Best Strapless Strap On: 11 Strap-on Dildos That Don’t Need a Harness

Many lesbians use strap-ons with their partners, but did you know that you can get strapless strap-ons held in place by the wearer’s vaginal muscles? These sex toys are most commonly used by lesbians, though heterosexual couples might use them for pegging too.

Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on to anally penetrate a man. Strap-on anal sex is easier with a harness, though strapless pegging is still possible.

In my opinion, the Fun Factory Sharevibe is the best strapless strap-on dildo that money can buy, but there are many high-quality strapless strap-on dildos available on the market. Here we take a look at the best strapless dildos and how to use them. Let’s go to it!

Best Strapless Strapon Toys

Fun Factory Sharevibe Couples Toy

Vibrations galore!Best For: Intimate lesbian sex.

Made in Germany at the dedicated Fun Factory facility, the Sharevibe is a brilliant strapless strapon designed for increased intimacy and skin-to-skin contact between partners. This lesbian sex toy includes a 5-pattern bullet vibrator that you can charge, so both partners experience pleasure without needing to run out and buy new batteries every 5 minutes.

This toy has 5.25 inches of insertable length and the body-safe silicone bends to accommodate different lesbian sex positions you might want to try. It’s also safe for anal use, so you could try it for pegging or anal dildo sex too. It’s a little bit pricey, but you get what you pay for.

The Sharevibe is made by Fun Factory, a brilliant adult toy manufacturer creating products with high-quality safe materials in their dedicated German factory. I mean, Germans are known for engineering and kinky sex, so it makes sense that they’re great at this stuff.

PROS: 5-pattern rechargeable bullet vibrator, body-safe silicone, 3 colors available

CONS: Expensive

Desire Luxury Rabbit Vibrator

Posable pony power!Best For: Intense rabbit vibrator-style clitoral stimulation while fucking.

The Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-on from LoveHoney is designed to maximize pleasure for both partners. The pony (the “bulb” that the vagina holds in place) is posable so that you can find the perfect angle for your sex position. The toy is also 100% waterproof, so cleaning this toy is easy and using it in the shower is no problem.

The USP of this toy is the rabbit vibrator style bunny ears that provide intense clitoral for the wearer. There are 8 vibration patterns and 12 vibration speed settings to explore, so both partners can find the perfect angle, pattern, and speed to suit their needs. The only downside is that it could do with a remote control.

PROS: USB rechargeable, rabbit vibrator clitoral stimulation, 100% waterproof

CONS: Buttons are hard to reach while using it

Vixen Peacemaker Double Dildo

We cum in peace.Best For: Using with or without straps

The Vixen Peacemaker is essentially a double-ended dildo, featuring a girthy realistic dildo for the receiver which measures 6.5 inches in insertable length and a slender curved dildo for the wearer which measures 5.2 inches in insertable length. It’s a very unusual design, even for a strapless strap-on, but Vixen makes some of the best women’s sex toys around.

The Peacemaker can be used as a strapless strap-on if you’re careful, though the manufacturer suggests using it with a Joque Harness if you want more stability. You might love it or loathe it, but the uniquely-designed Peacemaker is here to stay. And make peace, I guess.

PROS: 13 inches in total length, 100% platinum silicone, lifetime warranty

CONS: Some lesbians prefer non-realistic dildo designs.

Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap-on Dildo

Strap on me… in a day or twwwooooooooo.Best For: Comfortable vaginal (or anal) sex

They were a bit heavy-handed with the A-Ha puns, but the company that made this thing definitely knew what they were doing. One of the top-rated strapless strap-on dildos on LoveHoney, this toy comes with 6 inches of insertable length for the receiver and ergonomic G spot stimulation for the active partner.

This silicone strapless dildo is also easy to travel with thanks to the included drawstring storage bag, a convenient feature that many sex toy companies forget about. The only downside is that the Strap On Me doesn’t vibrate, yet the incredible shape, intimate feel, and easy-to-clean velvety silicone more than make up for it.

PROS: G-spot stimulation for the wearer, firm yet flexible design, non-realistic, drawstring bag

CONS: No vibrations

Tantus Strapless (formerly known as Tantus Feeldoe)

One of the most famous lesbian sex toys of all time.Best For: Pleasurable vibrations!

Everywhere you look, the Tantus Strapless ends up selling out. If you happen to see it in stock, I suggest buying it! While this isn’t necessarily the greatest lesbian toy ever made, Tantus has been creating incredible lesbian sex toys since 1997, giving them a strong reputation in the queer female community.

The Tantus Strapless comes with a single speed bullet vibrator and a solid construction that stays hard at a “natural angle” to simulate penetration in the most pleasurable and comfortable way possible. It’s not a great fit for everyone, but many women absolutely love this toy.

There is also a realistic penis-like version of this toy called the Tantus Real Strapless. FYI, these toys were known as the “Tantus Feeldoe” and “Tantus Realdoe” for many years until a recent name change.

PROS: Classic toy, high-quality construction, very firm, vibrations

CONS: Limited vibration patterns, sells out quickly

Fuze Tango

6.75 inches of fun!Best For: Ladies who like it large.

It takes two to tango, so I guess that’s why they gave this double-sided dildo such an elegant name. This very large toy has a whopping 6.75 inches of insertable length for the receiver and comes with 3 ridges to provide light clit stimulation for the active partner. However, SheVibe admits that this toy is better suited to use with an O-ring harness.

I don’t suggest using this during an actual Tango. That would give the ending of True Lies a very different feel.

PROS: Double-sided strap on (or strapless), clit stimulation, very large dildo

CONS: Better with straps, bullet vibrator sold separately

Tracey Cox Supersex Strapless Remote Control Vibrator

Have yourself some super sex!Best For: Remote control vibrating fun.

Boasting an impressive 3 speeds and 7 patterns, this vibrating strapless strapon is perfect for lesbians who want to make their strapless experience as convenient as possible. The one-button remote control makes it easy to change modes without reaching around for on-toy buttons, allowing your partner to enjoy the 6.5-inch shaft’s deep penetration.

Tracey Cox is a British sex and relationship expert who has her own line of high-quality sex toys sold through retailers such as LoveHoney.

PROS: Remote control for vibrations, 6.5 inch-long shaft, USB rechargeable motor

CONS: Realistic penis shape (not ideal for everyone)

Lovehoney Double Delight Adjustable Strapless Strap-on

It doesn’t look sexy, but go with it.Best For: Getting the angle just right.

Armed with a single speed vibrating bullet and a horrendously un-sexy design, the Double Delight from LoveHoney saves itself by being uniquely adjustable thanks to a solid mechanism on the exterior of the toy. If you’re struggling to get the correct angle with other strapless dildos, you might want to give this very reasonably priced lesbian toy a try!

PROS: 4.5-inch adjustable “pony” shaft, 6-inch penetrating shaft, firm-yet-flexible silicone

CONS: Slips out too easily for some users

Vixen Nexus Double Dildo

Simple yet effective.Best For: Versatility.

The Vixen Nexus Double Dildo is one in a long list of great dildos made by Vixen Creations. This double sided strap on can be used with or without a harness – some users even wear it through button-fly jeans! The main shaft is fairly girthy, but if the size intimidates you, they also sell the Nexus Junior Double Dildo so you can start small.

PROS: Decent size/girth, silicone construction

CONS: Penis-esque shape isn’t ideal for some users

How to use a Strapless Strap-on

Strapless dildos are held in place by muscles in and around your vagina called “Kegel muscles”, sometimes called your “pelvic floor muscles”. The Kegel muscles grow weaker if you’re overweight, older, or have had children, but you can strengthen them by performing Kegel exercises using Ben Wa balls (Kegel balls) or similar products.A lot of strapless toy manufacturers recommend wearing their product around the house for a few hours so that the active partner can get used to the center of gravity and holding the toy in place comfortably. Many women find that it’s similar to holding a tampon in place (albeit heavier and larger).This YouTube video shows you how to use strapless strap-ons pretty quickly.

Realistic or non-phallic?

Depending on the manufacturer, you’ll find that some strap-free strapons are shaped and colored like real penises, while others are brightly colored and generically shaped. Of course, the biggest market for these toys is lesbians, many of whom don’t want a toy that looks like a cock. Everyone’s preference is different.

Lube

Although the vagina is self-lubricating, it’s not really designed to come into long-term contact with silicone. As such, it’s a good idea to use generous amounts of water-based lube with your strapless sex toy. Silicone-based lube is a no-go with the toys on this list, as you can’t mix silicone toys with silicone-based lube (it warps and “melts” the toys).

Vaginal or anal sex?

Strapless strap-on toys are mainly designed with lesbian penetrative vaginal sex in mind. Although they could be used for anal, bear in mind that the anus is much tighter than the vagina, so penetration is more difficult. This difficult penetration could be uncomfortable for the wearer when she’s holding the toy in place with her Kegel muscles alone!

Sex positions

Many of the toys on this list, such as the LoveHoney Double Delight, can have their “pony” or “bulb” adjusted so that many different angles can be created. This opens up the door for multiple lesbian sex positions depending on your preference. If you’re using a stiffer toy, you should probably stick with a variation of the missionary position.

Curious to see strapless dildos in action? There’s loads of strapless dildo porn (NSFW!) on websites such as Pornhub. Of course, porn is never fully realistic and representative of real-life sex, but you’ll get the idea.

Why use a Strapless Strapon?

There are many reasons that lesbian couples enjoy these unique adult toys! Here are some of the benefits of strapless toys.

Skin-to-skin contact

The absence of a strap-on harness means more body-to-body contact for partners, helping them to feel closer during sex. If the product vibrates, this also helps both partners to feel the vibrations together and share a more intimate sexual experience. Maximized proximity is one of the key benefits of these products.

More “lifelike”

Although there’s some controversy in comparing lesbian sex to traditional penis-vagina sex, a strapless strap-on helps couples to recreate that “traditional” feeling of one person “fucking” the other. Some women with strapons find the harnesses to be distracting and not very lifelike or arousing.

Less interruption 

You know what isn’t super arousing when you’re both in the mood? Faffing about with your strap-on harness and messing around getting it all tightened up just right. It’s much quicker to pop a strapless dildo inside you, apply lube, and get busy! The less interruption to your sexy endeavors, the better!

Trans Men

Some pre-op trans men use realistic strapless dildos to simulate the feeling of having a penis when having sex with their partners. The Tantus Reeldoe (now the Tantus Real Strapless) is particularly popular with FTM individuals.

Plus-size Women

If larger ladies struggle to find a plus size strap on harness that fits them, strapless strap-ons could be the answer. There are no straps to fit into – you just need pelvic floor muscles of steel!

Did you know that you can get strap-ons for men? Some cisgender men use hollow strap-ons with their partners because they suffer from ED, premature ejaculation, or they just want to try something different.

Cum-clusion

Overall, the Fun Factory Sharevibe is my favorite strap-free dildo, followed by the Desire Luxury Rabbit Vibe and Adorime Strapless Strap-on. Ultimately, the Sharevibe’s adjustability, German engineering, and solid 5-pattern rechargeable vibrator give it the edge over its competitors, making intimate lesbian sex easier than ever before.I hope you enjoyed these reviews of the top-rated strapless toys for lesbians – have fun and stay safe!