34 Top Anal Toys for Men and Women

    1 in 4 straight women are having anal sex a few times a month. 15% of men are having anal sex regularly, including some straight and bisexual men. As the world becomes more educated on the joy of sex, an increasing number of men and women are goin' in the backdoor.

    Here I’ve handpicked some of the best female and male anal toys on the market, covering everything from small buttplugs to deep anal dildos and P-spot massagers. Let’s go!

    34 Best Anal Toys

    Anal Toys for Beginners

    If you’re new to anal stimulation and you’re worried about pain or discomfort, these beginner toys are great for introducing butt sex and ass play into your life.

    Calexotics Anal Explorer Kit

    Comes with a douche and everything!

    If you’re venturing into anal stimulation for the first time, the Anal Explorer Kit by Calexotics has everything you need to get started. Featuring a bulb-style anal douche for cleaning, this kit includes a small silicone probe with a suction cup (for attaching to the wall/floor) and a beaded, angled probe. Nothing too big or scary, and you even get a douche!

    Calexotics Anal Explorer Kit

    Never douched before? Our anal douching guide has all the information you need.

    “Candy Rimmer” Anal Training Kit

    Teeny tiny little buttplugs!

    This beginners anal toy set features 3 plugs with insertable lengths of 1.7 inches, 2 inches, and 3 inches, so it’s good for butt sex amateurs. All the plugs have a ring-style handle so they’re easy to pull out, and you can wash these toys easily with soap and water or by boiling them to get rid of any nasty smells. Believe me, the smells can get truly nasty with ass toys.

    “Candy Rimmer” Anal Training Kit

    Mini Silicone Plug By Pipedream

    A tiny introduction to the wonders of anal stimulation.

    This small buttplug is brilliant for anal newbies who want to get used to feeling something inside their ass. At 1-inch wide and 3 inches long, this plug is very small and unintimidating. Featuring a flared base to stop the toy from slipping inside your butt, this cheap silicone buttplug is also 100% hypoallergenic. What’s not to love?

    Mini Silicone Plug By Pipedream

    All anal sex toys should have a “flared base” to stop them from slipping inside the butt. Using toys without a flared base anally can be very dangerous.

    Amazon Anal Training Set

    Start small and get progressively larger!

    Did you know you can buy anal sex toys on Amazon? This 3-piece anal training set features 3 plug-style silicone toys that get progressively larger in size, boasting 2.75, 3.5, and 4.5 inches of insertable length. The curved shaft design of these toys make them ideal for prostate stimulation for men, though they can be used by women just as comfortably.

    Amazon Anal Training Set

    Doc Johnson Small Silicone Butt Plug

    Great for all-day wear.

    Doc Johnson anal sex toys tend to be high quality, and this plug is no exception. This small anal plug has 3 inches of insertable length with a slim design and tapered edge for easy insertion. It also has a long neck and the T-bar base is ergonomically curved, making it easy to wear comfortably all day if you’re experimenting with wearing anal plugs outside the home.

    Doc Johnson Small Silicone Butt Plug

    Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

    Maybe more intermediate than beginner.

    Slightly bigger than the other beginners’ anal toys on this list, the Calexotics 3-piece anal trainer kit features 3 silicone plugs with 4 inches, 4.25 inches, and 5 inches of insertable length. These plugs are ideal for intermediate users, though some anal newbies will be okay starting with a 4-inch plug if they use plenty of lube and relax.

    Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

    For me, water-based SLiquid Sassy is the best lube for anal. Coconut oil is a good natural alternative, while Gun Oil is a great silicone-based lube. However, you can’t use silicone-based lube with silicone toys and you can’t use oil-based lubes with condoms. Water-based is a great all-rounder!

    Lovehoney “Butt Tingler” 3.5-inch Vibe Butt Plug

    One of the best anal toys for beginners.

    This small anal plug from LoveHoney is the perfect size for experimenting with nice, tingly sensations in your bottom! Featuring a 10-function bullet vibrator with 3 speeds and 7 patterns, this toy is 100% waterproof, so you can take your rumbly butt fun into the bath or shower. It’s powered by a single AAA battery, so try to keep a pack of batteries spare or just take them out your TV remote, whatever.

    Lovehoney “Butt Tingler” 3.5-inch Vibe Butt Plug

    Best Anal Dildo Toys

    You can use a lot of dildos for butt play, but it’s better if they have certain qualities, such as a flared base and slightly curved shape. These anal dildos are all perfect for putting up your butt, whether you’re new or experienced in anal stimulation.

    Vixen Vixskin Bandit 7-inch Dildo

    Ultra-realistic butt-friendly dildo.

    Vixen are known for their high-quality dildos, and this anal dildo is no exception. The toy features a firm core and a soft exterior, helping it to feel lifelike. There are 3 different skintones available and a lovely 7 inches of insertable length to explore. If you’re fairly experienced with anal play, you might wanna treat yourself to a Bandit!

    Vixen Vixskin Bandit 7-inch Dildo

    Metropol Silicone Dildo

    Inspired by Art Deco and Retro Futuristic styles, this unique Etsy dildo comes with 6.25 inches of insertable length, a flared base, and an unusual shape designed for aggressive P-spot stimulation in men (though it can be used by women too). The selling point with this toy is the unique aesthetic, but the shape probably lends itself to more experienced anal players.

    Metropol Silicone Dildo

    If Gatsy was gonna try anal, this is the dildo he’d use… old sport.

    Gläs 8-inch Textured Glass Dildo

    Sexy glass for the ass.

    This impressive swirling glass dildo boasts 8 inches of insertable length and an impressive reinforced borosilicate glass construction. Because this anal dildo is glass, it can be used with any lubricant, and you can cool it down or heat it up in water for temperature play. Nonetheless, it’s very stiff (obviously) and large, so it’s not a beginners anal toy!

    Gläs 8-inch Textured Glass Dildo

    VixSkin Mustang 6.25-inch Dildo

    Slightly less intimidating than the Bandit.

    Available in 3 skintones and a fabulous rainbow design, the VixSkin Mustang is a realistic silicone dildo with 6.25 inches of insertable length and 1.5 inches of diameter. The skin-like material retains body heat, and the flared base makes it suitable for anal play or using with a harness if you’re looking for strap ons or pegging toys.

    VixSkin Mustang 6.25-inch Dildo

    5-inch Bi-pearlescent Anal Dildo

    The fanciest sex toy in town

    These Etsy dildos are customizable, allowing you to combine 2 colors to create a unique and artsy bi-pearlescent sex toy creation. These small dildos are 5 inches long and are designed to mimic a small finger, so they’re perfect if you’re exploring butt sex for the first time. To be honest, I’d probably put these dildos on display. They’re bloody beautiful.

    5-inch Bi-pearlescent Anal Dildo

    If you’re looking for more extreme big anal toys, Etsy do large tentacle dildos and The Stockroom has a range of extra large anal toys.

    Best Buttplug Ass Toys

    Butt plugs are pleasurable for the wearer, but they can also be used to help stretch your ass before an anal sex session, making the sex easier and more comfortable for you. They come in various shapes and sizes, but these butt plugs are some of my favorites.

    Lovehoney Classic Silicone Medium Plug

    Basic intermediate-level buttplug.

    This toy is ideal for intermediate buttplug users looking to try something a little bigger. This toy has 5 inches of insertable length and 5.5 inches of maximum circumference, so it gives you a nice feeling of fullness throughout the day. Because it’s made from body safe silicone, it’s also easy to clean via boiling or bleaching.

    Lovehoney Classic Silicone Medium Plug

    Our how to clean sex toys guide has more detailed information on sex toy cleaning.

    NJoy Pure Plug

    Weighty stainless steel buttplug.

    NJoy are known for their stainless steel sex toys, and their range of steel buttplugs are held in high regard by the sex toy community. The NJoy Pure Plug comes in different sizes for different experience levels, and the steel construction means you can use them with any lubricant you like. Nice.

    NJoy Pure Plug

    Although you can wear these plugs all day, they’re very heavy, so I wouldn’t recommend it.

    Inflatable Butt Plug

    Does what it says on the tin

    This inflatable buttplug from Stockroom is 5 inches long and comes with a hand-pump for easy inflation. It’s made from high-quality latex and comes with an air pressure release valve when you want the fun to end. It’s a unique design that’s brilliant if you enjoy a nice girthy toy in your ass.

    Inflatable Butt Plug

    I don’t recommend wearing this toy outside your home. If it suddenly deflates, it would sound like the most obnoxious fart ever.

    Fun Factory “B-Balls”

    Kinda like Ben Wa Balls, but for your ass

    Made in Germany by sex toy giants Fun Factory, this unique sex toy is a buttplug meets anal beads meets Ben Wa balls. Basically, you insert this 5-inch toy into your bottom and the 2 balls on the inside rattle and rotate around as you walk and move around, adding extra internal sensations to the party. Fun stuff.

    Fun Factory “B-Balls”

    Anal Fantasy Large Buttplug

    Get wide and girthy!

    If you enjoy a feeling of fullness in your bottom but a deep anal dildo isn’t for you, perhaps this 2-inch-wide and 4.25-inch-long silicone butt plug is the toy for you. There’s a tapered point and a narrow neck to help your sphincter muscles hold it in place for as long as you want. It’s also a decent price, so that’s nice.

    Anal Fantasy Large Buttplug

    Faux Fur Fox Tail Buttplug

    Fancy getting foxy with some roleplay?

    If you wanna release your inner fox, what better way to do it than with a faux fur fox tail buttplug? There are various plug sizes available from 2.7-inch to 3.6-inch and you can choose from metal or silicone plugs to suit your personal preference.

    Faux Fur Fox Tail Buttplug

    There are places selling real fox fur versions of this, but I can’t personally justify killing a fox for the sake of roleplay.

    Icicles Red Glass Anal Plug

    I mean, just look at it. It’s gorgeous.

    If you’re looking for an opulent anal plug, look no further. This glass rose-shaped buttplug has around 2.5 inches of insertable length and is made from handblown glass. It’s definitely one of the best glass sex toys I’ve come across, although I wouldn’t use it for all-day wear. I don’t imagine that sitting on a glass rose is very comfortable.

    Icicles Red Glass Anal Plug

    Top Anal Bead Toys

    When you move anal beads in and out, they stimulate erogenous zones in the anus. It’s more common these days to find anal beads that are formed a bit like a probe or a beaded dildo, as it’s less likely that the beads will snap off. Personally, I’m fine with that. Safety first and all that.

    Tantus Ripple Anal Beads for Beginners

    We’ve all gotta start somewhere.

    These anal beads are great for beginners and intermediate bum sex fans. The Tantus Ripple beads (which are actually more like bumpy dildos) comes in small and large sizes – the smallest size graduates up to 1 inch of width and 5 inches of length, while the larger size goes up to 1.5 inches of width and 6 inches of length.

    Tantus Ripple Anal Beads for Beginners

    Lovehoney 8-inch Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

    Is it a dildo or is it anal beads?

    Here we have another dildo-meets-anal-beads Frankenstein sex toy – the beaded glass dildo from Lovehoney. This toy is made from handblown reinforced glass and measures a whopping 8 inches in length. It could be used for prostate stimulation if you’re male, though I wouldn’t recommend going past the last bead because it acts as a flared base.

    Lovehoney 8-inch Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo

    Most high-quality glass sex toys are made from a form of reinforced glass which is designed to withstand shattering and extreme temperatures.

    7.5-inch Amazon Anal Beads

    7 and a half inches of bum fun!

    These beads from Amazon measure 7.5 inches long and feature 7 unique beads down the length of the toy. Rather than increasing in size, the beads vary in size along the toy, keeping the sensations interesting. If you’re worried about toys being hard to pull out of your ass, there’s actually a ring-pull handle for easy removal. Good stuff.

    7.5-inch Amazon Anal Beads

    Calexotics Booty Beads

    Cheap, cheerful, and well-made anal beads.

    These very affordable anal beads are 4.5 inches long and come to 1.25 inches at the widest point, so they’re good for amateurs and intermediate bead fans. There’s a retrieval ring handle for easy removal, which is great if you’re crap at pulling out beads like I am.v

    Calexotics Booty Beads

    Top Anal Vibrators (Vibrating Anal Toys)

    Anal vibrators are usually plug-style anal sex toys which come with single-speed or multi-speed vibrating bullets inside. Many are waterproof, and some are even USB rechargeable. Vibrating butt toys help to add new levels of pleasure to the anal experience, whether you’re alone at home or wearing a toy in public.

    Anal Beads Butt Plug Vibe

    16 vibration modes of fun!

    Boasting an impressive 16 vibration modes, this bead-shaped Amazon butt plug is made from body-safe silicone and features a T-shaped base for easy removal. The beads get gradually bigger and you push the toy deeper inside, and it’s waterproof so you can use it in the shower.

    Anal Beads Butt Plug Vibe

    This is apparently the Amazon #1 Best Seller in “Anal Beads”. I didn’t realize that Amazon had a whole anal beads section until today.

    Tom Of Finland Anal Toy Vibe

    Get used to taking it up the ass.

    If you wanna get used to the feel of a cock in your ass, this Tom Of Finland anal toy is a good place to start. The penis-shaped plug has 4.5 inches of insertable length and is around 1.5 inches at the widest point, so it’s pretty large. It houses a bullet vibrator, but sadly it’s only 1 single speed. Alas, you can’t win ‘em all.

    Tom Of Finland Anal Toy Vibe

    Dual Motor Wireless Anal Probe

    A butt toy you can charge through your laptop.

    This USB rechargeable vibrating anal probe comes with 12 vibration functions and 2 motors, so you get 2 points of vibrations rumbling around inside your anus. The flexible silicone adjusts to your body movements, giving this toy a lot of versatility and points on the comfort scale.

    Dual Motor Wireless Anal Probe

    Whenever I hear the word “anal probe”, I can’t help but think of that scene in South Park where Butters is anally probed for “testing”. I promise it’s not like that.

    B-vibe Snug Butt Plug

    Vibrate all day long.

    The B-Vibe comes in various different sizes, all of which have 6 levels of vibration intensity. The unusual shape of the B-vibe makes it difficult to get in and out, but it’s ideal for all-day wear because it isn’t going to slip out accidentally. Combine all of this with USB charging and you’ve got yourself one of the best anal vibrators on the market.

    B-vibe Snug Butt Plug

    Best Anal Toys for Prostate Stimulation

    The prostate is the "male G spot" found 2-3 inches inside a man’s rectum. A prostate toy, used correctly, can lead to some of the most mind-blowing prostate orgasms on the face of the Earth. Some prostate toys use vibrations while others rely on your sphincter and PC muscles for massage. Our prostate stimulation guide has more info.

    Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager

    Hands-down the best orgasm I’ve ever had

    P-spot stimulation is no joke – this toy has made me cum hands-free 3 times now. The pleasure is unreal. Once you learn how to use Aneros massagers, you open up a whole new world of sexual exploration. This toy is made from medical-grade silicone with an ABS plastic core, so it’s totally body safe and easy to sanitize in boiling water if smells become a problem.

    Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager

    If you want to hear me sing this toy’s praises even more, check out our Aneros Helix Syn Trident review or our best prostate toys YouTube video. It truly is one of the best anal toys I’ve ever used. The pleasure is some otherworldly shit.

    Lelo Hugo Remote Control Vibrating Prostate Massager

    The future of prostate massagers is here

    The Lelo Hugo is a well-made vibrating prostate toy which comes with a remote control to change vibration settings. However, the remote control also contains sensors which allow you to control the vibration strength by holding the remote at different angles. The shape of the toy is perfect for hitting the P-spot (at least for me) and it’s USB rechargeable too.

    Lelo Hugo Remote Control Vibrating Prostate Massager

    Aneros Maximus Trident Prostate Massager

    Bigger, stiffer, and meaner than the Helix Syn

    The Aneros Maximus Trident is a P-spot toy constructed from body-safe ABS plastic. The toy is ideal for more experienced Aneros users, as the stiff construction can take its toll on your sphincter muscles after a while. This toy is capable of very powerful orgasms and even the Super O if you know how to use it. The only downside? It can dig into the perineum uncomfortably.

    Aneros Maximus Trident Prostate Massager

    “Super O” refers to the “super orgasm” that Aneros prostate toys can produce if used correctly. It often takes several months of practice, but the pleasure is incredible. I’ve only reached the “Super O” 2 or 3 times, but I’m always continuing my pleasurable search.

    NJoy Purewand Stainless Steel Wand

    Unisex G-spot fun

    The NJoy Purewand has a reputation as one of the best sex toys on the market. Why? Because it can be used to stimulate a man’s P-spot or a woman’s G-spot. This smooth, weightly, stainless steel wand is perfectly curved for anal play and you can easily sanitize it by boiling it in hot water or bleaching it. Truly an all-rounder for everyone.

    NJoy Purewand Stainless Steel Wand

    Aneros Vice 2

    The only vibrating Aneros toy!

    The Aneros Vice 2 is the only prostate toy from Aneros which vibrates, boasting a dedicated remote control which makes it easy to flick through different settings and intensities. There are 18 patterns and 4 vibration speeds available, giving you 72 different sensations to explore. There are dual motors which create pivoting motions, and the toy/remote are USB rechargeable.

    Aneros Vice 2

    Just when you thought Aneros anal toys couldn’t get any better, they put big fucking motors in them.

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    Cum-clusion. Best anal toys

    I hope you enjoyed this guide to the best anal toys for men and women! Lots of people are scared to put things up their butt due to the fear of poop or discomfort, but with the right preparation, good lube, and a high-quality sex toy, there is plenty of pleasure to be derived from good ol’ anal stimulation.

    Basically, put a towel down and don’t have a curry beforehand.

    About The Author ~ J.C. Way


    I’ve never been afraid to stick things up my butt or pop my cock into something – why wouldn’t you want to make your sex life better? I aim to smash down stigmas and introduce men and women to sex toys that change their lives.

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