.
Unsurprisingly, there’s nothing written in the Bible about dildos.
As such, it depends on your denomination of Christianity and how you choose to interpret scripture. You might feel that sex aids such as lubricants and cock rings help a man and woman to perform “natural” sex more easily, so they’re perfectly acceptable in the bedroom.
More liberal Christians might also believe that penis toys and clitoral vibrators can help Christian married couples to further their love and intimacy for each other.
Does God take offence to you using a vibrator with your husband or wife? That’s for you and your priest to decide.
Are Sex Toys Sinful?
So now we have to ask whether or not sex toys are sinful and violate the word of the Lord. To be fully transparent, I myself am an Agnostic who was raised Catholic until early adulthood, so I’m trying to come at this topic from a middle-ground perspective.
In my opinion, adult products are not sinful if they’re being used to strengthen the bond of marriage. As Radical Christian Woman points out, God created the orgasm so that partners would enjoy sexual pleasure together – vibrators and penis toys can be an additional way to enjoy this God-given gift of orgasm.
Like much of the Bible, God’s stance on adult products is open to interpretation.
Of course, stricter denominations of Christianity believe that penis-vagina sex is the only thing that should be occurring in a marital bed, regardless of conditions like erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness which might make sex difficult (or impossible) for loving spouses to engage in without sex aids.
Surely sex aids are only helping to make “natural sex” possible?
What Does the Bible Say About Sex Toys?
Spoiler Alert: The Bible says absolutely nothing about sex toys, so don’t let anyone tell you that they’re DEFINITELY sinful in the eyes of the Lord. However, there are a couple of commonly quoted verses which some people cite regarding this topic:
“Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Hebrews 13:4
This verse suggests that only adulterers (i.e. cheaters) and whoremongers (i.e. prostitutes) can spoil the marital bed, which is otherwise “undefiled” (pure). This verse would suggest that married people can do whatever they want in the bedroom so long as it’s with each other, though some would argue that “undefiled” means the sex should be “pure” and “normal”.
There’s another commonly cited verse:
“For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is seemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.”
Now this verse basically ties adult products in with homophobia, suggesting that anything outside of male-female sex is “unnatural” and therefore sinful. Some Christians interpret “that which is against nature” as meaning ANYTHING outside of the bodily organs of the man and woman in the marriage – any outside man/woman/beast or object (i.e. sex toy) is not therefore “natural”.
Personally, I think you should read the verses and make up your own minds about what adult toys you’re comfortable using in your bed.
So yeah, the Bible isn’t exactly clear about dildos and adult products, presumably because they weren’t widely used 2,000 years ago. 28,000-year-old stone dildos have been found in Germany and it’s well-known that the Ancient Greeks made leather dildos, so while they may have been around during both the old and new testament, sexual toys and marital aids may have been kept hush-hush.
Conclusion – Should Christians Use Marital Aids?
So, should Christian married couples use marital aids? Well, that’s up to you, your personal religious beliefs, and the way that you interpret the Bible.
Discreet sex toys like Liberator Chairs can be used as furniture or as marital aids, depending on how you use them. Is it less sinful if your sex aid also functions as a piece of bedroom furniture? Well, that’s for you to decide.
Either way, I hope you enjoyed this guide to Christian sex toys! If you have any suggestions for Christian love toys, let us know in the comments below!